My girlfriend s mom told me to ask for 100,000

First, look at your girlfriend's attitude, if she really loves you, she must not agree to sell herself, if she also insists on agreeing with her mother's opinion, then it means that she has no confidence in your feelings or values not feelings; Second, depending on your strength, if you are very rich, then her mother wants 100,000 yuan is nothing, but if you have no money, her mother knows that she still insists on asking you, it can only mean that her mother does not want you to be together; Third, it depends on what her mother wants the 100,000 yuan for, if it is to be transferred to her daughter, then you can consider that she is a mother's heart, if you want to keep it for use, then you have to consider what kind of tutor your girlfriend receives.

Think about it based on your strength, and then discuss it with your girlfriend!

I'm just suggesting it, sorry if it's self-defeating.

You say to your girlfriend's mother, "If I don't give you 100,000, it's not that I don't have the ability, but I don't want to treat your daughter as a commodity." Maybe you don't think highly of me, but please trust me to make your daughter happy and happy. ”

The key is your girlfriend's attitude, will she follow you if you can't meet her mother's conditions? So you have to act on the right track.

100,000? Why so much.

However, if you really love your girlfriend, you can give it according to your actual situation.

It's terrible, she's going to marry her daughter to you???

I'm going to sell my daughter to you???

She doesn't look down on you at all.

That's why I brought it up.

You should carefully consider the following.

...If you want to get married, give it.

Don't give it if you don't.

You asked her if 100,000 could buy out his daughter?

Poor and insane.

There was no trace of wings in the sky, but the birds had flown by.

She looks down on you and doesn't like to marry her daughter to you.

Hehe,,, is she marrying a girl or selling a girl??

Give your answer to your aunt according to your actual ability

Regardless of him, start first, have a career and make money, see if she is not a fart and stammering you.

took the borrowed 100,000 yuan to her engagement fee, and no gentleman would do that!

A microfinance company solves your problems.

Tell your girlfriend slowly, let him tell his mother, how to start a company.

Then talk about it well, maybe they are afraid that you will not be good to your girlfriend in the future.

If you're 20 years old and your girlfriend is 30 years old, and you don't feel like the age gap is very big, when you're 30 years old, and your girlfriend or wife is 40 years old, the gap is big, and when a woman gets 40, the feelings and thoughts in your heart will be very different.

As long as you love each other sincerely, it is enough for parents to fight their children in marriage problems now, besides, parents' opposition is also for the good of their children, as long as you are really happy, parents will not object.

It's normal for old people to be unacceptable, and you have to understand your mother, and it's also for your good.

But if you really love your girlfriend very much, to the extent that she doesn't marry, and she loves you very much, you can make more efforts to make your girlfriend behave well in front of her mother, and after a long time, the old man will accept it. On the other hand, if your girlfriend is not willing to do this, or you are not willing to persuade your mother, then you still don't love enough, so you might as well break up, so as not to make a mess in the house.

I'm more straightforward, but that's the way it is.

I still don't feel like I want to. Mom should call Dad as a family on her birthday. And it's a girlfriend who has only been in contact for a few months. If your mom had seen it and had a good impression, of course she would have brought it.

If you don't take a vacation, it's true that you can't come down. There are a lot of things to do at the end of the year The other may be embarrassed to go or the relationship has not reached that point?

It's good to be able to come Expressing a heart Gifts are indispensable Try to show your girlfriend's advantages If you really can't go If you can't go If the old man knows about it, you have to explain the reason Actually, it doesn't mean anything Now it's not like before I've seen both parents and they're almost engaged It's okay Let your mother take a look by the way.

If it's hard to ask for leave, don't embarrass her, don't put pressure on her, and take her home to see her mother when you have time in the future.

If you really want to be a family, what's not to do.

First of all, the egg hurts for LZ.

You sing the song that you owe me 10 dollars

Give your future mother-in-law 、、、

It's a painful question.

Eh, buy a bottle of Xiaozhi River and go to the river to blow the wind.

Forget about it

Alas, forget it, go buy a rope to hang you.

Just pay 90 yuan next time you ml with your girlfriend.

It's really not okay, because the tragedy of material inability to complete marriage is staged every day, not only you have one child, when you have a chance to drive a big run, this is actually nothing, now marriage is like this, ordinary people can't change, only change our possession of wealth, others will be impressed, work hard, classmates.

Look at your relationship, if you really love her, you will do whatever it takes.

Her mother may not really want the 200,000, it may be that she is not satisfied with your family's economic conditions and doesn't really want her daughter to be like this with you.

Her mother asked you for 200,000, and your girlfriend has no opinion? She doesn't know you can't take it? If you love enough, you will steal a household registration book and marry you naked. It still proves that I don't love you enough. Child, sad ...

Is she going to borrow it from you, or is it a bride price, if it's a bride price, it's really not expensive.

Depends on your age and her? If you and she are minors or elementary or middle school students, don't make an appointment that night. If you are an adult, you can ask her to come out at night first, or ask her out by texting or calling her on her phone.

It depends on how you are when you are with her.

If the relationship is very harmonious, very close, she believes that you, no matter what, will come out...

If you feel that you are asking her out, and she may not come out, then you should stop the appointment first, continue to date her for a while, establish more feelings, and then make an appointment when you feel in place.