What is it like to have self confidence and low self esteem?

Sometimes I feel that I am really good and happy, sometimes I feel that I have a terrible life, I am not a perfect person, nor the best-looking one, nor the smartest one, then be the hardest working person, it is not difficult to give up, to persist must be cool, I will have my own outstanding and satisfactory places, but there are also places where I feel unsatisfactory, but I believe in the meaning of hard work, in the end, I was admitted to my favorite university, ah, ah, I really like such a positive self.

It's like this year's World Cup has made your emotions go up and down. In fact, this is also the norm for many people, low self-esteem and self-confidence may be your strengths and weaknesses in exactly proportional proportions, maybe you can work harder to enrich yourself, or one day self-confidence to overcome inferiority.

Low self-esteem and self-confidence are two sides of the same coin, and they can only exist at the same time. Self-confidence, which goes hand in hand with low self-esteem, is more of a conceit than a pure self-confidence. It's good to eliminate the emotion of being denied by your parents when you were a child, come on dear, when you don't have "no confidence", you won't care if you are "confident".

Low self-esteem and self-confidence cannot coexist, because low self-esteem is the inability to know oneself correctly and thus devalue oneself, while self-confidence is to know oneself clearly and believe in oneself. Low self-esteem and conceit can coexist because they have the same characteristic, that is, they cannot understand themselves correctly. But isn't self-confidence a combination of inferiority and conceit, neither inferiority nor conceit.

Excessively degrading oneself is called inferiority, and excessively exalting oneself is called conceit.

I used to think that I had achieved a lot of achievements because of my own inferiority, and I was afraid that I would not be able to make more efforts than ordinary people many times, but it was just a fear of inferiority. But I was also confident, and I experienced it in my continuous success, and later I also understood that in fact, a state when self-confidence and low self-esteem coexist is called progress.

Self-confidence is that you are so proficient in a thing that you can do it well with your eyes closed, and low self-esteem is when you later find that someone is not skilled and can do it well the first time. He's quick to accept and smart, and you're just skilled because you're skilled. You will find that you actually have low self-esteem inside.

You can do it well, but it's been through many times, and he's only new to it.

Self-confidence comes from the degree to which a person knows and understands things. Low self-esteem is a person's feeling that his own conditions are inferior to others and he cannot realize his own wishes or meet his expectations for a try, only in such a situation can self-confidence and inferiority exist at the same time! If such a mentality develops for a long time, it will breed an inferiority complex and a mentality of rejection from the outside world.

We are more or less surrounded by human-like beings, overconfident or overly inferior. Overconfidence can lead to a disorder in self-perception and arrogance. When encountering problems, they will feel good about themselves, thinking that all problems will be solved, which will lead to not listening to persuasion, or not being able to treat problems fairly and justly, and having excessive inferiority complex, will have a low self-evaluation, thinking that they are not as good as others, and if they are excessive, they are prone to depression from life to work.

A large part of people because of excessive inferiority, resulting in distorted personality, easy to inferiority complex and arrogance at the same time, such people are not likable in real life, many people do not like such people, the most obvious performance in the process of dating is low emotional intelligence. In fact, self-confidence or inferiority complex is not terrible, the most important thing is self-awareness, carefully distinguish your heart, do not avoid problems, and strive to find the root cause and solve it slowly, so as to truly become a confident and strong person.

The difference between people with low self-esteem and people with self-confidence is: people with low self-esteem despise themselves, often do not see their abilities, and do not dare to try even if they can do well; Only a confident person can look at himself realistically, and can see both his strengths and his weaknesses.

1. Self-confidence. Self-confidence is a person's state of mind that believes in their own abilities, that is, the psychological tendency to believe that they are capable of achieving their set goals. Self-confidence is based on the correct understanding of oneself, the correct estimation and positive affirmation of one's own strength, is an important component of self-awareness, is a manifestation of mental health, and is a favorable psychological condition for learning and career success.

2. Low self-esteem. Low self-esteem is a negative psychology that despises oneself, always thinks that oneself is inferior to others, and loses confidence in oneself. Low self-esteem is caused by the belief that they are inferior to others in terms of situation and talents, or they have physical defects, and they are respectful or have made mistakes.

Low self-esteem is a stumbling block to a person's success and an obstacle to a happy life. Step by step, the courage and confidence of a person in the dormitory make him doubt his own abilities, and when he encounters difficulties and setbacks, he will give up on himself and let himself go.

The fundamental difference between a confident person and a person with low self-esteem is that a confident person usually thinks about all kinds of good possibilities, while a person with low self-esteem thinks about all kinds of bad possibilities.

In fact, from low self-esteem to self-confidence, it is really a very long process, and the experience in it is really only felt by people who are immersed in the scene. <>

In fact, if you ask me what the real inferiority complex is, I can only say too much, and everyone behaves differently, if I say that I have low self-esteem, I don't behave like it. Saying that I am not inferior, I don't agree with it in my heart. Now I can only rely on myself to slowly grope the threshold that can make me confident.

Listen less to what others say and don't pay much attention to what others say. These two points will allow you to reduce a lot of troubles in the world. I know a person with low self-esteem, he is not confident in what he does, she is easy to care about other people's opinions, in fact, I think people with low self-esteem also have a great impact on his family of origin, if a person has experienced a lot of family trauma when he is young, it will cause him to become inferior and very unconfident in the process of growing up in the future, especially for children who lack love, when he grows up, he is really insecure.

I believe that a very confident person, he will be able to do a lot of things with ease, if a person often praises you, even if you are very inferior at the beginning, you will slowly become confident, because I think the real life circle, the circle of friends is very important, just like you are bright now all you see is light, you are in the dark, you are dark as far as you can see. Although I know that going from low self-esteem to self-confidence is a very difficult process, there are many people who go from self-confidence to low self-esteem, so everyone's experience is different, and it is impossible to define this kind of thing. If you really want to pursue what kind of process it is to go from low self-esteem to self-confidence, it is probably that you will feel that your life is getting better and better, and you will be better and better, and then the people or things you meet will be in the same class.

I think if all people will gradually get better, then there will be fewer and fewer people with low self-esteem. Although life is difficult, and sometimes everyone's experience is different, but it is also necessary to live well and eat well.

Going from humble to confident is like having been cloudy for several days without sunshine, and the surroundings are dark and damp, and suddenly one day the weather is good, refreshing and sunny, and it feels very warm.

If you have always felt that you are very humble before, you can change your appearance to make yourself more confident, you can learn more about dressing, make a popular and suitable hairstyle, take off the eyes that have been worn for a long time, keep fit, and make yourself feel new, maybe you can feel some self-confidence, you can also enrich your inner self, read more, and let yourself have more ink in your stomach.

It's a long process and a challenging experience that gives you a new lease of life.

It was a very nice experience. From low self-esteem to self-confidence, you can make a great change in your life, and at the same time, you can make yourself more popular with others and make yourself live a life worthwhile.

For a person to be successful, one must have self-confidence. ......The so-called self-confidence, simply put, is to believe in oneself, in-depth understanding, is the self-affirmation of oneself to solve complex problems. ......A person's success depends on self-confidence, and where does a person's self-confidence come from?

What do you need to get it? Clarity on this issue is of great significance for us to build self-confidence.

Specifically, a person's self-confidence is obtained by the following factors:

1. Self-confidence first comes from the strong strength that you have.

Fundamentally, self-confidence is generated by one's own ability.

A person with mediocre ability and who can't do anything well is destined to lack self-confidence. ......Only those outstanding talents will have strong self-confidence. ......For us ordinary people, the skill we are best at is our own self-confidence.

Therefore, the foundation of self-confidence is the strength you have.

2. Self-confidence requires strong willpower to produce.

Self-confidence belongs to the psychological and conscious level of existence. Therefore, it requires the support of willpower to fight hail to produce.

It is impossible for a person with weak willpower to have a self-confident ......This has been proven countless times in real life......And those who have strong self-confidence and do not give up even when they encounter difficulties are all people with strong willpower. Therefore, a self-confident person must be a person with strong willpower.

It can be seen that another important aspect of self-confidence is your own willpower.

3. Self-confidence can only be generated by self-reliance and self-improvement, and can be maintained for a long time.

Self-confidence is the spirit of self-reliance and self-improvement.

Self-confidence comes from one's own strength and relies on strong willpower, but it requires the spirit of self-reliance and self-improvement to produce and maintain ...... long-termThe spirit of self-reliance and self-improvement is the correct demonstration of one's own strong willpower, and only with this spirit can we establish self-confidence, let ourselves have self-confidence, and maintain self-confidence for a long time, and will not retreat because of difficulties.

Therefore, the spirit of self-reliance and self-improvement is the concrete support of self-confidence.

4. Only people who work hard and keep forging ahead can produce and delay their limbs and have self-confidence.

It is impossible for a person who does not want to make progress to have self-confidence.

Those who have strong self-confidence are, without exception, motivated and ......constantly improvingThese people continue to work hard for their own development and progress, and their motivation is strong self-confidence. ......Because of this, self-confidence is generated from these people and sustained for a long time.

From the above analysis, it can be seen that the generation of self-confidence is a multifaceted ......Only by having these conditions at the same time can you generate and have strong self-confidence for a long time, provide a steady stream of motivation for your own development and progress, and make yourself finally successful.

Confident people are more inferior together because:When a person's self-confidence is based on a strong sense of superiority, an inferiority complex arises when others have it and they can't get it.

When Jack Ma and Musk had a public dialogue at a summit in Shanghai, Jack Ma showed excessive inferiority complex in front of Musk, I think it should be because he found out that Musk has what he doesn't have, and he can't do anything about it, and he can't get it.

Because Ma Yun's self-confidence is based on a strong sense of superiority, he does not correctly feel the most basic dignity and self-confidence as a person, and this self-confidence built solely by relying on a sense of superiority will be destroyed when facing people who are superior to him.

At the same time, because he does not properly feel the most basic dignity and worth as a human being, there is no way to respect others equally from the heart while maintaining self-confidence.

How to change your inferiority complex:

Learn to look at problems from multiple angles, look at and evaluate yourself comprehensively and dialectically, not only to see your own shortcomings truthfully, but also to see your own strengths appropriately, and we must not fail to see our own shortcomings and superiorities because of some of our inferiorities.

It is necessary to discover more of your strengths and build self-confidence. It is necessary to face failures and setbacks with a rational attitude, to be ambitious, and not to give up the pursuit because of setbacks.

Be good at tapping your own potential, using your own characteristics, boldly trying, and have the courage to fight. Only by objectively evaluating oneself and others, making correct social comparisons with them, can a person help to affirm oneself and overcome an inferiority complex.