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It's just the fear of rejection, you don't know what happened to you being rejected after you confessed to her, can you still be friends like before, will she avoid you when she sees you, will she ignore you in the future, afraid that you will never go back to the past, too many embarrassing images appear in your mind, and you find that you can't deal with it, so you hesitate. But if we don't try hard, how do we know that we won't succeed and will be rejected, hard work may not be successful, but if we don't work hard, we will not succeed, although there will be the embarrassment and sadness of rejection, but you like her, then continue to be cheeky and chase, at least you have to be right for your own liking.
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It may be that there are many reasons for low self-esteem, such as feeling that your appearance is not good, feeling that your economic conditions are not good, and some are inferiority complexes buried by your original family, which all prompt you to think that you are not worthy of the other party. Although we can change ourselves through plastic surgery, it is no longer yourself, although it can improve your inferiority complex caused by appearance, but treating the symptoms but not the root cause cannot change your fragile psychology due to your appearance. If the economic conditions are not good, we can improve our confidence by working hard to improve our ability, and it is a very self-confident thing to be recognized by colleagues and superiors in work and ability.
In addition, the inferiority complex left by the original family, this kind of thing can only be slowly improved, understand ourselves, discover ourselves, believe in ourselves, examine the fragile area of our hearts, and remind ourselves to slowly improve it and overcome it. Therefore, if we have low self-esteem, we should participate more in things that give full play to our strengths, and improve our self-confidence in some things in ordinary times.
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Try to confess. Confessing to a girl doesn't have to be the first thing to say: "I love you!"
This kind of straightforward approach must be based on a good foundation, otherwise it will frighten the girls. At first, you can say something hazy to her, such as: You are so good, it really convinces me; I've been so happy since I got to know you that sometimes I can barely sleep at night; Looking at your cute appearance, my heart melts, and you get it to pick it up in my heart......
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In the face of the girl you like, as a boy, you have to have more courage, generally girls don't like cowardly people of the opposite sex. If you don't dare to confess to her openly, at least find an opportunity to ask the other party privately, find a place for the two of you, create some romance, and say what you want to say in your heart, even if you fail, you won't be so embarrassed.
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It was when I was in junior high school, I liked the boy who sat behind me, I liked him for three years, I sat in the front row of him for three years, and I didn't confess to him, and the whole class could see that I liked him, only him, and I didn't know if he knew or didn't. When I was in my first year of high school, I was no longer in the same school, and some of my classmates kept encouraging me to confess to him. One day I really said it, I told him on QQ, but he told me at that time, "Our task now is to study hard", although I agreed with his statement, but I still didn't get the results I wanted.
After three years of high school, I had less and less contact with him, and finally we were both admitted to college, but I found that I seemed to have been chasing him as my goal. We didn't get into a city, of course, our relationship was so plain, now I think this is the best, because only friends will not really be lost, now I just hope that he is getting better and better. After telling my story, I think you should know how to do it!
Believe that no matter what choice you make, you are right!
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If you really like it, don't run away from it. Tell yourself that I can do it, as long as I try, even if I fail! Be brave enough to tell the other party that you like him (her), maybe you will be rejected, at least let him (her) know your heart, and there will always be fewer regrets in the future.
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Be bold and confess before you know the result. If she agrees, everyone will be happy. If she rejects you, it proves that she knows you again from this moment, and she can continue to confess next time. If you don't dare to do it, in case she is robbed of someone, won't you regret dying!
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Brother, don't dare to confess to girls, the only way is to go on a blind date, go on a blind date a few more times, exercise your guts, and you will dare to confess to girls after a year.
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What if you don't dare to tell the girl you like? Your aim is to make the girl you like accept you as her boyfriend. Confession is only one of the means.
Therefore, it is not necessarily wrong to be afraid to express yourself. You need to understand how she feels about you. If she doesn't like you, you're better off not telling her.
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Maybe your personality is more introverted, so you don't dare to confess to girls, in this case you don't want to confess to her, you can participate in his life, get close to him, care more about her, and be together often, girls will slowly like you, and you will have the opportunity to confess.
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People are dependent on fate, there is a fate to meet thousands of miles, what we have to do is to try to make our life without regrets, if possible, try to fight, maybe it will achieve a good marriage! It is recommended that you chase boldly, the worst result is just rejection, what's the big deal, friends can't do it, don't do it, if the confession is successful, you won't have regrets in your life!
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If you really fall in love with a girl, then you don't have to be in a hurry to confess, the important thing is that you try to get close to the girl, such as study problems, or work problems, intentionally or unintentionally approach her, and only confess when the conditions are ripe.
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Let the brothers push you, or on April Fool's Day, you can have a bottle of liquor, you can be a girlfriend when you enter, and you can be a brother when you retire.
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You are afraid of being rejected by girls, and you have no face, but have you thought about it, you don't confess, and when others confess successfully, you will regret it.
So you have to have the courage to confess.
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Holding my breath, I thought to myself how I would do something else if I didn't confess that I couldn't figure it out to both women.
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