How can I become stable and mature for her, what should I do???

Do what you say! Humorous, witty and innocuous without being harmless. Have a goal for the rest of your life!

You also need to have an accurate analysis of yourself. Informal, dare to do. The main thing is self-motivation.

1 Your age.

2 Are you working.

Your personality is slowly cultivated, and the more anxious and persistent you are, the more you show your immaturity.

It's better to be calmer I used to be too, and I fell out of love because I was immature, and sometimes, the girl just wants you not to be too noisy, too excited, too concerned about her, you have your own things to do, don't always think about her all day long, she will think that you are unproductive, you have to do something serious.

You didn't say what your girlfriend's attitude and demands were on you, so I can only guess that this is the case.

It is recommended that you describe the situation clearly the next time you ask a question, which is also one of the signs of maturity.

Why let others become stable and mature, being yourself is the best, being the most authentic self.

If she likes you, then no matter what you are, she will like you, and if she doesn't like you, then even if you become stable and mature, she still won't like you!

Maturity doesn't mean that you can "become" overnight.

But you can start by fixing your current little faults.

I don't know what you're like, but he will ask you to be mature and steady, so you may be showing frivolity or not being involved in the world.

In the future, think about it before you speak, and try not to say some conclusive sentences, such as "This person must be wrong like this, if it were me, I would be what I would do", such words sound silly to girls.

To be mature, you still have to rely on social experience, in fact, immaturity also has the cuteness of immaturity

You should let him rely on you.

Be a man, be yourself, what you are is what you are, and if you change, you will no longer be you!

Change your dressing style, formal wear will look a little more mature, and maturity is something from the inside out, and it is not okay to look mature but actually immature! The main thing is to be mature in thought, and temperament is very important, work steadily and seriously, and don't be impetuous in conversation and behavior. It takes time to mature, take your time, pay more attention in life, and it will get better.

In fact, it's the same, others always say.

I'm only a teenager, but I'm actually in my twenties. What's so bad about being young?

1. Maturity is intrinsic, pay attention to personal cultivation, think about things before acting, and cultivate a stable character and attitude towards the world;

2. Maturity is also external, dress appropriately, conform to your own characteristics, be generous, and don't dress strangely;

3. Maturity is responsibility and obligation. Be responsible in everything and fulfill your obligations as a person. Maturity is not in his attire, but in his way of talking and doing things, learn more, go deep into society, pay attention to change his own problems, think more about others, this answer will tell you.

How our minds work! I am my own best psychiatrist! Because no one knows yourself better than you. Psychological suggestion! Follow the fear according to how the subconscious mind.

For example, there is a single-plank bridge that people can easily cross, but what if the bridge is raised a hundred feet high!

Your subconscious mind will imagine a lot of things about you falling off the bridge! That's your subconscious! When you hesitate, the subconscious mind usually overcomes your conscious mind, that is, these fantasies will directly affect your thoughts, your thoughts are timid, and you will naturally have no self-confidence, even if you can cross an ordinary bridge with your eyes closed, when you subconsciously appear in all kinds of bad situations that may happen to you, you will be timid, you will not have any self-confidence, ** way!

Don't hesitate, face it directly and confidently, as long as you face it confidently and defeat the first time, then it is the beginning of your fearlessness, and the most direct way is to use your own anger to drive away the inner fear!! Tell those bad things that you are sacrosanct! Difficulties can't face you!

When it's time to speak, don't say too much, don't talk about the point, don't have superfluous expressions; The movements and manners should be moderate and not too exaggerated; Don't dress too childishly, these are superficial. But it looks like people feel more mature, and if you want to think that you are mature, then pay attention to your own thoughts. In fact, these things are slowly accumulated in life, a little more life experience, a little more life experience, and a rational view of things.

External maturity can only be achieved by dressing up, and inner maturity needs time to be tempered, and you will understand it after experiencing it, even if you have not experienced it, you can also learn the principles of life from your elders. There are a lot of books about how to behave in the world, and you spend some time on them. In the workplace, we must change the arrogance and bad habits when we were students, and be a conscientious and responsible person at work.

In life, one's own experience is the best material to make oneself mature, even if the elders teach themselves, when they really face problems, they will deeply understand the truth of life. The attitude and values of life will also slowly change, and the thinking will mature. Mature people will think and analyze their own path from multiple perspectives.

The criterion of maturity, maturity can be both a physical indicator of a person and an indicator of a person's psychological thoughts. Psychological maturity and physical maturity are two different things, but they are linked.

When it comes to the issue of psychological maturity, I believe that a mature person has strong independence in thought, feelings, actions, and finance, and has little dependence on others. Understand what life is, know what you want to do, have a clear purpose in life, and have practical actions. Able to control their emotions, and have the ability to observe and perceive things, have a good attitude towards real life, and have a considerable ability to bear and resist setbacks and difficulties.

No longer be credulous, but practice.

In short, a mature person means that he has found himself and has handled the relationship between himself and the outside world very well.

Whether there is an ego and how to treat it is an important criterion to measure whether a person is mature or not. Of course, this is relative, because people are constantly becoming mature, you can compare your present with the past, see if you are maturing, this is a longitudinal comparison, you can also compare yourself with the people around you, this is a balanced comparison.

1. Pay attention to promises: Mature men will never go back on their word, he attaches great importance to each of his promises, and carefully considers whether his words can really be fulfilled before making a wish. Every word he says makes you feel reassured and trusted.

The man who runs the train with his mouth, fires empty cannons indiscriminately, and can't take action for a long time, has nothing to do with maturity.

2. Don't talk exaggerated: A mature man never talks casually, he will grasp the appropriate silence, and speak clearly but not shouting. Just drink a little wine and tell a little story about your own little experience all over the table, and half a room can hear it without a loudspeaker, this kind of man, at most, will make the audience laugh, and no one will put your various so-called "road of struggle" in their hearts.

3. Knowledgeable and subtle and introverted: they read, accept new things and new information, and constantly enrich their connotation. But they are unassuming, their talents are only shown when necessary, and they are never deliberately showy in order to satisfy their vanity.

They are like mellow wine, the more you taste it, the more you taste it.

Fourth, broad-minded: mature men don't care, don't covet small gains, don't care about small losses, and don't chatter about this and that.

5. Not self-centered: Mature men respect themselves and know how to respect others.

6. Have the courage to admit mistakes: mature men are not stubborn, can accept different opinions, and are good at adopting good suggestions. They have the courage to bear the consequences of their own inappropriate decisions, and never make excuses to prevaricate.

7. Firm-willedness: Mature men have the psychological quality of not being chaotic, and once they determine the goal they are striving for, they will work towards it.

Indifferent and ambitious, quiet and far-reaching. Calm down

Read some books. This is very useful. If you want to be stable, you can watch some Chinese studies. Or practice calligraphy.

To be steady, you must keep yourself from being empty, and you must have good things in your heart, culture, knowledge, and learn more.

We used to have a teacher who said very well, talk less, do more. Such people like it.

Zeng Guofan said it well, "Your shortcomings are that your words are not dull, your manners are not dignified, you can't read books deeply, and your writing can't be grandiose." If you can work these three things, make progress and persevere, but for a year or two, you will not realize it. ”

Exercise? Read more, study more, and make yourself more stable! Learning can have connotation, and if it has connotation, it will naturally be mature and stable.

I think that I should be careful, careful, soft-spoken, slower-speaking, and not frivolous. Do more things and calm down when you encounter things, don't panic, and be cautious.

For the first time, everyone will be nervous and unnatural and steady, experience more things, and dare to face failure. Experience one more thing and taste the truth, and you may be more stable than before.

If you don't experience wind and rain, how can you see a rainbow"!

1. Be humble and cautious. 2. Be a down-to-earth person. 3. Be reflective. 4. Don't talk about people behind your back. 5. Be cautious in words and deeds. 6. Be generous.