My boyfriend wasn t considerate of my feelings at all

Updated on psychology 2024-05-26
48 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    That's because your boyfriend thinks that he has chased you and that the person is already his, and there is no need to be as good to you as he was when he chased you, but he must still love you, and if you don't believe you and try to break up with him, he will definitely not agree.

    You have to satisfy him, let him be curious about you, let him have a kind of thinking in his heart and it is not easy to get, he will slowly stick to you, you have to remember not to let him be satisfied, you are now passive, you have to turn passive into active, let him feel that he can't do without you, but you don't want to be too desperate, but also make him happy and happy, if he wants you can't give him at all, something will happen after a long time, and you can't give him your heart all at once. I hope you are happy.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Let's calm down first, some men say that it is cheap, the more you treat him, the more you care about him, the less he will cherish you, everything must have a degree, don't often call ** to him, hit one, he doesn't answer, he may not hear it, hit again, or don't answer, then you know that he deliberately didn't answer, so there is no need to be bored and go to the third time, if he doesn't answer, no matter how many times you hit, it's useless. If it's me, I won't hit him anymore from now on, let him take the initiative to call me, if not, it proves that he doesn't love you anymore, so reluctantly it's not interesting.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Prove that he doesn't really love you, he just wants to chase a girl and play fresh. Don't even reply to a text message, that kind of person is not even a hair, he is not worthy of your nostalgia, it is recommended that you give up quickly, he is either tired of you or has a new love, and the person who really loves you will always care about your words and deeds.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    What you can't get is always in turmoil, and if you get it, there's nothing new about it, just want to prove that you have the ability, and you just rely on it! Learn to let go, learn not to connect, and learn to forget.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    My boyfriend was the same, and finally I broke up, and now I'm a lot happier.

    After withdrawing, I realized that it was not worth it to belittle myself for them.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    He goes out to play, won't you play? How did you get by before you met him? What is there to cry about. Judging from what you said, you two are not married yet, are you? Did you live together without getting married?

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you don't have a common language, just break up.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    The quicksand in the palm, the tighter you hold it, the faster it will drain, everyone has their own space, you can also have your own small world, why bother to keep going around his world.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    In addition to boyfriend and girlfriend, everyone will also have a lot of friends of the opposite sex, and he doesn't tell you because he is afraid that you will be too careful. He's cold to you because he doesn't know how to play tricks after getting along for a long time, so he's not as enthusiastic as before.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You think a lot about everyone not only has love, in fact, friendship is also very important, it doesn't matter who you chat with, it doesn't matter who you make friends with, the important thing is character, if he is all good, you don't need to worry about who he chats with, people need to have friends, it's better to give each other a little space!

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Two people should be considerate of each other, and should also give each other some space to trust each other more, and it is recommended that two people have a frank talk.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It's okay.,It's just that it's not as passionate as it was at the beginning.,Boys like this.,Eating in the bowl and looking at the pot.,But it's okay.,Normal interactions won't have anything.,If you like it, you'll pay attention to your feelings.。 If you think it's good, take it, dear.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's because he is too attentive, and he doesn't cherish it when he gets it.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You pretend to have some netizens, chat every day, and see if he cares about you, and when you take care of you, you can talk to him openly and honestly. Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    ==Such a boyfriend, if I am also helpless, maybe too tired, I don't want to bear it, I will choose to let go, because he doesn't really love you.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Just a party, just for the sake of the so-called face, just to satisfy your vanity, sweep away a woman's generosity, magnanimity, and dignity! Is it worth it?

    And if you want to have your own face to earn by yourself, what car you like to drive, don't just rely on men, in addition to vanity and comparison, it really makes people think that you are worthless.

    Besides, it's not that you don't always spill, if that man is really good to you, loves you, and you love him, even if it's a bicycle, it doesn't matter, right?

    The last thing I said is that if you want him to give you a long face, you can communicate and discuss it in advance, what is your relationship for?

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Because he is not careful enough, does not love you enough, and cannot feel the changes in your emotions well, maybe he is not so mature and has not learned how to think from the perspective of others, although he cannot be blamed for this, but you also have to help him grow.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If you don't drive a car that is not high-end, others will look down on it, which means that your friends are not real friends, they are small people, and you don't want such friends. You and your boyfriend have a good time, and happiness is the most important thing.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Actually, I feel that such a boyfriend is more selfish, he only cares about his own feelings and doesn't care about your feelings, so if that's the case, you should break up in the end and ask him what he means.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It could be that he doesn't really like you, or maybe he's a bit selfish and self-centered.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Your boyfriend doesn't take into account your feelings, I think he's determined by his personality. He is not a very attentive and considerate person, he may be careless, such a man, and there is a point that he is not very attentive to you. If the first two are personalities, you can settle for it.,If the latter one doesn't care about your feelings and doesn't care about you.,I think in this case, you have to consider how attentive he is, rather than blindly.。

    Bear to ignore and accommodate the other party, depending on whether your heart is suitable for him, if not, break up.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Either because he is too selfish and doesn't know how to think about others at all.

    Either that, he doesn't really like you that much, so he doesn't care about you that much.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    A person suffering a little setback at the right time is not necessarily a bad thing. If everything goes well, you won't know that you're wrong. Learn from your mistakes and grow from your failures.

    Life is a painting, and some people paint the vitality of spring; the green shade of summer; Autumn harvest; Hope for winter. And some people draw the sorrow of spring; Summer's restlessness; the desolation of autumn; The loneliness of winter. The color of life depends on your own attitude towards life.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    If your boyfriend doesn't consider your feelings at all, it means that he doesn't love you deeply.

    If a person truly loves another person, he will care about his every move and any feelings he feels.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Sometimes some men are quite selfish, they don't have a sense of responsibility at all, and they only care about their feelings when they don't think about others at all.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Your boyfriend doesn't think about your feelings at all, which proves that your boyfriend doesn't love you as much as he imagined, and if he loves you, he will definitely continue to think about you.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    I think you're a little vain, too comparative. The car is just a substitute, what you need is a boyfriend who cares about you, and a group of real friends instead of drinking and meat friends, who think that you have no money, and the car you drive is not as good as others, so you will not socialize with you.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Because everyone is supportive and only thinks about themselves, they will not think about others, so this phenomenon will occur. I hope that when you are together in the future, you will have to consider each other in everything, so that you will have better contact and get along.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Explain that your boyfriend is a more selfish person who only cares about his own feelings and does not consider the feelings of others, you can have a good talk with him and let him treat you to see if he will change.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    In family life, the most important way to resolve conflicts, improve relationships, trust each other, and maintain intimacy is communication, and distinguishing one's emotions and deductions, and having a stable state of mind is the premise of effective communication.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    He doesn't think about your feelings because he thinks more about himself, which is a sign of selfishness. And because I don't love you enough.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    It can be seen that this man is not psychologically mature! Things between couples are actually difficult for outsiders to explain clearly! But it can be seen that his attitude towards handling things is very immature and irrational......

    If things are slow, let things go for a while, and see how he explains the ...... of this matterDon't jump to conclusion!

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    It has to do with the education that your boyfriend has received, he doesn't empathize with others, he doesn't think about others, he is a self-centered person.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    It shows that he doesn't care about you at all in his heart, and it may be that he is a person who is more selfish and doesn't know how to consider other people's feelings.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Well, your boyfriend is indeed a little sensitive, especially the second cough, but people are born with very different personalities, you can communicate with him, if he really loves you, he can change it for you, love is supposed to let two people grow up at the same time, so that you know how to love, and the most important thing is the way of love. In addition, is it early to fall in love in high school, I advise you to put all your thoughts on the college entrance examination, and after the college entrance examination is over, it will be a new life.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    It's almost time for the college entrance examination. Doesn't your boyfriend help you with your homework? Are you still in love and not afraid of being distracted in the college entrance examination? I have to say, old. You don't have to stay up late to study.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Even if the college entrance examination is imminent, you don't need to stay up until 2 o'clock. Arrange your study time reasonably and make a good plan for each day. Squeeze out more time during the day to complete the plan, and you should go to bed before 11 o'clock at night, too late is not efficient.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Have you ever told him that you stay up until two o'clock in your studies, how can he know, talk to him?

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    There is no need to stay up until two o'clock at all, this will only start

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    I think he thinks you're a part of him, so he's going to be casual with you, and if you're not his girlfriend, I guess he'll be polite enough to find a reason to say goodbye politely. And some people's personalities are like this, he doesn't coax you because he thinks you're angry, and he won't tell you until you're angry, right??? It's not easy to find a love, give him confidence, cherish it!

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    You've said that sometimes, sometimes it doesn't mean all the time!

    If a person really loves someone, try to be considerate of the other person, and don't always act like a child.

    Think more about him, empathize, if you were him, what would you do?

    Or maybe that's how he was born with his character.

    But as long as you give your heart, even if he is a stone, he should be moved by you.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    That's what your boyfriend can't do. It may be more normal after marriage. It's just that the girls during the love period regard themselves as princesses. It's inevitable that there will be some hypocrisy. Don't be afraid of this, it's a fact.

    Girls in love are always very sensitive. A little carelessness will be noticed. It is easy to suffer from gains and losses.

    I always think about whether he loves me or not. In fact. There's no need for that.

    Do you want to ah,. If he doesn't love you. Or if I don't feel anything about you at all, and I'm bored, why should I be with you.

    Isn't it a waste of time? Isn't it?

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    An alcoholic has no money to drink.

    The owner of the tavern said to him, "As long as you can accomplish 3 things, I will treat you to drink for free for a year!" One, drink a full glass of tequila topped with pepper noodles. Second, pull out the teeth of the hippopotamus next door. Three, there is an old lady on the other side who has been widowed for many years, and you have to satisfy her. ”

    After the drunkard completed the first thing, his blood boiled and he broke down the door.

    Then, the hippopotamus next door let out a scream.

    After a while, the drunkard stood at the door of the tavern in rags, panting, and asked, "Where is the old lady who is going to have her teeth extracted?" ”

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Eh, men and women have different ways of thinking and habits, two people have to understand each other when they are together, I think he loves you, he has corrected after you said him, right, he is good to you, and sometimes you don't notice it? Oh, so believe in each other, love each other, and wish you happiness

    There is a big difference between men and women in their views on the same issue

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Maybe I don't love you enough, my words are only to let the other party hang up first anyway 52

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Sometimes it's in the details that he can see how he reacts.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    First of all, you have to judge whether he really likes you. Secondly, not every man's feelings are so delicate. Again, you have to show that he has improved. In the end, if it doesn't work, change people.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    A man's love for a woman is not something that can be seen in this way. To put it mildly, love doesn't have to be spoken.

    Again, when you first started, was he the same as he is now, or is he different from now?

    Men will have different ways of expressing the people they love, and different men will use their own most unique ways to care, love and wait for the people they love. So don't question love just because the other person isn't careful enough.

    Love requires both parties to work hard to maintain, don't care about how much you pay in love, don't doubt casually, and the most important thing is that there must be no deception. Mutual understanding and accommodation are also necessary.

    The above is my own view of love, and then I will tell you in detail, if your boyfriend was like this when he first started, then it can only be said that he is not careful enough. Of course, if it is the same before and after, there are only two possibilities, maybe he is the kind of person who will not cherish it if he gets it. Or maybe the worst:

    I've changed my mind... So your boyfriend's attitude is important before and after. If it's the latter, then I advise you to be mentally prepared...

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