We re getting married, what are we going to do, what are we going to do when we re getting married?

Set an iron rule, you can't say the word breakup, as long as you say it, break up, this should be made clear at the beginning, don't have anything to say about breaking up, it's annoying. And there are too many words, and there are many fakes and more truths. Also, looking at what you wrote above, it is estimated that there is something wrong with your personality.

After all, he is not married, why do you care about him so much? He asks you to borrow it, you don't care why he doesn't ask the family for it, and it doesn't matter if he really makes money for the family. You see him giving money to his parents, and it is normal for a man to say how much money he will give to his family for the sake of face.

Of course, I don't know if it's true, you can think of it that way, but you can't say it.

If you love him, don't care more, he asks you to borrow, if you feel that you love her, don't let one borrow him. But that's all for later, and everything happened. Don't let him say it, you feel that you are wrong, what can you be wrong, but rationally speaking, he has to help him when he is in difficulty, and he is going to buy a house, but most of it is for your sake to buy.

Be content.

You girl, you ......

First of all, you have to remember that he is a good and filial man, and his parents are nurturing to us, and if you want to deprive him of this emotion, or intentionally or unintentionally challenge this emotion, you are asking for trouble ...... yourself

He gives money to the family, you don't care if his family really needs it, at least, when he has money, he treats you without saying a word, without treating you badly, you should be content, because he already thinks that you and your family are equally important.

The word breakup, don't say it casually, if the other party has an outside heart, I don't think there is any hesitation, it's easy to break up, and there are few injuries, but this kind of life thing, especially when it comes to money, don't say it easily, it's very hurtful.

You are all people who are going to get married, the money must be tight, he also needs money to work, if you have a surplus on hand, it is not urgent, 2000 yuan is not a big number, you should support him, if he really has something, he is in a hurry, he must borrow it from his friends first, and his friends have no words, you have complaints here, of course you will be very disappointed ...... you

It is recommended that you have a good talk with him, talk, the communication between couples is often less after a period of time, not that you have no topic, not that you don't pay attention to each other, but that you both feel that the other party can understand you, which is a very serious misunderstanding.

He will be afraid to call you ** to find you to admit your mistakes, and ask if you can't buy a house at the end of the year, will you leave him, that is, he cares about you very much, and he doesn't want to lose you, the pressure on men is already great, and women have to support silently.

You've been talking for four years and you're almost getting married, and I don't think you should be in this situation, or you ...... too little communication

Addendum: No matter who hits the **, he cares about you very much, of course, he loves you so much, and he also hopes that you are the woman he is destined to be, isn't it good to make some changes?

The people who can finally walk together are not two people who are tightly matched in character, but two people who know how to change themselves and fit each other, respect each other, accept each other, tolerate each other, and everything will not defeat your feelings.

Is it bad for a man to take care of his family? If you want to be his family, do you want to ignore your family? Borrowing money from you in his career is because he treats you as a person who struggles together, if you don't borrow and say so many ugly words, he will be very disappointed, you see that the money is too heavy, everything is clear, can the relationship be good, it is indeed not as good as a friend, like a bank account manager.

I also have a girlfriend like you, usually men don't say these things to their women, but you can't realize it, hey, men are very bitter, men who do business are even more bitter, and they are just starting out,,, hey, I have nothing to say...

I can see that your boyfriend is really good, and I treated you as a family early on, but you realized it later. also complained that he should ask his family. Don't hurt your peace because of money.

Their family may not be in very good condition, but he gave the money to the family, perhaps to prove his ability. He also believes that you will be able to make more money in the future, so he asked you for it! Don't think money is more important than him!

Since you are married, you should cherish the relationship between two people, and don't think too much about the future, or have too much suspicion and confusion. Getting married also means that there is one more person in the future life, so you should also change your mentality, only in this way can you make the relationship between two people more stable, so as to make yourself more happy.

When two people get married, it is the beginning of a new life, and they need to run in with each other, tolerate each other, and manage love together, so that the marriage can last for a long time, take a look at the following three opinions

One,Coquettish with her husband.

A coquettish woman is the best, this sentence is really not groundless. Too much chicken soup is telling women to be independent in order to have a happy marriage, but I just want to tell you that proper coquettishness with her husband is the secret magic weapon to warm up the relationship between husband and wife.

If you want the other party to take the initiative to do housework, want the other party to go shopping with you, want the other party to take care of your emotions, etc., want to achieve any purpose from the other party, coquettish is the most effective.

Don't try to cry and shout strong words, and use the way of ordering the other party to obey you to achieve your goal, which consumes your emotions and makes both people feel uncomfortable. The other half is not an emotionless machine, and it is more effective to move people with emotion than to make cold demands.

And coquettishness can conquer a man's desire to protect, so that a man has no way to refuse your request, and will let a man give you good emotional feedback in your gentle trap.

Second, first obey and then oppose.

The other half will always make all kinds of strange requests, or will give their own opinions and opinions on a certain matter. If you disagree or even feel that the other person is wrong, the best way to deal with it is not to directly say that the other person is wrong, you are right.

People who no one wants to be close to always contradict themselves, instead of giving others a feeling of oppression, it is better to change their words and let the other party accept their suggestions in a happy and happy state.

The best way is to make the other person happy when you feel that something is wrong with the other person's words, and then turn around and say what you oppose in an orderly manner.

As long as you are reasonable, the other party will naturally listen to you, and your euphemistic way of refusing will also make the other party gladly accept.

Third, pretend to be confused in your feelings.

Love is not an angular stone, but a smooth flowing water, and you will not be caught up by the stone if you are comfortable with it.

When running a marriage, don't set too many principles for two people, and a one-eyed and decent way of getting along will make the other party feel uncomfortable.

Try to pretend to be confused in your relationship, as long as you don't violate the general principles of marriage, no matter what kind of omissions the other party has, don't be too careful.

It is easier to get along with each other with a big smile than to get happiness from the business life of excellence.