Excuse me, how can I have such a mentality, how to solve it, thank you, good points

Want to do something, but can't find the direction What can you do without direction?

What do you want to give up, but you can't find yourself, and you can't find yourself, what can you give up?

There are ideas but little motivation.

There is motivation but less persistence.

There is persistence, but there are many obstacles.

Love is there, career is starting, but the heart is lost

People are awake, but their feet are sleepwalking

What are you doing? What can be done?

Calm maturity, don't grow impetuously.

More than one line is not beneficial.

Do you find that interesting? In this way, you will hurt a lot of people, and you may miss the good girl in your life like this, don't do it again, send you a sentence: "People can leave anything, but they can't leave regrets", it is not us who can really help you, but yourself, do you understand?

Look at the yellow jokes, just quit.

I think you're like this because of the people around you, and you're trying to find someone you love.

See your doctor. Didn't perfunctory your jacket.

Truth or say.

Since you think that you rationally think that you are doing something meaningless, but you are persistent, then there must be subconscious content in it.

In your description, you find that you like the "I am right and you are wrong" mentality, so when you find something that fits this pattern, you always can't help but point out the mistakes of others, and when others rebel against your notion, the more you stick to this notion. The more someone denies their mistakes, the more you have to point out that they are wrong (you are right) until they admit your ideas.

Behind this mindset is your lack of self-confidence, by pointing out the mistakes of others, projecting your own unconfidence onto the other person's head, and deflecting the pain of that lack of confidence.

Only by admitting that you are a person who combines self-confidence and inferiority, rather than only self-confidence, desperately rejecting inferiority, can you be liberated from this phenomenon.

Say one sentence, top ten sentences.

It's about people like you.

Solution:1Pretending to be sluggish.

2.Kind smile.

3.Euphemistic tone.

4.Mind shifts.

Why correct, there is no argument about where the truth comes from! That's not a problem!

I think the only thing that needs to be paid attention to is to carefully organize the ideological language when arguing, and not to be angry, but to be kind to the debate!

It is also useful to have a good speech! If you can convince people most of the time, you can do it!

So don't worry too much, I think you can carry it forward and exercise!

It's good to debate, don't hurt the peace.

It should be competitive and show yourself, I think it will be better if you get beaten a few times.

It's none of your business, hang high.

Let me ask you a question, are you always busy looking at other people's mistakes, can you do your own things well? Instead of being busy picking on other people's mistakes, it is better to make yourself less mistakes, in addition, people are not sages, who can do nothing, it is correct to treat mistakes with a normal heart, it is normal for us to make mistakes, and it is not normal to not make mistakes So it is okay to point out mistakes, but you should pay attention to the way, after all, other people's mistakes, others need to be responsible, just stop in moderation It is his business whether he accepts it or not, and there is no need to argue

Forbearance is also a virtue.

If you want to know how to save face for others, you just need to understand it yourself, and there is no need to keep talking if others don't listen.

At the same time, if you care, you can do something else to distract you.

It's nothing, it's good to have more life experience.

When you encounter something inconsequential and want to talk about it, run away, or wash your face, or drink water, if you take out your phone outside to play, walking away is the best, in fact, I also think, if you are really sad, just find an obstacle, such as a tree, hit it, I mean really.

Don't think about it, you just like to raise the bar, and there are indeed people like you in society, and there are a lot of them. You don't have to think about it, let it be, but people with this kind of personality have no problems in school, but if they enter society, they will be killed in secret.

A little paranoid can change the way you communicate with people.

It's not a psychological problem, I think it's because you're too upright! It's a bit nosy to say it's not good! If it's your friend who did something wrong, you can talk about it, if it's not about yourself, it's better not to say it, save people from annoying, it's a good thing, help others point out mistakes, and the result is not good, how worthless!

Psychology like yours, the main thing is to control yourself, just do it! I do that sometimes!

Condition analysis: Hello, this may be related to your personality, you can understand others appropriately, relax your heart, and things that will not affect you can be put aside appropriately, opinions and suggestions:

No matter how strong a person is, he must always have a heart full of vulnerability. Do you really know him, and why he chose to cover up the truth with deception in the first place. Well, you say it doesn't matter, so why bother.

It's because you're afraid that he's unhappy and he'll misunderstand. But often misunderstandings start with lies.

If you care about him, you have to give him everything, including trust and facts. You can change him and change for him. Small things are ignored, and if they are ignored too much, they will become incompatible with each other. From now on, change the way you treat him.

I have always believed that the beginning of two people starts with understanding each other's psychology and achieving their ideals. After that, people are busy with their lives, and slowly treat each other as accessories, just things that should exist. In fact, such a future can only come to an end in the dim responsibility.

Feeling the world, you will find that everyone's difficulties are actually imperfect themselves.

But no one is perfect, what you have to do is to treat each other as yourself, what you can do before is not always necessary, the key is what you can change and improve later.

I hope you and him are happy

In addition to ruling out the fact that these behaviors are due to psychological problems caused by your past experience of being hurt, it can be assumed that the reason is that you are an insecure child. Because I feel that my ability is not enough to protect myself, I become cautious and sensitive, pay attention to myself, and I will consider the factors that are unfavorable to me first when I encounter anything, so I always feel uneasy.

You are still too young, it may be because you have experienced too few things, many things you just know from other people's mouths, news, film and television dramas, and ** articles, without your own personal experience, you just know that there is such a thing, but you don't know how to do it when this kind of thing happens to you, so you have a lot of fantasies.

What about the billions of people in the country, everyone is under so much pressure in their work and life, who can be so idle and always target you? Unless you are very, very rich, or your talent and ability are beyond the reach of everyone around you, you may attract the envy of others against you. Of course, if there is indeed a boy in reality who looks for you for everything for no reason, it is also possible that he really likes you, haha.

As for the recruitment of **, there are more people, but the means are nothing more than changing the law to ask people to pay, clothing fees, fees, fees and fees, or looking very simple jobs but have a very attractive salary, see this kind of direct ignorance. In fact, being deceived is also an experience, I have a degree in my heart, and it is good to know that something is wrong after this degree, even if I am deceived, I will not make myself too miserable. With more experience in interviews, you'll naturally have a rough idea of which hires are unreliable.

If you keep avoiding the attempt, you will never be able to learn and master the skills of self-preservation in social survival.

Get along with the people around you and build a good interpersonal relationship. Exercise yourself more to improve your work ability and self-learning ability. Let yourself do more things, experience more things, encounter more problems, encounter similar problems, know how to deal with them in your heart, and build up self-confidence, so you will naturally not always panic.

It would be a big mistake to follow the principle of not doing good, or not to do it for fear of getting hurt. Just like in the animal world, if a bear wants to eat honey, it must endure the pain of being stung by a bee, and if it never goes near the hive because it is afraid of pain, of course it will never get hurt, but it will never be able to taste the sweet bee.

But if you really have the same state of mind because you have been hurt in the past and you are in this state of mind, you must seek help from a psychologist.

What you're talking about is just the surface, it's that after you're stressed out too much, your brain can't bear the overflowing mess of information, which is called relationship delusion and love delusion.

At the heart of this disease is the pathological character, that is, the persistent, competitive and self-centered character, which is the consistent character of the sufferer.

If you want to be completely good, you must change your personality, and the specific way is not to be able to explain in a sentence or two that the sick personality encounters pressure (whether it is life or work pressure) and becomes ill, because this kind of character is completely unable to withstand pressure, and 100% drill the horns of the horns of the character is as simple as that.

Your personality often leads to complicated things in your relationship and life and work, which will increase your stress even more.

Hello, according to your description, I feel that you are actually in pain in your heart right now, and your normal life has been seriously affected. Your symptoms suggest that you are likely to have paranoia. It is recommended that you go to a professional and formal psychological counseling institution or hospital for consultation**, and it is basically impossible to help you specifically by consulting on the Internet!

Are you a little suspicious, go to the psychiatric department to have a look. Generally, there is a significant effect in about three weeks with the drug, and it can be completely consolidated for another year.