What is it like to have never been in a relationship?

It's already a 26-year-old girl, except for the first love when I was a child who didn't know anything, I haven't been in love, I haven't met the person I like for many years, I haven't had the feeling of heartbeat and fawn, a heart has not experienced love and has been old, I sometimes wonder if it's because I didn't meet that person smoothly, so I'm a little pessimistic about "love", I haven't been comforting myself in the past two years: even if I can't meet it, I can still live well alone Then after comforting myself for less than a minute, I became pessimistic, people became a little sensitive, I would think if I was not cute and not good enough, so I couldn't meet them, I saw my friends around me getting married one by one, having a baby, saying that I don't envy is fake, it's really fake, when my parents want to talk and stop, I blame myself and feel sad than when I was a child and I failed in the exam, I don't like me, some people say I'm too demanding, I really don't ask for anything, what can I ask for? I just don't want to be reluctant, maybe I'll wait for him to show up? ‍‍

Since I was a child, my parents quarreled and divorced, I hid in the corner and cried silently, I didn't want this family to disperse, so I have always listened to my parents, high school my dad said "you slapped me and broke your legs", now I am a freshman, 18 years have been single, but very strange, although I have never been in love, but the people around me think I have talked many times, it may be that I am used to seeing all kinds of girlfriends around me, Although I have no practical experience, I still have theoretical experience, you ask me what experience I have never had in love? has become a female man, coquettish can only be spoiled to girls, there are many familiar friends of the opposite sex, the first kiss is still there, watching those brain-dead Korean dramas can only be yy by themselves, used to living alone, it's not that I don't want to fall in love, it's just that I haven't found the right person, I have a luxury, be careful, I want to find a boyfriend from first love to marriage. ‍

I've never been in love, I don't know what it's like to be in love, and I'm still very envious of my friends showing affection one by one. But now the work pressure is so high, so busy, and I don't have so much energy to fall in love. It feels quite contradictory.

Probably, judging from my appearance and words and deeds, I am a female hooligan who seems to have been in a lot of love, but in real life, I hardly talk to men, and I blush when I speak, anyway, the experience is that even if I go to college and get along with the opposite sex, I am still embarrassed, shy, shy, can't let go, restrained, single, and the above infinite loop. ‍‍

There are few things to do in singleness, freedom, do whatever you want, save time and experience when you are single, enjoy the world of one person, have a clear idea of doing things in a single person, you won't feel tired, it's good to be single, and you can talk in your heart. ‍‍

It's very sad, I always feel that my youth is incomplete, and I want to make changes, but I have a kind of fatalistic belief that change is useless, and it turns out that it is really useless, and I want to find my own reasons countless times, but after repeating myself, I am still single, and I want to fall in love. ‍‍

I think it's good to live in your own world, and be free to do whatever you want.

It's similar to the feeling of never eating durian and never smoking a cigarette, it doesn't matter if you have it or not. ‍‍

People who have never been in a relationship may not understand what it is like to be in love, and you will only know what it is like to be in love when you have experienced it yourself.

I don't think it's anything.,The six of us in the dormitory didn't fall in love.,And now I'm studying.,It's not that others fall in love, we have to talk.,I think falling in love is not a hobby.,But there's a purpose.。

I haven't been in a relationship since I got to college, I'm used to this kind of single life, I feel that it's nothing without a partner, I can have more time to study, hang out with friends, and life is still colorful. It's just that sometimes there are still some longings.

What is the most annoying thing when people tell me "It's time for you to find a boyfriend"? You think I don't want to look for it? Then you have to meet the right one, huh? What do you think about grocery shopping? Say you have what you want? ‍‍

I also have a friend who still has a very longing feeling.

When it was time for the holidays, my roommates all went out to play with my girlfriends, and I slept alone.

Pay attention to the question, I have never been in love, not the feeling of being single.

How to say, when I haven't been in love, I always have a beautiful fantasy about love, thinking that love is always beautiful, there are no impurities, no unhappiness, no dark side. Love is love, and it is immaculate. I always sneer at the deaths and lives of those who love, the very painful stories of love.

I always feel that there is something painful about this, and there is no big deal about this. If I fall in love, my love must only be sweet. When I was not in love, I already had countless beautiful fantasies about love, but love never came.

But it doesn't matter. When love didn't come, I still had a very happy life, silly and silly all day long. I will have a longing for love, and I will wonder why my love has not come yet.

But this sense of loss that hasn't come yet in love will only exist for a while. I was immediately attracted by interesting and new things. And then I went to Silly Fun and Silly Joy.

The feeling of never being in love is that I will always be full of expectations for love, maintain beautiful fantasies, and will not be disappointed, because I have never been in love. That's why I keep looking forward to something new and interesting. There may be a point where everyone is in love, but I haven't been in a relationship yet, and I will be a little anxious or doubt that I am not good enough.

Then, when a friend always tells himself about his troubles or joys in love, he will feel a little inexplicable, and there is still an impulse to fall in love impatiently. Well, these emotions will be there. But in fact, they are not very healthy attitudes and views on love.

In fact, the arrival of love depends on fate! It's not that falling in love means that there is love, it may just be that both parties are lonely and want to fall in love. Love doesn't have to be pretty.

In fact, there are many, many difficulties in love that you can't get over, and if you can't get over, you can only part ways. Don't expect too much from love, it's not that pretty. Don't hope that you are in love all the time, falling in love does not mean that he will definitely be good to you, maybe he just wants you to be good to her, you may meet scumbags and scumbags.

Love is not a necessity.

So in the end, the feeling of never being in love is the beautiful feeling of wanting to talk about it but not talking about it with a beautiful vision! If you haven't talked about it, you don't know the bitterness of love, and you haven't tasted its sweetness. But most people only think about its sweetness, but forget about the stinging pain it may bring.

Therefore, I hope that everyone still treats love with a normal heart.

Because I haven't talked about it all the time, I don't know what kind of feeling it is, sometimes when I see couples hugging and kissing together on the street or in other places, I feel very strange and shy, and then I think that I will definitely not be like this in the future. Sometimes others have emotional problems, and when they confide in themselves, they still feel that such a simple thing, why should they be so distressed?

In fact, I think the best way is to have a vigorous relationship, because only when this is the case, can you really feel that feeling, otherwise, any verbal description of others is empty. Sometimes I think it's good to find a dating partner, but sometimes when I see the people around me who are very sad, sad, and painful because of love, I retreat a little, for fear that the person I will meet is not a good person, and it will give me new news.

When I don't have a partner, I always hope that I can find a boyfriend or girlfriend quickly, have someone who can know the cold and the hot, always be by my side, go crazy with me, make trouble together, and do a lot of meaningful things. In fact, there will still be a special desire in the heart, and there may be times when others ask me if you want to be in love? I'm sure I don't want to, but there's still that kind of germination in my heart.

I always look forward to my other half, because I don't know what kind of person he will be, so I'm very curious.

I think it's not easy for a person to meet someone who likes and likes him in his life. Although love will make us not so free, it is indeed a very happy thing. But if you lose this, you should follow the fate, don't deliberately force it, because what you get by forcing it is generally not very happy.

We have to be at peace with what happens, we will always meet the most suitable person for ourselves, we must be patient, we can't be impatient, the most beautiful scenery is not far away.

When I was very young, because I had to study, I didn't have much time to talk about emotional things, and I was relatively ignorant about the world, so falling in love was only something I would think about after college, which is also human nature, and it was a more natural emotional need. What does it feel like to be someone who hasn't been in a relationship? <>

First, full of hope for the future

Unknown things are very yearning for everyone, beautiful love is also the desire of the heart, people who have not experienced feelings mean that they have never been hurt, there are many people who have a lot of love experiences, but in the end they all end in a breakup, falling out of love is very painful, if there is no person in love, they can not feel the pain of falling out of love, so in a sense it is also a kind of happiness, if you have not been in love, you will have a vision for the future, and feel that you may be the happiest person in the world, You may come across a perfect relationship and feel that the world is better. <>

Although it is indeed very sweet to fall in love, it will take up a lot of our time, if we will be distracted in work and study, if we do not fall in love, we can put more energy into study and work, so in the emotional window period, you can put your mind on work and study, then your achievements in work and study will be more than ordinary people, and you don't have the heart to think about other things, but also make us more excellent, independent, whether it is a man or a woman, An independent personality is a special kind of personality charm. <>

In short, when fate has not yet arrived, just wait quietly for the arrival of fate, don't be too anxious, not falling in love means that you are a very simple person, waiting patiently will always wait for the right person, you don't need too much to fall in love, one or two is enough, I wish everyone can find their own happiness.

Dear, hello, I'm glad to have your question Girls who haven't been in love, the opposite sex is very popular, but love has nothing to do with it, and will be brothers with all boys. Such a girl has a big personality, and the small beauty she experiences with a boy may be wiped out by a sudden startle attack. Maybe I always feel like I'm not good enough:

** Not fair enough, dare not let others see their face easily; He was not tall enough, so he did not dare to stand boldly in the middle of the crowd; The personality is not cheerful enough, and when I meet a boy I like, I don't dare to take the initiative to talk to him; The family background is not good enough, and I always feel that there is a gap between me and others; The resume is not good enough, and I think I may not be popular. Such a person cares a lot about the eyes of others, not only will he live very tired, but even if he is in love, it will make the other half feel bored to get along. It's troublesome to get along with, so give up the chance to fall in love.

Hope mine is helpful to you.

I think it's a very shameful experience, because you have never experienced a good love, and if you can, you should lower your profile and try to fall in love.

If you have never been in love, you must have a beautiful yearning for love. I always hope that my love can come early, and I hope that the person who can love me, or the person I love, will appear at any time.

In fact, there is no special experience, that is, a lonely life in a person's life, in fact, every day is quite happy, if there is no love,

It's a very distressing experience to never be in a relationship. In fact, I have always envied others in my heart. also longs for a vigorous love. It's just that for some special reasons, I haven't been in love.

It should be an experience that makes me feel particularly uncomfortable, because I have never been in love, so my psychology must be very eager to fall in love, but now I don't have any experience, so I am more anxious and uncomfortable.