How do you learn to wait and endure, and why do you learn to endure?

Wait''A person's contribution is not worth it, only willing and unwilling, giving roses to others, and there is fragrance in the hand. As long as you have a clear conscience, you will be rewarded for your efforts, but it is only a matter of time before you do.

Patience''Put your mind at peace, everything is not so complicated, it's just that we think about it too much.

In fact, waiting and patience requires a certain amount of grasping and understanding whether something is worth the effort you have to make for it.

Why don't you read a book on psychology? Books are spiritually helpful; I often see it, because it helps people build mental quality, you might as well give it a try;

When you know you need to wait, do something that interests you. In the face of something that I can't bear, take a deep breath and think to myself, this is nothing, anger hurts the body, and suffers from yourself. Hehe,,, it should be fine.

This is one of the signs that a person goes from immaturity to maturity.

If you have more experience and understanding, you will be able to do it naturally.

Because you will find that only you are not in a hurry, wait patiently, or learn to endure.

Things will go the way you want them to.

Good luck!

The most effective thing is to improve one's self-cultivation, always remind oneself to remain rational, carry out self-suggestion, have the courage to admit oneself, compare one's heart with one's heart in everything, judge things on the basis of things, put oneself in one's shoes, and gradually overcome oneself.

1. Consciousness control.

2. Admit yourself.

3. Push the people.

Put your mind at peace. Think more about happy things, think more about others, relax your heart, sooner or later you will succeed, and you will have more and more friends.

In fact, 1 sentence, the things you see are basically fleeting, in fact, you really have to learn this, you still have to rely on yourself to push yourself! As long as you have firm faith, you will be able to do it! Believe in yourself and come on!

Maybe we don't have enough experience in life.

So I can't control my temper very well.

One day, I saw a quote from a friend.

When you're in a bad mood, you can use it to comfort yourself.

The sun rises over the East China Sea to see the West Mountain, and it is sad for a day, and happy for a day.

If you don't drill the horns of the bull in case of trouble, people are also comfortable, and your heart is also comfortable.

Good luck with a smile! (.'''.)

Remind yourself, or ask someone to help remind you.

Oh, wait and endure.

You have to let go of everything.

Don't take it too seriously.

Tell yourself that it's useless to be anxious and to get angry.

Just wait a minute, bear with me.

Time will give you a good answer.

Be patient with everything.

A lifetime of regrets. How many heroes have regretted it throughout the ages, so what should be endured is to lie down and taste the courage and don't tell people, people are under great pressure, but they must be stronger.

Are you satisfied with this answer?

Haha,I'm the best at this.,But I don't know how to develop it.,Perhaps,You always think highly of yourself to look at others should be OK.,But,Attention,It's not high.,And don't show contempt for others.。。。I never look down on anyone, because it's just a difference in experience, so I can forgive everything (except insults to my loved ones).

To endure is to endure Don't talk anything How bad the words are Remember a word How bad the words are, you must be able to endure halfway.

When you are angry, swallow the words you are about to say and tell yourself to be calm!

Friend, no matter how much others say, it is useless, this requires you to sum up your own experience in life

On the surface, I can't make a very angry appearance.,I'm slowly venting when I get home.。

Give up hope in this person

Marriage is a complex course, and it cannot be managed by simply "forbearance" and "change".

Even if you forbear, you must be willing, and your heart will rise and endure with joy; Even if it changes, it is natural and the heart approves of the change.

How to endure, how to change, how to do your own behavior, are all sincere and need to be learned.

Blindly tolerating and unprincipledly pleasing you will not get you the married life you want.

In married life, two people are supposed to treat each other as equals, but in real life, many couples are always fighting for control. This is what we often say, the person in the family who "has the final say" is in charge.

This "finalist" party hopes that the other party will absolutely obey him, and there can be no opposing voices, even if there are different opinions, they are reserved, so that this side has been in a state of tolerance, otherwise life cannot continue.

This kind of way of wanting to show one's superiority by controlling the other party is actually not really treating the other party as a member of the family, let alone treating the other party as the person you love. Because people who really love each other will not want to live with each other in this way, let alone let each other blindly tolerate it.

chose to blindly tolerate one party, and did not exchange the other party's peace of mind because of his own compromise, but often in exchange for intensification. Because they have become accustomed to your forbearance, they still regard your forbearance as respect and authority.

How can someone with such a strong sense of control change their face because of your forbearance? That's your optimistic imagination.

Some people may think that it is normal for two people to have contradictions and conflicts together, and they can't get divorced because of some quarrels, right? It doesn't hurt to bear with the other party.

I agree with this point of view, but when you encounter a problem, you have to tolerate it, and you have to endure it all the time, then it is not right. Unless you are willing to endure it all the time, then it is your own choice, and others have no right to interfere.

However, if you don't accept the state of being tolerant all the time, then you need to change yourself. Because only if you change yourself can you change this unequal state of life.

The beginning of change can start with no longer tolerating.

It may make you scared and even be violently acted upon, but you have to remember that if you still blindly put up with it, the consequences will be worse than this. So change now.

If the other party fights because you no longer tolerate it, call the police immediately to protect yourself.

Only when you are truly strong can the status quo change.

Remember, blindly forbearance will not get you the married life you want.