Is it true that my husband has been avoiding talking about his ex girlfriend and saying that it is f

Updated on psychology 2024-05-26
3 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Sisters, ......You're so tired......

    I'm a man, so I'll tell you what men think.

    The party who was broken up must be unhappy and complained a lot in all aspects, you see your husband's current appearance, a bit of my shadow back then, but today I have already figured it out, the reason why I felt uncomfortable at that time was not that I still loved this person and wanted to be with her, but that I was unwilling.

    In other words, no face.

    This is especially true for men.

    Those past past, there must be sweetness, of course, there is also pain, how sweet it was back then, how painful it was afterwards, bitter to a certain extent, I want to open, it has passed, a new life, you see that he has not updated it later, I think most of it is tired, I don't want to write, and I start my relationship again, that is, you.

    Telling others that he doesn't believe in love has also come together with you, so he believes in you, and with such trust, you think so much, it's asking for trouble. As for what you said, he may be old so he decides to get married quickly, I don't think there's anything wrong with that, as people get older, their mentality will change, they want to be happy, they want to be happy, they are very eager to be happy, no matter how old they are, marriage is a big deal, a woman has affected him for a period of time, but who to marry is related to whether he will be happy in the next few decades, but it's not just anyone, I say this, do you still feel sad? I feel better.

    As for what you said, you can't help but ask him, I think you really don't have to, but people, it's such a strange creature, it's very fond of taking the past, to affect today's day, his seems to me to be very good, those past things should really be in his heart in the past, don't mention the past don't want to ask or say, in fact, it's the best solution to get today's happiness, he said 60 years old and then tell you, it's not necessary to say this, it's meaningless, except for the estrangement between the two of them, there's nothing else, He wants to live a good life with you, you are really 60 years old, would you still ask his ex-boyfriend thirty years ago?

    Do you know why so many people get married in a flash now? It is also because people trust more and more people in the south, and they are afraid of being hurt.

    I know you and get married soon, in fact, it is a good thing for people who are a little older, because they have experienced unpleasant feelings, when they meet someone who makes them feel happy, they don't want to lose you, while the relationship between the two is still hot, get married early, and you will continue the good feelings and state into the marriage, which is good for you and him.

    Remember, if you don't mention the past, don't ask or talk about it, he will love you more, respect you, and cherish you.

    Let any man choose between the person who betrays him, the person who understands and loves him, and the winner is the latter, what are you worried about?

    Organize your emotions, go shopping, shop, cook for him, and enjoy your happiness.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    What he said about forgetting is not something that can be forgotten all at once, at least at some point there will still be some nostalgia. It's just that since he is married to you, and he doesn't want you to know about his past, you don't need to know about it anymore, he wants to say, naturally he will say, you forced him, and what he got was just perfunctory words, which didn't mean anything to you, so why bother asking? Since you love him, and don't worry that his heart belongs to something else, take a time, talk gently when he is calm, and don't lose his temper when he hears something unsatisfactory, unless he says he doesn't love you.

    5 If you say that you don't ask him about the past, unless he says it himself, but if he promises not to dwell on the people and things of the past, if he loves you, he will not do anything more radically, and if he does not love you, then there is nothing to say.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    all have a relationship that they can't let go.

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