I m so distressed for her, I m so upset for her

Updated on healthy 2024-05-28
28 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Did that girl delete your buckle because you didn't talk to her? If that's the case, then it makes sense for her to delete you. If you talk to her and she deletes you, it usually means that you are not quite right in terms of language.

    If it's really too tangled but there's no way, then hurry up and find a better girl, just forget about it. Time is the best medicine But your mentality is very normal, the average person reaches puberty, especially boys, will have all kinds of good feelings and admiration for girls, but I still recommend that you mainly focus on learning It would be good to have a correct mentality.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    You're wasting your time, you know? Is it worth it? Personally, I suggest that you, like this case, you can be bold and tell that you like her.

    Whatever the outcome, isn't it a relief for you? She refused, and that's fine, you can put it down with peace of mind. When you think about her, you can always remind yourself that she doesn't like me, or that she wants to study.

    Thinking about her is just a waste of time. If she's interesting to you, I'm sure you can see it too.

    Men have to learn to endure. Don't be overwhelmed by a little thing.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    As a person who has come over, I said that you are very immature, maybe your current feelings are real, but time will change everything, and you are only "judging people by their appearance", if you really know her and understand her, you may be disappointed. Maybe she's not suitable for you, and you're still a junior high school student, or study-oriented, there will be more opportunities to meet more beautiful mm in the future, the reason why you're suffering now is that you can't get what you want, this is also the normal psychology of ordinary people, you don't think of her too perfectly, maybe your mood will be better. Don't just keep your eyes on one person.

    The world is very big, and fate is also mutual.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If you really like her, then

    Pluck up the courage to chase after it

    If you don't want to, you might as well give up

    Because if you're still in a crush and don't pursue it

    You can only watch her fall in love and watch her be happy

    And he was in pain

    In that case, I can only advise you to give up

    Now that you're young, the important thing is to study

    Now you are too precocious

    At that time, we didn't know what love was.

    Study hard, and you will have the ability to achieve success in the future

    Go and get her again!!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You're only in junior high school, and you're not going to go to high school? Did you go to college? Can you guarantee that you will go to a high school and a college?

    Even if you get along with her, can you ever do it? Obviously not. So, you just let it go, and when you grow up, there are so many good girls.

    Now is not the time.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Reading good books, walking good roads, and growing up healthily helps.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You'd better not think about it, otherwise you're upset, she's upset, and your eldest brother is even more upset when he knows!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Heal slowly, time is the best tool to repair wounds.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    The score you give is very pleasing to the eye. The physical injury depends on the doctor, but the psychological injury still depends on oneself, and it may be better to take the injury as a lesson.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Hurting and learning to endure is a valuable experience of the transition from youth to maturity.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    s is injured Highlights**Decompress Look, I, Space.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You're going to have to read more books, and there's some news. Be confident in what you do, and don't always think that you are not good. In fact, everyone's instinctive reaction is the same.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Ay! It's pretty much the same as I used to be.

    Learn to grow up on your own!! You have to go through something to grow.

    Humans are animals that don't grow up because of the passage of time!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It's not bad, like the state in front of you, but it's going to be corrected later, you have to learn to be a careful person! Good luck! Happy and happy!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Do you want to do so much? You're always thinking about what you're going to do, and you're all over what you're going to say.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You lack self-confidence, you need to cultivate it, and you have to be bold.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If you don't have self-confidence, you can't do anything.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It seems that your parents are sensible people, and the family lives in harmony, so they are very popular, and everyone is willing to talk to your parents if they have something to say, one is to vent the grievances and depression in their hearts, and the other is to get the persuasion and comfort of your parents.

    You are already a big child, after listening to it, don't believe only one side's opinion, don't dwell on it, but analyze the reasons, summarize the lessons and lessons, so as to understand some things, and learn from your parents' practices, which will be helpful to you in your later life.

    It's also normal to think about your future life. But no one can estimate exactly what will happen in the future, don't be too entangled, do your best, and let everything go naturally!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I'm so annoyed, and at the same time, high school students, suddenly feel like all the troubles are coming at once, and I almost feel like I'm about to collapse, inexplicable troubles, inexplicably upset, so annoying, so annoying.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    As before me, understood.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Take a tour of the neighborhood! You don't spend much money, so you can relax; To see inspirational movies, it is recommended to watch "The Shawshank Redemption"; The reason why people suffer from reducing desires and making them suffer is because they have too many desires; Don't burden yourself too much, often the "imaginary difficulties" are much greater than the "actual difficulties"; Don't set yourself too ambitious goals and push yourself ......Rock transport.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    1 All 1If the cleanliness habit is severe enough to obsessive-compulsive disorder, **mostly psychological**, supplemented by drugs**.

    2.Systematic desensitization**: Ask the patient to write down the things and scenes they are afraid of, and the things they often do, from mild to severe, and then control their behavior every day by starting with the easiest things, such as gradually reducing the frequency and time of handwashing.

    3.Cognition: The key to cognition lies in educational correction.

    Educational correction starts from several aspects: 1) Find out the cause of cleanliness and use scientific knowledge to dispel misunderstandings. 2) Ask the patient to change the way of thinking, have a plan, and do the main thing first.

    3) For children, parents should cooperate. Adopt a scientific parenting style and don't be overly demanding on your child's cleanliness. Let your child learn to control his behavior.

    Give timely praise and rewards for good behavior.

    4.Disgust**: The rubber band method is often employed.

    That is, let the patient wear a rubber band on his wrist, and once he is about to have compulsive actions or behaviors, let him use the rubber band to flick his wrist dozens or even hundreds of times, until the obsessive thoughts disappear and there is pain, so as to achieve the purpose of inhibiting the compulsive behavior.

    5.Full Fill**: Have the patient sit in a room and ask a close friend or relative to be an assistant.

    The patient relaxes the whole body, closes the eyes gently, and then asks the assistant to apply various liquids on the patient's hands, such as water, ink, rice soup, oil, dyes, etc. When applying, the patient should try to relax as much as possible, while the assistant tries to verbally describe the dirty hands. The patient should be as patient as possible until he or she opens his eyes and sees how dirty the bottom is.

    The assistant should use transparent and opaque liquids randomly, and water and other liquids randomly when applying liquids. In this way, when the patient opens his eyes, his hands are not dirty, at least not as dirty as he imagined, which is a shock to the patient's mind, indicating that "dirty" often comes more from his own thoughts and does not match the actual situation. When the patient finds that his hands are indeed dirty, the urge to wash his hands will be greatly enhanced, at this time, the assistant must prohibit him from washing his hands, which is the key.

    The patient may feel a lot of pain, but try to hold on, and the assistant should be there to actively encourage them.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It's good to pay attention to hygiene and love hygiene, but everything has a degree, don't be too deliberate. If you are too deliberate, you have a tendency to obsessive-compulsive disorder. Adjust your mentality and make yourself dirty, life needs to be combined at all levels and needs to be experienced.

    Everything is opposite. Didn't get dirty and clean? And nothing is absolute.

    Is it really clean when you say clean?

    Think about it, then tune it up, and you'll be fine. A big grin.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    The focus is on psychological problems, try to relax, our usual living environment is not dirty, everyone is the same person is not dirty. We walk on the land together, and eventually we all return to what is dirty in the land

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    First of all, it is good to love cleanliness, but it is not good to have a compulsive type. The solution is to have a scientific understanding of this problem, and it will not be dirty after careful washing, and it is impossible to say that it is absolutely clean, after all, we ourselves have the ability to resist. So be open and relaxed.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    This cleanliness habit is a bit serious. It is advisable to consult a psychologist. It feels like a hindrance, and I hope you get better soon. Wishing you good health.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Indeed, if you are sick, go to a psychiatrist.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    It's kind of similar to me, but I'm not as serious as you.

    You are indeed sick, see a doctor.

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