How can I help two friends who don t get along to get back to their old relationship?

Updated on society 2024-05-28
57 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    This question is from the position of a friend and you want to help the two of them to be friendly.

    You should have asked both of them what they meant first, and if he wanted to accept your help.

    It's a good thing to help people. But if it's your own interest to help people, not someone else's, it becomes boring.

    You can look at it this way: Your mother wants to control you, but you don't want to be controlled by your mother. Then I ask you, how do you feel? So when you do this, in fact, your friends will be very unhappy with you, then you are not friends when you do this.

    Therefore, it's not that you can't help, but before you help, you must first establish a relationship where the other party is willing to be helped.

    So, the key to this question is not how you can help a person, or how you can help a person. The first thing is that you have to establish that person's willingness to be helped, and then you can think about how to help them. What's more, if you want to help the other person, you have to use a method that he can accept.

    If this relationship is not established, even parents will be in vain, let alone friends.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Create more opportunities to see if the two of you can release your suspicions, and if not, you can only do your best.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Let them have a good talk together.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    In fact, the problem can only be solved by themselves, as long as the two of them want to reconcile, everything will be fine, if you don't want to, it's useless for others to work hard, everything, it's just a matter of attitude, it's useless for us to be anxious!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It should be possible, and if you have a relationship, of course, you will become a good friend, except for special ones.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If you poke it, you can be the closest friends.

    But if you say it and you're not together, you're going to be embarrassed, and thus, you can't.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Yes, trust me buddy.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Study hard, improve every day, and be able to do it for a long time. For the time being, you can't wait for the past few years, there will be no problems at all, come over.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I think you should calm down slowly and think carefully about what is the problem between you? Is there some misunderstanding or really no feeling. From your narrative, I think you still have feelings for her, maybe she still has some misunderstanding.

    I don't know how long you've been together, it's too long and your life is monotonous, and it's easy for your relationship to be in crisis at this time. You can try to observe her for a period of time to find out the problems in yourself, and you can't blindly find the reasons in the other person. If you give her something, she doesn't accept it, it's probably angry, girls are like this, in fact, they don't get angry in their hearts, they just hope that you will comfort her and tolerate her on the surface, so that you can be regarded as a real man!

    You can't feel bored in your heart, then it's really a crisis, and at this time, it's often difficult for girls to choose to bow their heads and admit their mistakes, in that case, you will really miss it, and you will have regrets.

    Don't give up, just coax her more. I wish you all a speedy reconciliation

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Don't do too much hypocrisy, those things might as well be you to talk to her sincerely, you have to talk about the problems between you well, is it really not suitable? Or is she angry that you don't care about her. You should take the initiative to go to her

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    The little kid's temper came.

    The turning point has arrived, either forward or backward.

    It's good to take the initiative and get it.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You also said oh, maybe you just feel too bored, and she waited for you for so long that time, such a little thing will not be angry for so long, if you really decide to like you, you send something to her, she will forgive you, but she doesn't accept it, proving that she is still hesitant to continue with you, if you really love her, you should ask her good friend or something, ask her where she usually likes to go the most, what she likes to play the most, and chat with her more, get to know her more, Over time, she will understand what kind of love she wants.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Let's talk about it!

    Try to have no negative emotions on both sides!

    Calm! Think about your past together, your future, if you really can't be together anymore, let each other go!

    If there is even a little hesitation, give both parties a chance, it is not so simple to be together!

    Cherish it!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Did you ever tell her "I love you"? Let's talk about it.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    You should be quiet and communicate well, and you should not let the estrangement get deeper.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    When we know how to cherish ordinary happiness, we have become winners in life.

    I've been talking to my partner for more than 3 years, and we've been like that every day, she goes to work, and I go to work every day, but it's fulfilling.

    Now let's do this, don't do such drastic things, slowly, every day is okay to care more about care, greetings, greetings, it's okay slowly.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Let yourself be refreshed, change the way you used to be, spoil her in everything, let him feel that you are not so static, then his eyes will attract you, but only if she likes you If there is no emotion, everything is in vain.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Isn't it just a matter of communication?

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    The relationship is already in a flat period, and there is no freshness.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    You have a good talk, communicate and communicate, and believe that if you really love each other, then nothing will be difficult for you.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Everyone hates waiting for people, and maybe she especially doesn't like it. Count your fault first. You were able to get along so well before, which means that you are still very fateful.

    She's just a little angry, she can't see the other party's face on the text message, and she will amplify her emotions, so don't pay too much attention to it. Bring up the previous pillow, it shows that she has not forgotten your previous release, and if you are cheeky enough to please her, I believe you will succeed!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    You're in a good spirit, don't keep buying things for him, talk to him, talk to him, talk about your troubles, whatever, I don't ask for anything, good luck.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Your little friend is a little willful, but girls, hehe, to coax, sometimes even coax with "scared" this can be accepted, you try to ignore her first, and it won't be long before I believe she should miss you

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Is this a crisis?

    Hehe, what's wrong with having a bland relationship? Maybe it's not like you say, it's just that she feels that with you, you don't care about her that much. You don't have a single spot between you, do you?

    Maybe she feels insecure and her self-esteem is frustrated. Why are you with her doing something else and letting others wait for you for so long, everyone will be jealous, so that you are like a spare tire.

    It's best to pick a time to make your relationship clear, feelings are nothing more than communication and heart-to-heart, if you don't talk, where does love come from. It doesn't have to be romantic, it's intimate. Everyone's personality ideas are different, but if she likes you, she will still be willing to give you a chance if you go to her, even if two people are together and don't talk, they will feel very heartwarming.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Don't separate, if you are separated for a while, there will be more separation, take the initiative to find her, coax her, because girls are willful, don't say it, I still hope that you can take the initiative to find her, as long as you work hard and grind the iron pestle into a needle, I believe you will be fine!

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I think it's probably because you don't fit well. Or, maybe she thinks it's boring, but it's because you're not suitable.

    Let's calm down. Consider whether the two sides are really a good fit.

    I wish you well.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    If the relationship does break down, you can go to court to apply for a forced divorce.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    After two years of separation due to emotional breakdown, you can go to the court to file for divorce, and if the court accepts it, a summons will be issued to the sued party. For personal opinions, you can consult a lawyer for detailed procedures!

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    This matter has to be resolved in the court, and I believe that the judge will agree to the divorce knowing that their relationship has broken down.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    According to the provisions of the Marriage Law, if the relationship between the husband and wife has indeed broken down, a divorce may be granted. For the issue of child support, it is necessary to carefully confirm the circumstances of both parties from the perspective of being conducive to the child's growth, but the child during the breastfeeding period is generally awarded to the woman for support, if it is not a lactation period, it is necessary to see that party is more suitable for the child's growth and solicit the child's own opinion. The parent who does not support the child should pay monthly maintenance, which is generally between 20 and 30% of the annual income.

    The joint property and debts of the husband and wife shall be jointly owned and borne by the husband and wife, and shall generally be half of the person. If one party is at fault, the division of property can be divided with less or no share, and the specific share will be determined by the court. In the case of a litigated divorce, the lawsuit is filed in the court where the defendant is domiciled, or in the court where the defendant has lived for more than one year.

    The gods and horses are all floating clouds, and there is wood to ask about feelings.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    If there is no money problem, there is no fraudulent marriage, and if there is a money problem, you can only make it clear to yourself.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Are you a friend of a man or a friend?

    Hey. I care so much about the woman.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Consult a lawyer about your situation, and not ask a lawyer to go to court to defend it.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Cheating marriage? Is there any evidence?

    It is recommended that you ask at a legal clinic.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Find the appropriate evidence and wait for the court**.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Well. Don't just say break up. After all, we've been together for 1 year. Can you be emotionless?

    Quiet down with your boyfriend and talk. If there are any bad habits, just change them slowly. No one is perfect? Right.

    In fact. There is no such thing as a very appropriate one. Character is slowly grinded out. After a long time, you will get used to it.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Well. There is only accommodation and patience.

    If you think it's a small problem.

    Actually, everyone will have it.

    Maybe there's something else wrong with the next one.

    As long as he loves you, is self-motivated, and is willing to work hard for the family.

    I think you should learn how to live together.

    Know how to give each other the right space, humility and respect.

    It would be better that way.

    I hope you are happy

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    You can bring it up to him, and if he won't change it for you, I think you'd better break it up. Because there's nothing to be nostalgic about. Change for the other party, this is not the least you can't do, can you say that he likes you, can you say that he loves you.

    Don't be too aggrieved yourself, if you can't give in, you will never give in!

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    If you can change it, try to help him change it. If you can't change it, see if you can accept it.

    After all, it's been more than a year.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Character habits are unacceptable, even if people are very good, it is difficult to have good results, love to give up and resolutely give up. If it's acceptable, then tolerate each other.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    A year is not a long time, and we can't really understand each other. Since it's not suitable, let's consider separating. A two-way choice!

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Everyone has their own shortcomings, and the two of them should be tolerant and tolerant when they are together, and it depends on whether you are willing to be the woman who changes her behind his back

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    If you can bear it, you can endure it, love him and be willing to tolerate him, if you really can't bear it, you can really say goodbye to him

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Brothers are weak, have discordant feelings, and are less respectful of their parents. Inherited the ancestral business, but relatively late. The character of being upright and unyielding.

    There are a lot of clothes, wealth and wealth are not gathered in the early years, respect all their lives, do not cause trouble, parents are embarrassed, flesh and blood are less dependent, husband and wife are harmonious, children are late, and it is appropriate to live early. Suitable occupation.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    When you feel discordant, imagine that you will not be able to see this person from tomorrow onwards, forever and ever, and experience your feelings, if it still doesn't matter or"Discord"Then break up peacefully, so that we can get together and disperse.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    You should think about it.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Then you have to take the initiative to contact her, eat or do something that you often do, she may not be upset, you have to take the initiative to break the deadlock.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    Why not find the cause? Since you're friends, she knows what's changed. You are a boy, you have to ask clearly, after all, girls are embarrassed to say.

    The knot between friends is even deeper if it is not untied! (Maybe she has a boyfriend, so she has some scruples with you.) It's a matter of time, and then you should adjust your relationship.

    I wish you a long friendship!

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    Talk to her more and do what you always do. You have to change it yourself, or just admit your mistakes.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    Buy something she likes and say nice things to coax her. No contradictions are guaranteed.

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    Feelings are the cornerstone, and the two are the red thread.

    The button is well buttoned and strong, and the burst of love and affection will bring endless happiness and memories. But on the contrary, there are only bitter memories.

    The relationship with your parents is because everyone has their own personality and temperament, you only know a single filial piety or simple love, but you forget that you have not been together for more than 20 years. The end result is just that most of the mistakes are caused by their own mishandling in the middle. Hope you understand.

    Of course, she doesn't regret it, only she knows.

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    This maybe, 2 years of relationship time is not short, if she is not happy in the future, I think she will think of your goodness, and even regret it. If she is happy, it is difficult to say.

  53. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    It doesn't matter if she regrets it later, as long as you don't regret it yourself.

  54. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    Look at how hard you've tried, she'll miss you in a while.

  55. Anonymous users2023-12-19

    It depends on whether your parents can't be a person or your girlfriend can't be a person...

  56. Anonymous users2023-12-18

    The person who dumped you doesn't need to be nostalgic, it's not worth it.

  57. Anonymous users2023-12-17

    When he meets someone worse than you, she'll regret it

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