Is it better to be sad and indifferent or sunny and enthusiastic? 10

Sunshine and enthusiasm are definitely more popular. Sadness and indifference give people the feeling that no one is close. I don't think anyone would want to pay attention to a sad and indifferent person. If you smile at people, they will smile at you.

There is no good or bad thing to do, and it is only a matter of right or wrong which one you choose. Since we want to exist well in this society, we must learn to adapt, and indeed, people can never be separated from the group. Who can be so lucky that they will always be understood?

If you are sad and indifferent, how can people understand your sadness, and how can you understand the feelings of others? You're not alone.

The idea of moderation has its own merits. Realistically speaking, sunshine and enthusiasm are good, because such a society still needs positive people. The personality is cold and difficult to make friends.

Sad and indifferent, you feel good about yourself, others feel that you are neurotic, you are dragging a hair, and you want to drag Lao Tzu more tastefully than you drag.

Sunshine and enthusiasm you feel good about yourself, others feel good about you, very good, like you very much, others like you, others love to see you, like to talk to you, can you feel bad?

If it's a gangster, it doesn't matter, the focus is on the heart; If you are in love, you should have both; If you are a good young man who is positive and likes to make friends, of course, it is sunny and enthusiastic.

It's not good, sad and indifferent, how can you accept Sunshine and enthusiasm, in case he and she are not only enthusiastic about you.

People have two sides, indifference does not mean that they are not kind, enthusiasm does not mean that they are not hypocritical, they are sparse and natural, polyglot people are untrustworthy, and if they say more, they will lose, of course, there will often be the advantages of this person, and if they are put to others, they may be shortcomings, and that person's shortcomings are often the advantages of another person, sometimes if the temperament is not very good, someone will respect it, and if he is not kind-hearted, no one will say that he is stupid, everyone has their own outlook on life, values, or maturity or immaturity.

Even saints who are not prone to make mistakes are often laughed at by people, and it is really not enough to be honest without laughing.

You don't find goodness anywhere else, you have to find it within yourself.

The Buddha said that you are angry because you are not generous enough. You are depressed because you are not open-minded enough; You are anxious because you are not calm enough; You are sad because you are not strong enough; You are melancholy because you are not sunny enough; You are jealous because you are not good enough......In all these things, the root of every problem is in oneself. Therefore, every time a problem arises, it is an opportunity for us to find our own shortcomings. It is not a magnifying glass to measure the rights and wrongs of others.

Similar words, there are many terrible things in the Buddhist scriptures.

Is it? My classmates around me say that I am very cold to people, I don't smile often, and I often keep a straight face, so I don't see anyone who is more respected than someone who treats people warmly, and I am not bullied by others.

In fact, there is nothing wrong with being ruthless.

It depends on what type you belong to, just like my name is: The former quarrel who can't kill me makes me stronger, I'm the wild wolf in the forest and I'm the strongest!

Trouble, thank you!

People live to experience joys and sorrows, birth, old age, sickness and death, in order to understand what people live for? In order to realize their own ideals, pursuits, goals, desires and values. Life is very tiring and hard Because society is very unfair, life is very helpless Sad and sad to cry, find something to do, it is not boring Because life is like this No one's life is smooth sailing As long as you work hard, it will be wonderful!

Be optimistic about anything and keep a normal heart. Just remember: don't give up this second, there will be a miracle in the next second Life is inevitable to fall and wait Be brave to look up The sunshine is always after the wind and rain!

I'll give you advice, can you see it? 1.Look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone when you were walking, others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you was actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, why not be happy every day".

2.If you think that you are in a bad mood, you will be in a bad mood, then you don't need to think about it, if you still want to, then keep yourself busy, let yourself have no time to think about it, let yourself live every minute to the fullest, and then don't fall in love with the bed after waking up in the morning, get up when you wake up, get busy, open the window, breathe in the fresh morning air, relax your whole body, and let yourself imagine a happy little angel ...... 3.Choose a place with fresh air, quiet surroundings, soft light, undisturbed and free movement, and take a position that you feel comfortable in, standing, sitting or lying down.

4.Move some large joints and muscles of the body, the speed should be even and slow when doing it, and the action does not need to have a certain format, as long as you feel the joints let go and the muscles relax. 5.

Take a deep breath, inhale slowly and exhale slowly, saying "relax" in your mind whenever you exhale. 6.Focus your attention on some everyday objects.

For example, look at a flower, a little candlelight, or anything soft and beautiful, and look closely at its subtleties. Light some spices and inhale the aroma of it. 7.

Close your eyes and try to imagine some tranquil and beautiful scenes, such as blue waters, golden sandy beaches, white clouds, mountains and water. 8.Do activities that you enjoy that have nothing to do with the specific things at hand.

For example, swimming, taking a hot bath, shopping, listening, watching TV, etc. 9.Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy.

Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost like you, but they are all living happily, not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter how your life is, I believe it is wonderful. Go for it! Finally, I wish you a happy life!

Now it's a society of monetary interests, and there is so much enthusiasm.

Remove the word gray Tai, and there is only ...... wolf leftWhy, just because women nowadays like wolves...! Take your time to understand.

Yes, but whether you love him or not, you also need to be sincere and relative.

A young heart should be full of goodness.

I'm still young and I feel happy.

I'm alive, and I feel like there's still a lot of things I don't understand, and it's fun to be alive.

Since you know that you are sad and sad, and you want to see depression, it means that you don't have any problems, don't think that you have a problem. Socialize more with people, and look at the strengths of others, and it will be easier to get along.