When I came home last week, my dad told me what was on his mind.

Tell your dad that being able to spend his whole life taking care of a man is a blessing he cultivated in his previous life. A good man can learn how to treat women well, because women are like animals, and the more good they are to her, the better they are to you. It's not something that can be solved, and it's not about educating children.

Besides, drinking is his hobby, which leads to unhappy consequences, everything starts with him, and what qualifications does he have to say that he doesn't like your mother. Family harmony requires tolerance, of course, you can't refrain from your behavior just because you are your own person, otherwise tolerating your father's drinking will only bring unpleasantness.

My personality is not good, my habits are not good, what qualifications do I have to ask others to give life and emotional sustenance, how can there be such a good thing in the world.

Keep them apart for a while, and it won't be long before they're going to miss each other, and you're using this opportunity to enlighten each other better than before.

No matter how bad they are, that's also husband and wife As the old saying goes, a husband and wife for a hundred days are like a deep sea As long as they change their original way of life, they just don't feel that they are very happy to have it now, and only if they lose it, they know how to cherish it.

Your dad's analysis:

He is a man of temperament, relatively intelligent, and has a lot of suffering experiences when he is young, and life does not think about it from time to time. There is a famous saying that "what kind of woman to pursue is to pursue a way of life". I think he's dissatisfied with the status quo of life. Alcoholism is also a manifestation.

Your analysis: sensitive and amorous, but don't know what you should do to face these problems right now.

My advice: be quiet, tell your mother more about her hard work, and hurt her mother more.

Let your dad know how much he respects mom the most about you, and how much he reflects on what he does.

Sometimes people's feelings are fragile and need to be enlightened by others1

Be happy yourself, in fact, my family is like this, but there are some things that we can't solve, but we as children can talk more with our parents and be happier, so that our parents will be satisfied when they see us happy.

After so many years of marriage, there is not much love left, and there is just family affection. My mother once said that the reason why they continued to maintain this intact home was because she wanted me to live well, and if they separated, our children would be affected somewhat.

So since parents can do this for our further sake, we should also keep our current state and not ask about our parents' affairs, and just be sensible children.

Change your mom. is the best solution.