After the case of the son burying his mother alive, how should the elderly in rural areas provide fo

People in the village often say: There is no filial son in front of the bed of a long illness! However, in reality, I have never seen such a tragic thing.

If it was just because the old man was sick in bed, the son would not have done such a thing that defied the world's condemnation. So, what's the problem? How should the elderly in rural areas provide for their old age?

From the follow-up report, it was learned that at around 20 o'clock on May 2, 58-year-old Ma in Jingbian County pulled his mother away with a rickshaw and told his family that he would send his mother to live with relatives. As a result, there was no news for a few days, and Ma's wife called the police, and everyone knew what happened. The old man was buried alive for three days, and for the rest of his life, he actually pleaded with ** and fell off lightly.

What's going on? Is it just because the calf is licked deeply? It turned out that as a mother, Ma remarried when he was 12 years old, and Ma was raised by his uncle .......

This issue is a bit complicated about family ethics, but it is clear that from Ma Mou's 12th to his marriage and childbirth, he did not live with his old mother and did not have deep feelings, which is a factor that cannot be ignored to promote the occurrence of this matter. This bad situation is a tragedy for Ma, Ma's wife, and 79-year-old mother. They are all losers in this matter, Ma committed a crime, his wife was uncomfortable, and the victimized old mother was also uncomfortable.

This matter has aroused widespread concern at all levels of society, how should the elderly in rural areas provide for the elderly?

According to our pension tradition, for thousands of years, people have followed: you raise me young, I support you old. Parents give birth to children, and children support the elderly, which is also part of our traditional culture of filial piety.

Now there are various pension systems, and some models, but everyone wants to spend their old age in peace, and when they are young, they must be prepared to spend their old age in peace. For example, when educating children, we should set an example for our elderly parents, and this kind of family education is of great significance. From an early age, we can tell our children how we should treat the elders who raised us.

If you say that you are not filial to your parents, then it will have a negative impact on your child: children will think that this is normal according to their parents' behavior from an early age. Then, if you don't honor your parents and your children, in this family atmosphere, the definition of "filial piety" is imperceptibly affected.

In the future, it is very likely that you will be eaten by the "evil" you have planted. If you sow "goodness", you will also get a "goodness" to a large extent!

As the old saying goes: the eaves are dripping from generation to generation! It means "inheritance".

When this kind of kindness is passed down from generation to generation, the family conflict of the elderly can be better resolved.

In rural areas, a corresponding old-age pension system should also be established, so that the elderly can have something to rely on and rely on. At the same time, it is necessary to give appropriate enforcement to the children of the elderly.

The elderly in rural areas can only count on themselves, and the elderly must save a pension money for themselves when they still have income, so that they will not be left with nothing to rely on.

Nursing homes, rural elderly people should teach their children by word and deed, and honor their parents, so that their children can also honor them.

"Bury your mother alive" case: The 79-year-old mother was buried alive by her son, and her daughter-in-law called the police for help. As a result, the old mother was rescued after serious interrogation by the police, and the son was criminally detained on suspicion of intentional wounding.

Later, after interrogating Ma Moukuan, the police quickly rushed to the scene of the crime to save the person. After more than an hour of rescue excavation, the unconscious old woman, who had been trapped for several days, was finally rescued. However, it is understood that after the old man was sent to the hospital, he did not show hatred for burying his son Ma Moukuan alive, but was still worried about whether his son would be punished.

By September 2020, the old man had passed away, and now, Ma Moukuan, who buried his mother alive, was also sentenced to 12 years in prison in the first instance.

Later, although I found it, there may be no signs of life, and I think this son may have a little psychological problem.

Later, the old mother was rescued, and the unscrupulous son was arrested. This kind of unfilial and unrighteous person should be punished by the law, and the daughter-in-law did the right thing.