Am I going to be like this for the rest of my life?

First of all, you don't easily deny yourself, you also have a lot of advantages, strive to find your own advantages, don't always compare your own shortcomings with the advantages of others, you must believe that I am born to be useful, you also have your advantages and places to play, get up every morning to give yourself a smile, and tell yourself that others can I also be sure. If you do something well, you must give yourself positive affirmation, if you do something badly, don't deny yourself, first look for the best to see if you don't do well, and then learn a lesson, and avoid similar mistakes next time.

Secondly, get in touch with the people around you, try to communicate more with some less familiar classmates and less familiar people, you may be overwhelmed at first, then start with some small topics, topics that everyone knows can be talked about, when you don't know how, replace it with a smile, be bolder, and make more cheerful and lively classmates, they will also affect you, and slowly become active and cheerful.

Finally, when you encounter any difficulties, try to control your emotions, don't cry and make a fuss, lose every inch, take two deep breaths first, calm your emotions, and then seek a solution, at first you may not know how to solve it, then go to consult some more experienced people, and then slowly try to solve the problem yourself, in addition, you have grown up, you can rely on your parents and friends before, and you will have to rely on your parents in the future, so you have to be strong psychologically.

Hope the above is helpful to you and getting better and better!

Don't you even have the confidence to maintain your personality? People have different personalities, so why do you have to force yourself to be the same as others!

To be realistic, to face the real world? Yes, the reality is – you are what you are, this is what you are! A small world, a small life, if it is enough for yourself, why do you have to look at others?

Go social!

Everyone's personality is different.

Individuals have their own habits, and I feel that my character has been developed.

It is impossible to change.

I especially like gentle people.

But you can't have low self-esteem.

You have to try to be confident.

Get out and about and hang out with your friends.

Maybe it will help you a little.

You can look for the works of writers of your kind who will tell you everything you want to know.

I recommend "Dragon Ball Z" and "Naruto" to you

This is your character, it just means that your psychological quality is not very good. It should be said that you are a very affectionate person, but you should still cover it up when necessary. Of course, don't embellish in front of good friends and loved ones.

I always say to myself: I am alive and well!

Live well, live happily, because we are going to die for a long time.

Learn more, communicate more, and increase your knowledge.

People have to live their own lives, no matter what others think, as long as they feel right, do not do not, open their hearts and make friends. Don't have too many friends, just a few to talk about, and most people want to recognize you if you're tired.

Confident self-confidence, self-confidence, I suggest you go and see the Holy Son to. Also, your mentality is unbalanced, don't be afraid that others will surpass you, and not everything will develop according to your ideas.

Is that right? All people are unhappy, but the world does not change with my grief.

Instead, it makes people feel that we are vulnerable.

Go through the pain and allow yourself to mature quickly. I think it's your parents and your surroundings that make you feel comfortable, rest assured, you have to learn to be strong after all that you have been through.

We're all the same, and I always feel like everything is aimed at me.

Since we can't change, then we accept it.

Change when we're strong enough to change. Let others accept it.

Friend. This is very normal!Because I used to be the same as you! This is what people often call joy, anger, sorrow, and happiness!

It's just that you look at everything too sadly, you should think a little further away! Be as open as possible ... Maybe you can find someone to talk to. Don't keep it in your mind all day! I can understand your pain.

I can't help it, so I can find a vast place and go for a walk! Thinking about things like that is not the same as thinking about things with a melancholy mood

Hope I can help you.

It's normal to let go in front of your friends, is there anything wrong with you doing this?

Anyone who can't let go of strangers just depends on what level Crying is a kind of venting, not cowardice

I'm like this too, it's been so many years, there's always something in my psychology that I can't let go, and I feel that grievance, why can't I be happy?

I was like that when I was a kid, it's much better now.

You often create opportunities to meet up with friends and strangers.

Think about your strengths and benefits.

When you're sad, you cry loudly, crying is to vent your emotions, but you can pull it if you know it. Hehe.

I am what I am!

I firmly believe in going my own way!

I just need to be a wonderful enough person to interpret me!

But you have to know clearly that meekness does not mean cowardice!

But when you find that your dignity is being challenged, you should be like a man and solve the problem in a man's way!

Many people should have felt like this: suddenly, they feel that their life is like this, and they are extremely depressed.

Yesterday evening, reader Zhao Tianyi came to talk to me, it was nearly 12 o'clock in the morning, he had just gotten off work and walked out of the office building.

Maybe it's too much pressure at work, maybe it's too difficult to struggle, maybe it's the silence and lights in the middle of the night that make people think a lot.

Going to work, getting off work, playing with mobile phones, sleeping, repeating this life every day, getting a salary that is not enough to spend, sometimes busy, but finding that it seems that nothing has been done, sometimes feeling bored, wanting to do something, but not knowing what to do, and not being able to lift up energy, and not seeing hope.

There have been many times in a trance, and I feel that today is familiar, and there is a feeling of time travel.

An easy-going approach to life is required.

Most people are like that, so there's nothing to feel sorry for.

You feel that your life is like this, if you are satisfied with the life in front of you and don't work hard, you may miss it, think that your life is like this, but if you are not satisfied, you can get what you want through your own efforts.

Don't think like that, everyone has their own wonderful, maybe you are in a difficult situation now, but don't give up, work hard, there are many possibilities in the future.

Everyone has their own path to take, and for the future life, it is necessary to plan and plan well when they are young, just don't be confused, and still be full of hope for the future.

You're still going to have this in your life. In other words, don't be discouraged. As long as you live for a day, you have to work hard for a day. In other words, when people get old, aren't there many people who shine?

Hello friend, I feel that this is the case in my life, this is a negative way of life and attitude, we must learn to change such an attitude, we should actively face our own life, change our own life.

I have too little confidence in myself, I have to have confidence, I have to be confident, I have to be strong, this life is still very long, there is still a lot of room for development, there is still a lot of room for development, you can develop, don't be discouraged by your ideals.

You are so pessimistic, how can you be so negative? Whatever it is? You should actively work hard to face life, as long as you work hard, you will have gains, how can you say that this life is like this?

I feel that this is the end of my life, I think people can't give in to fate, especially at the best age, they should go and fight.

Actually, that's pretty good.

But it's not good if it's still going downhill.

Why not enrich yourself and not let yourself fall behind?

Everyone will have such a moment, and in that moment, they will say to themselves, maybe this is the case for the rest of their lives.

In my first internship in '08, I was lying on a pile of sand on the construction site with my head resting on the bricks, and I could be like this for the rest of my life. I'm so tired from working continuously that I don't want to talk.

In 12 years, in order to ask for project money, I took a bus to the suburban project department, and it rained heavily. When I arrived at the station, I could only hide under a small tree, and my clothes were soaked. I couldn't open my eyes and wiped my face, I might be like this for the rest of my life.

Everyone has such a time, but it is just looking at the future at that time, and the future is one accident after another.

The future won't be like this, you won't be like this for the rest of your life.

You can be depressed occasionally, but don't forget to be depressed all the time.

The future will get better and better.

My life seems to be like this, doing nothing, ordinary and difficult to spend the rest of my life.

My current life is two o'clock and one line every day, going to work and returning to the rental house after work, with a fixed salary of three or four thousand a month, repeating the same life and work day after day.

At the age of 30, I have nothing, a car, a house, a ticket, children, a family, I don't have any of them, but I have a lot of worries and pressures.

Now this society loves to compare, and when I return to my hometown, there are all kinds of comparisons, and I always seem to be the one at the bottom, and nothing compares to others. Many people seem to be like this, hating others and laughing at others. And I really don't have anything.

Sometimes, I really want to change this situation, but I don't know how to change it, where to change it, I have no education, no ability, and I am no longer young.

In the dead of night, I would dream about winning a lottery ticket, picking up a sum of money on the side of the road, and suddenly becoming rich and achieving financial freedom. After that, I would secretly scold myself for not thinking about how to work down-to-earth, but daydreaming here.

Maybe that's all I have for the rest of my life, with nothing to achieve and nothing to have.

Summary. Be positive in life.

I'm in my twenties to the present, and now I can't fall in love in my forties, and now I always fail to find a job in a social rental when I come out of the unit, and I don't know how to do it on the first day?

Be positive in life.

I've all done it, how can I be positive?

A man's life should be spent in such a way that when he recalls the past, he will not regret that he has spent his years with respect for his hands, nor will he be ashamed of his past inaction.

I really don't know what I'm going to do, okay?

There is more to life than love.

There is also family and friendship.

I have lived alone, and I can only suffer for a lifetime.

No, it won't. You're going to meet the right person after all.

I'm almost 50 years old, and we have a colleague who is 50 years old and unmarried, and I'm worried that I'll be like him.

Do not worry. Now some people are also unmarried.

Is it okay not to get married? Look at the individual.

I often hear people say, "Hey, I've been in my life, that's it." revealed a little helplessness about life. But if you really think "that's it", it's dangerous.

That's it", indicating that I don't want to work hard anymore and have no goal to strive for. And then it's going to be "like this" all the time. I want to say that if you think about beauty, it will get worse and worse.

When you think of "that's it", it means that your heart has bowed to life and destiny, and you feel that the future is hopeless. The battle ends when one side loses the will to fight. If you lose your motivation, you lose your will to fight.

And in the face of cruel life, stopping means being ruthlessly crushed, and the situation will get worse and worse.

Everyone wants to live better, it's the instinct of survival. Only after encountering too many ruthless blows and losing the will did he slowly compromise, and then wanted to continue to survive in a state of "just like this". The reason why it has been hit is that it is necessary to find the problem in terms of methods or ways.

Many people fail because they always use the same way and hope for different results.

This is actually a psychological suggestion. It has something in common with "Don't think about that pink elephant". To "not think", you have to forget about it and replace it with something else.

In his book Living the Meaning of Life, Frank describes his hard years at Auschwitz. If you want to survive, you must forget about the "impossible".

It is impossible for a dozen people to live in such a dark, damp room, forget about it;

With only straw as a quilt, it is impossible not to get sick and forget about it;

It is impossible to get out alive after entering Auschwitz, forget about it.

Only by forgetting these impossibilities can we open ourselves to the perception of the "possible". In the end, Frank survived.

Auschwitz was a bit far from us. In fact, if you look around, there are always a few people who wear very little in winter, and many of them actually forget about the cold.

You can't just leave it at that. It's like appeasement in history. If you slacken, you will be further violated by life.

You have to be a little demanding of life, a little demanding of yourself, and a little demanding of the future. Otherwise, just forget it, thinking "this is the end of this life", then what is the meaning of life?

Most of us will not go down in history after we die, but at least we should be worthy of ourselves. Life itself is a miracle, please be kind to this hard-won miracle, and you can't just pass it casually.