Why doesn t anyone understand my kindness, what is kindness?

Others don't understand your kindness, which proves that your kindness has not resonated with others, and there is a question, why do you think you have been kind and others do not understand? There is only one answer, that what you call kindness is not kindness to others, or that you don't understand what true kindness is.

Kindness is not measured by how much you pay the so-called price, if you think that you blindly pay to others is called kindness, this is a bit wishful thinking, maybe others do not appreciate it, or you pay is not what others need, or say that you pay in the wrong way, you feel that you have paid a lot but others still feel that it is far from enough, this is the reason why others do not understand.

Kindness is also targeted and skillful, for example, Buddhism emphasizes compassion, what is compassion? In other words, it is compassion to be able to bring happiness to others, and it is compassion to be able to help others eliminate suffering, and these two points are required of your own abilities and qualities, and if the happiness and pain of others are beyond your ability, then you will not be able to realize your own compassion.

Kindness is the same thing, just like a doctor who treats someone else, and the other person's illness is beyond the scope of your medical ability, although you have the heart to help the patient relieve the pain, but because of the limited medical skills, you can only look at the illness and sigh, which is nothing to do.

Therefore, others do not understand your kindness, this is only a superficial phenomenon, and its essence lies in whether your kindness is targeted, whether the direction is correct, whether the method is the right way, and whether it helps others solve problems, which is the most important thing. Therefore, we must not only have a benevolent heart, but also have the skills and abilities of kindness, so that we can achieve a state of perfection, and not blindly wishful thinking.

If you have this heart, it means that you care, what do you care about? Asking for something in return? Then it is not pure kindness.

Just be yourself, why care about what other people think? Whoever it is! Even if you just saved someone, and in the blink of an eye he dies again, so what, you yourself are at ease, you have done what you have to do, not to mention that the gods in heaven have seen it, even if there is no god, no one knows, so what?

You don't do it for others, just for your own peace of mind, what to do, or how to do it! It's not just that you've matured, it's that you've been genuinely merciful.

Benevolence means: benevolence, charity.

Basic explanation: [kindhearted; benevolent] benevolence and charity.

仁 (rén) is a moral category that refers to mutual friendship, mutual assistance, sympathy, etc.; 仁 (cí) benevolence, kindness, loving-kindness.

The general was merciful and refused to give orders. --Guangzhou Military Affairs"; We are to be kind to all people; One of the ideas of Confucianism is benevolence.

Citation: Refers to benevolence and charity.

Lü's Spring and Autumn Period:"So he did great mercy to show mercy to the chiefs. "Song Fan Zhongyan "Jun takes the people as the body endowment":

He will not be merciful and rich. "Qing Jiyun's "Notes on Reading Wei Caotang" Volume 15:"The public is merciful, the dawn of the sky, tells the priest in a dream, and lifts the crab into the water.

Qu Qiubai's "Random Bombs: Feizhou Ghost Stories":"God is still very merciful, like Confucius in China. "

Hugo, "Speech in Commemoration of the Centenary of Voltaire's Death":"The sanctity of labor, the benevolence of peace. "

Mercy (misericordia) has a wide range of meanings, and in general, based on the different relationships between God and man, between man and God, and between people, the same Hebrew word (hesed) has different translations, such as mercy, mercy, charity, grace, love, mercy, etc.

Kindness is not the sinking fish and goose of the face, not the gentleness of the demeanor, not the waist of wealth; It's not even a powerful power.

Kindness is like a bean spark in the darkness and coldness, a drop of nectar when it is dry and depleted, a sentence when it is confused and wandering, and a support when it is addicted to helplessness. True kindness is sincere compassion and compassion from the depths of the heart, selfless care and wishes.

True benevolence, no need to cut red carved emerald, no need to carve powder, it itself is indeed the most primitive kind of simple and pure emotional essence in people's hearts.

At the beginning of man, nature is good. But after going through too much tempering, we slowly became indifferent while learning to be tenacious. We hurriedly look for a suitable role in the crowd, indifferently passing by all people and things that have nothing to do with ourselves, we seem to have long adapted to the philosophy of "cleaning the snow in front of each other, and not caring about the frost on the tiles of others", and refuse to worry about any hardships of others.

So, seeing that once crystal benevolent heart slowly eroded and wrapped in dust in the dust and red, and then formed a thick cocoon, I could not help but carry this cocooned heavy heart and trek through indifference in ...... alone

When the wind and dust of the years carved wrinkles on people's foreheads, moved the snow temples to people's green silk, when we unconsciously grew old in loneliness and indifference, under the afterglow of the sunset, peeled off the ice of the soul, and went to a corner of the happy spirit, we suddenly realized that there was no kindness, no heart that was easily moved, and only a numb dry body and endless fatigue and embarrassment.

1. Accumulate virtue and merit, and be compassionate to things. The benevolent person will be kind, the heart is soft and warm like jade, do the duty, be kind to people, cherish the living soul, cherish the flowers and plants, be kind and pleasant, be upright, see who is pleasing to the eye, see everyone is sincere, be innocent, not used to opportunism, accumulate virtue in the invisible, and naturally be the most blessed.

2. Loyalty, filial piety and friendship have been transformed into people. Kind people know the principle of cultivating Qi Pingzhi, can restrain themselves with loyalty, filial piety, benevolence, righteousness, propriety, wisdom and faith, have a righteous heart, have righteous thoughts, have correct thoughts, listen to correct words, follow the right karma, seek the right life, be diligent, and seek righteousness. , 3. Be lonely and compassionate, respect the old and cherish the young.

This is the kindness that can be seen and touched, the most concrete kindness, and the softest expression of the heart. Lonely widows and children, often the weak in life, is the object of need to help and care, and people are from the young, all of them are aging, there are times when they are not good, the friendly care for them is the embodiment of a person's morality.

4. Happiness of people, loss of helping people, and danger of saving people. This is the highest state of kindness, and it is also something that ordinary people cannot do. It is difficult for many people to be good at others, and they often have the heart of comparison and jealousy, and they can't see that the people around them are better and better than themselves.

In fact, the kindness of happy people, the loss of helping people, saving people's danger, and sending charcoal in the snow are the kindness in the depths of the soul.

5. Don't show people short, don't show off long. Kindness is a common kindness to uncertain people, and it is the truth, goodness and beauty that exist in the heart. To do something good and show it, only to see your own strengths, and only to stare at the shortcomings of others, that is not kindness, but a kind of paranoia and short-sightedness, a kind of narrow-mindedness and ignorance.

To be a man, we should have the heroic and righteous spirit of curbing evil and promoting good, sacrificing ourselves to save others, we should be generous in pushing more and taking less, putting others first, and we should have a pattern of pushing people and being kind to others, and don't let the eyes of the rats block their vision of moving forward.

6. Kindness does not seek retribution, and others do not regret. With a benevolent heart, kindness to others, gentleness and frugality, for the benefit of others, silently, grace without words, with others without regrets, do not ask for returns, only seek their own comfort, is really kind. Otherwise, for the sake of some kind of needed favor, which is a transaction, it passes by goodness.

Benevolent. réncí

Basic Explanation: Charity: A merciful God is merciful in his benevolence.

synonyms: benevolence, kindness.

Antonyms: cruel, tyrannical, brutal, vicious**.

Benevolence means charity, charity. 仁 (rén) is a moral category that refers to mutual friendship, mutual assistance, sympathy, etc.;

仁 (cí) benevolence, kindness, loving-kindness.

Lü's Spring and Autumn Period": "So he was merciful and compassionate." ”

Song Fan Zhongyan's "Jun takes the people as the body endowment": "You are not merciful and rich." ”

Qing Jiyun's "Notes on Reading Wei Caotang" volume 15: "The public is benevolent, the dawn of the sky, telling the priest with a dream, lifting the crab into the water." “

Sentence. 1. My mother is kind and kind to people, and often helps people in need.

2. Grandpa Li is my spiritual mentor, and from him, I learned generosity and kindness.

3. Grandpa is kind and loyal, and the people in the alley respect him.

4. Fate has always been merciful to Wei Min, and its patience is so good, it uses a long and tragic arrangement of Hong Fu, and says, you want to be unusually wonderful, I have to work hard.

5. Mr. Dongguo was merciful to the wolf and almost lost his life.

6. Mr. Qi is rich and famous, calligraphy is only a small part of his achievements, but for those who make a living from words, Mr. Qi has always given benevolent tolerance.

Benevolence means charity.

Detailed interpretation: benevolence, a moral category, refers to mutual friendship, mutual assistance, sympathy, etc. Kindness, kindness, kindness, loving-kindness. Charity.

Citation: Victor Hugo.

Speech commemorating the centenary of Voltaire's death: "The sanctity of labor, the mercy of peace." ”

Benevolence rén cí

Lenient charity. Lü's Spring and Autumn Period, Mid-Autumn PeriodSelection: He ran away, so he was merciful and compassionate. 」

Romance of the Three Kingdoms Part II: Xuande is a benevolent person after all, and he hurriedly drank Zhang Fei to stop. 」

Benevolent. Pinyin: réncí

Explanation] Charity.

Example sentence] The general is merciful and refuses to give orders. --Guangzhou Military Affairs";

Citation] benevolence and charity. "Lü's Spring and Autumn Period: A Brief Selection": "So he did great mercy and compassion for the head of Qian."

Song Fan Zhongyan's "Jun takes the people as the body endowment": "You are not merciful and rich." Qing Jiyun's "Notes on Reading Wei Caotang" Volume 15:

The public is merciful, the dawn of the sky, tells the priest in a dream, and lifts the crab into the water. Qu Qiubai, "Random Bullets: Ghost Tales of Feizhou": "God is still very merciful, as merciful as Confucius in China.

Charity: The elderly.

Synonym; 1. Kindness.

cí xiáng ]

The attitude of the elderly, the look) is kind and serene: the smile on the grandmother's face.

2. Love. cí ài ]

The elder is kind and full of compassion for the younger. mother.

3. Charity. cí shàn ]

Caring and compassionate: hearted. Undertaking.

Interpretation: benevolence and charity.

benevolence pinyin [rén cí].

Interpretation: benevolence and charity.

Source: Romance of the Three Kingdoms Chapter 2: Xuande is a benevolent person after all, and he hurriedly drank Zhang Fei to stop. Example sentences: 1In all mankind, all those who are strong, upright, brave, and merciful are heroes! Beethoven.

2.The frying pan, confined behind the benevolent grille of the baking utensils, seems to have lost its hands.

3.Merciful Lord, let the flower of vengeance bloom.

4.You don't have to wait until you can't bear it anymore, just go, and you will thank yourself for your kindness and wisdom in the future.

5.All people who are kind by nature are always zealous to do good deeds without asking for retribution. Krylov 6

O conscience, my merciful master, thou art the pulse of reason. Coleridge 7I love you because you have a kind heart, not because of your learning.

8.God is merciful, and he says a lot of ridiculous comforting things out of human considerations.

9.He who pursues righteousness and mercy finds life, righteousness, and honor.

10.It is most unmerciful to leave the lives of those who should be killed. Emerson 11All those who are strong, upright, brave, and merciful are heroes!

12.It's still kind enough to friends who can turn back.

13.Gentle conversation comes from a benevolent heart. Homer.

14.It's a touching story of self-denial and kindness throughout.

15.The sweetest sound is the word of kindness, which always brings sunshine. Master Haitao 16The most merciful spell brings true destruction. Shu Ke.

17.Nature, by bestowing tears on mankind, shows that it has given mankind the most merciful heart.

18.I was merciful, but I slaughtered the people! I am humble, but I am above the Three Realms!

19.Uncle Liu Huang of Jingzhou is of the same clan as the lord, benevolent and generous, and has the style of an elder.

20.The Great Merciful King let go of the screaming Jackal King.

It's just that good people understand reason, don't make sure people, have a strong sense of integrity and justice.