Why do I always feel like I m living for someone else?

Maybe we're not living for someone else. In life, for the sake of harmony, we will also subordinate to others and change ourselves a little, not for others! Sometimes, to live for someone may be to use that person as a spiritual support.

Why make yourself so tired? Just be harmonious, and don't let yourself lose yourself for anything.

I feel that way too! It's really tiring to be connected with other people with interests. I want to live my own way, but others blindly obstruct me, anyway, no one makes me free.

Haha, no one in the world lives this for their own life!

Your life is not only for you, but also for your family.

It's so easy for people to live, but that's life.

It's so tiring to live, and the most important thing is that you don't have the right to give up on life.

In fact, living for others is also living. Some people live for ideals and goals, and some people live to live a plain life, and some people live to wait for the appearance of a certain person, etc., people live to continue their lives, people will always have the day of birth, old age, sickness and death, and when that day you will find out how beautiful it is to live, then you will know why you live, everyone's lifestyle, experience, and results will be different, which are worth it and which are not worth it, only you know, Fate is in your own hands, you feel that you are living for others, that is because maybe those people are the people you have been waiting for, maybe you think he is the person who is worthy of you to live for them, people will experience a lot of things in their lives, know many people and come into contact with many people, kind people often feel that they are living for others, but they are all happy, aren't they!

Thank you for the trouble to adopt!

People are meant to live for others, for their children, for their families, for everything. Put yourself in the right position.

I always feel like I'm living for someone else:

1.First of all, correct your mentality.

2.Don't keep getting on the tip of the bull's horns.

3.If you have time, go out for a walk, and travel to relax.

In life, how many people can live as they want? ：

1.After all, most people are begging for a living, so you should correct your mindset first.

2.Don't go to the tip of the horns, unless you're the kind of person who was born with a golden spoon in your mouth, and you don't need anything at home. Who else doesn't live in someone else's life?

Parents, children, of course this is a responsibility, if you have to say that he lives for others, it is a psychological problem.

3.In or you belong to the kind of person who has a very wide heart, and feels that you can tolerate everyone, including friends, and even strangers, and are always thinking about others, for fear of not being able to live up to others, that is your character, indicating that you should be very good, which has advantages and disadvantages, if so, you hate yourself now, you can change, of course, you have to let yourself not care too much about other people's thoughts, as long as you are worthy of others, then you have to be worthy of yourself.

So, no matter what the situation is, first of all, you have to correct your mentality, you can't put pressure on yourself, you can try to change if you hate a certain normal life, if there is the kind of person who usually gives a dollar, and suddenly gives 5 cents for some reason and gets angry, then stay away, you don't owe him. In the end, I hope you will get better and better.

Then you try to live for yourself, you always feel a little tired to live for others, it's unfair to yourself, you do a lot, it's all for others, and others appreciate it, but people live for a lifetime, you must live for yourself once.

That's because you care too much about what others think of you and always want to be the best version of yourself in front of others. That's impossible, how can there be perfect people, no matter how you behave well, there will be people who hate you and look at you unpleasantly. Human personalities are inherently different.

Just do your best and do your part. Just be happy regardless of what other people think.

You just have too soft a heart, and you must live for yourself once in this life.

The reason why you always feel that you are living for others is because you love to help others, and others are used to it, and you always don't want to offend people, so you always feel tired, and you feel that everything you have arranged by others.

There are really very few people who can live only for themselves in real life.

This may be a bit tiring, but from another point of view, it also reflects your value to others, and if no one needs you, wouldn't it be even sadder.

Then change your feelings and live a selfish life.

Life comes to the world for oneself and for one's family.

When we were still an embryo, we were expected to be born by our family, and our birth brought infinite vitality to the family.

Our eyes can see colors, our ears can hear wonderful sounds, our ** can feel the gentle wind, warm sunshine, our nose can breathe fresh air, delicious food, fresh flowers, which is not happiness?

In fact, eating, drinking, lazing and sleeping are a kind of happiness, all of which are worthy of gratitude, what I want to say is to start every day's life with a grateful heart, to bring happiness to the people around us every day, to have, to create, to cherish the ordinary happiness around us.

I can't understand why the meaning of life needs to be explained, to be alive is to exist, to exist is to be reasonable, that everyone who strives to live is worthy of celebration, and why there are additional conditions to be worthy of life itself. Everyone advocates freedom and equality, but he personally divides people into three, five, nine, and so on. What I saw was the heavy rain and the delivery staff who bowed their heads and apologized only to beg not to give bad reviews, and I also saw the disgusted eyes of a sweeping aunt walking by, and I couldn't understand who gave the right to divide the "good students" and "bad students" people are the products of nature, from nature will also return to nature, life is a gift from God, and death is the result of its promise.

It is such a sacred thing, but it is distorted by the world as a large purgatory, if a person cannot achieve fame, he is a failure, a person does not have a happy and beautiful marriage, he is a failure, he did not achieve excellent results when he was a student, he is also a ......failure

Yu Hua wrote in "Alive": "Man lives for the sake of being alive itself, not for anything other than being alive. "That's true.

To live, you have to toss wholeheartedly. Life may not be as good as you think, but it's not as bad as you think.

Human life has the meaning of existence, living for oneself and for others, existence will unconsciously affect others and oneself, live in the present.

For others, in fact, it is also for yourself, for yourself, and for others.