Can blind dates only be introduced by relatives and friends?

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Blind date introduction of friends is not only through relatives, friends, colleagues, but also through social matchmaking agencies

But I need to remind you that it is generally difficult to guarantee and determine the true situation of the person introduced by the marriage agency, and frankly it is a bit unreliable Plus the introducer in the middle is not an acquaintance, and the blind date object generally does not take this matter seriously This kind of blind date cares more about the first side, in other words, the requirements for external conditions are relatively high and it is also very realistic

Generally, blind dates are still through relatives, friends, and colleagues to help, so you can know the root of it Take your time There is always someone waiting for you in the vast sea of people

Why is there such a hurry? When fate comes, it will naturally come.

Each other, I too, have little hope, and the good people have been picked up.

You'd better go and don't bother, it's best to find it there.

I still think that relying on a matchmaking company is not reliable, and the regular one is not very reliable, and it is always better to rely on a blind date to introduce an acquaintance, 28 only, it doesn't matter, I am a family that would rather lack than abuse, marriage really has to be thought through, and two people who are not suitable will not be together for a long time, so why rush to get married for the sake of marriage.

We all know that blind date is a relatively common phenomenon now, at present, all kinds of blind date programs are continuous, and there are many people around them who are introduced to each other through the people in the family, and the current popular phenomenon in society is not less, most of this kind of family relatives introduce blind dates to get married soon, so, what is the probability of success in introducing blind dates by relatives? Let's take a look at it with the questions.

First of all, the most critical point of the success of the blind date is that the boy and the girl like each other and appreciate each other, so that the probability of success of the blind date introduced by relatives will be higher. At present, the probability of success of blind dates introduced by relatives in the society is relatively high, on the one hand, because the introduction of the family will be more in line with the requirements of parents, and it is easier to pass the parents' pass; Secondly, more parents will feel that they are more able to see people than their children, and will know better what kind of filial piety type of partner their children need more.

On the other hand, due to the relatively fierce social competition at present, more and more young people are paying more attention to work and other aspects, so they will pay less attention to their marital status, so when the relatives in the family introduce a person with similar conditions, they will generally get married after not long together.

Therefore, the probability of success of the blind date introduced by relatives is relatively high, but it is still recommended that the men and women in the blind date should like each other on the premise of liking each other, and have a certain understanding of each other before entering the marriage hall.

Personally, I don't think there's any difference, whether it's relatives or friends, the people who want to introduce me to people are people who have a good relationship with me. Their starting point is the same, I hope I can find my own happiness as soon as possible, now few people are willing to be a matchmaker, because they don't want to cause trouble, so the person who wants to introduce you to friends must be someone who values you very seriously.

The relationship is very close, so I am willing to be a matchmaker, I think I and the blind date are very suitable, so I introduced whether it is a good friend or a relative, they are all people who know me very well, and the blind date they introduced to me are all people who are suitable for each other. So, I don't think there's any difference between the two, it's all for my own good, and I want to have a home as soon as possible. If you feel that there is a difference between the two, that is, you don't trust your friends or relatives, I think everyone in this society is very busy and doesn't want to make trouble for yourself, how can it be so easy to be a matchmaker?

Everyone is good if they are good, once they are not good, they are going to get divorced, and the matchmaker is the culprit. I have a friend who is divorced, and she blames her matchmaker, and she says that this person is the worst, look at who she introduced to me? Everyone said, is this matchmaker pitiful, wronged?

Therefore, the people who can take the initiative to introduce you to the blind date are all because they think that you are a good child, and treat you as their own family, and the person who introduces you must think that you two are very suitable before introducing you.

Friends introduced are young people, may be more suitable for you, relatives may be more suitable for marriage, we often fall into a question, is to find a person I love to marry, or find a suitable person for me to marry? Marriage is a very advanced science, and some people can't do it well in their lives, so the marriage partner is very important. My friends are my peers, so they may know more about my joys and sorrows, what kind of person I want to find, and what kind of person my personality is suitable for?

As a relative is an elder, the person he thinks of to marry may be someone who is suitable for this life, so such a person is suitable for marriage, but not necessarily my favorite.

In any case, the starting point of both parties is for my own good. In the end, the person who picks the object is still myself, so you must have your own opinion, you are optimistic about this boy, you decide to choose him, and boldly move forward.

I don't know if you will have a kind of confusion, that is, when you reach the age of 25 and do not have a partner, whether it is a friend or a relative, they will try their best to introduce you to the blind date. Because this age is not big or small, it is a very embarrassing age in the middle, in order to fear that you will not have a partner in the future, so friends and relatives will go to introduce you to the right person.

First, the object of the friend's introduction, the introduction object is considered to be the personality of two people

In life, the person who is introduced to you by a friend will mainly consider the personality of the two people. Because friends know you best, people may know you better than your family, and you will also show your most sincere and true side in front of your friends, so because you know the two of you, you will take into account that your personality is suitable, and then introduce you both.

Comparatively speaking, the object of the friend's introduction is more consistent with your age and personality, because you know what kind of person you like, so you will find the right friend around him in this framework, and if I think both of you are very suitable, I will introduce you both.

The person I introduced is not embarrassed, and the two of them can also have a period of falling in love, because it may be, group a dinner, everyone has a meal together and chat, if you think it is appropriate, you can go down, then you can also enjoy the feeling of falling in love. This kind of blind date may also be a popular way offline.

The people introduced to us by relatives can be more about the conditions of two people. Relatives are generally our elders, they see more than we think, because they will consider whether the conditions of the two people are compatible, if they do, then they will introduce the two people, they want two people to live together well, not to say that the two people introduce each other.

This kind of blind date may be more tiring, because it is impossible to fall in love, and the two people will be together because of the same conditions.

Third, there is no need to mind the form of blind date, and you may be able to meet the right person

Now blind date has become a popular thing, whether it is online or offline is a very common thing, for the blind date introduced by friends and the blind date introduced by relatives, in fact, there is no need for him to exclude, maybe you will be able to meet the right person, so when they introduce people to you, you can try to contact to see if it is suitable, and it is not suitable.

The difference is huge. Most of the blind dates introduced by friends are people who have the same interests, hobbies and careers as you. However, if the blind date is introduced by the family, most of them are people with excellent family conditions, healthy parents, and self-motivated and career-oriented people.

Distinguish between friends who introduce more attention to the table, and relatives who introduce more attention to character. The person introduced by a friend is handsome and will dress insincerely, and the person introduced by a relative is honest and has a general appearance.

The blind dates introduced by friends are often people who are more suitable for themselves in personality. And the blind dates introduced by relatives are often the right people with their own doors. That's the biggest difference between the two.

I think that the object introduced by relatives should be more reliable, and the person who knows the root will also understand the other party's family and his parents, and the friend introduces him differently, but he has some understanding of this person.

They introduce people they come into contact with at that level. Because the conditions of my relatives' families are relatively limited, the objects introduced are all good and poor, and they are inferior to me in all aspects; On the contrary, the introduction of friends will be more compatible with themselves.

There is no difference. It's all the same, it's just a blind date for you, and there's nothing special about it.

Personally, I think that the blind date introduced by your friends will be more of the type you like, because they know you better. What relatives introduce is what they think is good, and what they value more is the conditions and stability. The difference is that the reason for the introduction is different, and the one introduced by a friend is more suitable for falling in love.

The blind date introduced by a friend doesn't know all aspects, but it is possible that the personality can be compatible. The blind date introduced by relatives is more realistic, and life may not be happy.

The object introduced by a friend is more suitable for himself and feels compatible, while the object introduced by a relative is too realistic and feels like a transaction.

How many blind dates are related to each other now, the more parents are, the closer they are, in other words, real relatives, the objects introduced to us are precisely the most unsuitable for us? Because these relatives often do not understand the child. Our parents and these close relatives, they love us, but they don't understand us.

What's even more terrifying is that they think they know us well. Parents and those close relatives who care about us and love us always think that they know their children very well, know what they need, what kind of partner they like, in fact, they go to find a partner for their children according to their own preferences, in other words, what they think their children like. But in fact, when children become adults, their communication with their parents and relatives begins to be stylized, that is, they are very close on the surface, live together, and seem to see each other often, but they rarely communicate effectively.

The words are simple communication in daily life, the kind of thought communication that is deep and touches the soul, and it seems difficult to achieve with parents and relatives. First of all, there is a generation gap between the two generations, different values, and different views on many things. Therefore, it is difficult for young people to open their hearts to these elders, and their true thoughts will not be confided in them.

Because they don't understand it, they are likely to interfere in their own lives. Therefore, parents and elders are always wishful thinking about their children, and they think about it with their own ideas. The same is true for emotional matters.

And this kind of speculation is often inconsistent with the child's real thoughts and actual needs. Many times, parents will feel that they have taken some detours and stepped on some pits emotionally when they are young, and they don't want their children to fall into them. It is precisely because he was young that he had those wrong thoughts and wanted to help his children correct them in time, so he is likely to follow his current age of thinking about feelings, and feel that what kind of person is more suitable for marriage and life, to shoehorn into his children, and also hope that his children will fully accept his emotional values.

Because now irrelevant people are in trouble.

Your loved ones are the closest people to you. They care about themselves above all and want to live a better life. Therefore, in order to start a family as soon as possible, when you go home for the Spring Festival, your relatives will arrange a blind date for you, hoping that you will fall in love and get married as soon as possible.

If you don't have any plans to fall in love and get married for the time being, you can deal with this problem by telling the other party that you are in love, taking the initiative to explain your career goals, and raising your selection criteria.

1. When you are arranged to go on a blind date, you can tell the other party that you are in love.

First of all, you must make it clear that the reason why relatives will arrange blind dates for them is fundamentally to ...... for their own goodTherefore, I should be kind to my relatives to arrange blind dates. ......Specifically, you can cope by telling your relatives that you are already in a relationship. ......When relatives know that they are already in love, they will think that they are about to get married, so that he will not arrange blind dates for himself again, and the matter will be satisfactorily resolved.

2. You can decline blind dates by taking the initiative to explain your career goals.

It is difficult to have both career and family. ......Therefore, you can use this factor to decline the blind date arranged by your relatives. ......Specifically, you can deal with your relatives by taking the initiative to explain your career situation and express your career goals in the new year.

When they found out that they were ready to work hard to develop their careers, their relatives only trembled and stopped mentioning blind dates.

3. Improving the standard of mate selection is a very effective way to refuse blind dates.

Relatives arrange blind dates for themselves in the hope that they can build a happy family. ......Therefore, you can cope by raising the bar for mate selection. ......Specifically, when communicating with relatives, you can raise your own standards for choosing a mate very high, so that there will be very few people who can meet your requirements, and in order for your marriage to be happy, this standard cannot be lowered, so that relatives will not be lucky enough to introduce themselves to objects that do not meet their requirements, but will persuade themselves not to worry......In this way, you can properly handle the matter of relatives arranging blind dates for yourself.

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