How can I change her! How can you change yourself!

The only thing a person can change is herself.

The circumstances a person faces in his life will make a person's character. Once this personality is stereotyped, it will be difficult to change its nature.

But our progress, the process of learning knowledge, will make us improve as a whole, but our personality will not change. Maybe in this process, your mind has been broadened, your horizons have been broadened, and your connotation has been rich, but your nature has always been unwavering.

Changing oneself is a matter of habit under external forces, such as people who are not born to talk, and they always do not like to talk in their hearts, but if they enter the sales field, they must learn to talk endlessly. At this time, we learn the skills of speaking, write a lot of lines to memorize, say the same thing every day, practice makes perfect, and when we see the customer again, we open our mouths to say what we have said thousands of times, and then you will be considered to have changed. It's hard to change yourself, but when you go back to a quiet place, you still don't like to talk, that's your nature.

Changing oneself is a process that embarrasses oneself, but having a strong purpose is the way to change oneself and succeed. For example, I'm not a good long-distance runner, but the beast behind me is chasing you, even if you're running so fast that your ribcage is running. Everyone who is not good at it has to pay the price of blood if it becomes a strength.

It's not a few small entries that will help you, and it's not a few small suggestions that will help you.

But purposefulness is possible. This purposefulness must be strong and firm. That way, if you don't want to change, you have to change.

First of all, it depends on which aspect you want to change, if it is only external, such as obesity, then you can insist on eating less; But if it's an inner personality, you can change it through autosuggestion or something else, in short, everything is persevered and persevering.

I feel like you need to add something to this question before others understand the main intent. There are two things you need to be clear: first, what are your current shortcomings? Second, in what direction and to what extent do you want yourself to change?

The next step is to overcome the original behaviors and habits that you think are bad, and strive to move in the direction you are counting on. At the same time, we should also carefully sort out, ponder, and dialectically accept the sincere opinions and suggestions of others.

Stay on your own until you feel like you've changed. Good luck.

Thinking more about others means empathy, and you have to constantly supplement your knowledge.

Learn and learn and learn again! Hone hone hone and hone and hone!!

Plan yourself carefully, and then go down step by step

The best way to talk about yourself is to keep enriching yourself.

Take a sales lesson and you'll make a big difference in your life.

There are a lot of ways to change, and I don't know which one is right for you, but the quick way is to give yourself a plan and change slowly.

You have to see in what environment you have grown up.

You need to overcome your fears.

What am I going to do? The ex doesn't believe that you can change what to do?

If you want to change your luck, the most important thing in the world is to know your fate before you can change yourself...Different people will have different fates under the same circumstances. A person's fate is determined by Chang Yinku's heavens, and it is not decided by others, but by nature.