Why do people pretend to be indifferent?

Because people's vigilance is becoming more and more serious now, this is also related to what is happening in society, some people are not not kind, but can only be unkind, even if it is difficult to endure in their hearts, but when they see others in difficulty, they still do not lend a helping hand, because they may not know that they have been falsely accused, just like a very serious problem in society some time ago, the old man fell down and could not help, and some people were falsely accused after helping the elderly, how can this not make people feel cold, who dares to do good deeds again, Because pretending to be indifferent is also a way to protect yourself.

Afraid of trouble! Sometimes it's normal to help at work, but if something goes wrong, there will be who is responsible, and there is a lot of intrigue between colleagues, so it's better to do your own thing. In life, did you dare to help the elderly, was this a problem before?

Societies are becoming more and more developed, and each of them is materially oriented. Life occupies a lot of space in life. In order to live, it is necessary to work and study non-stop.

Sometimes it is difficult to meet with neighbors for a year and a half, and there is little time to sit down and have a good conversation. I have time, others don't. Others have time, but they don't.

Gradually, they don't understand each other, they don't have a common topic, and they gradually become indifferent.

Hopefully, this indifference is a manifestation of the roommate's choice of loneliness. Choose loneliness, choose loneliness, choose to be ahead! Usually when a person becomes excellent, loneliness begins!

Maybe you did something that inadvertently hurt her, but you just don't know it. If it's convenient, you can talk to her, talk about your heart, and talk about things, after all, under the same roof! She has problems with herself, family or something.

Personal privacy, give her space and time to be alone!

I remember when I was a child, one of my aunts was very kind to me, and I liked him a lot. Before, because my family owed tens of thousands of yuan a few years ago, I didn't even want to come to my door, and I felt very uncomfortable at that time. Now the family has returned the money to her, but the relationship between the two families is far from what it used to be.

I believe that such an example should not be my own, but a small microcosm of this society. I used to be quite concerned about the situation of becoming indifferent to human relationships, but now it doesn't matter if I experience more. The person who really has a good relationship with you will still continue to maintain a relationship, and those who choose to stay away from you You don't have to force and be sad, life is only a hundred years, just live a good life.

Therefore, we must always cherish those who deserve our care, because there are too few such people, and if one is gone, there will be one less.

Because they don't want to socialize with others or are not good at communicating with others, they respond to others with indifference when they come to them.

In fact, for this situation, everyone can sometimes understand, after all, like children, if they really want to help those children who cheat in society, she may not even be able to protect herself, at this time the parents' verbal guidance to him is of course to pretend not to see a little bit of caution that may not be possible, and may even get into it, so there will still be many people pretending to be indifferent. It is also a kind of protection for oneself.

I gave my enthusiasm to reason, and reason told me that if people become indifferent, there will not be too much harm, kindness will make their enthusiasm disappear little by little, and in the end, in the face of inconsequential birth, old age, sickness and death, numbness to no feeling, not that I have changed, it is life that makes my heart slowly lose the feeling of pain! Once as long as I can't help others, I feel that I owe others, I am guilty, whether I am a good person or not, it doesn't matter if I can do a little more, as long as you are happy, it doesn't matter if you say I'm stupid, it's good if you're happy, stupid pay becomes a matter of course, you are born like this, when all kindness becomes the best to deal with yourself, you will understand that the biggest enemy in the world is your own kindness in exchange, they know which you hurt the most, and they hit your heart!

In today's society, young people are working hard outside, and the old people are left to stick to the garden. In the past, people's pressure was small, relatives and neighbors often moved around to contact, as the old saying goes, distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors, and close neighbors are not as good as the opposite door. Even if the nearest relatives don't move around, they become rusty.

People before the post-70s generation have a heritage, strive to do a good job in interpersonal relationships, and are not based on personal interests. Now it's the opposite.

It's not the individual that's changing, it's the society. When you change the external environment, people adapt to the environment, and people change. People change every day, some for the better and some for the worse.

But just imagine, everyone is so emotional, trying to do a good job of themselves, be the right self, and keep the bottom line of being a man. You have to admit that human pathologies stem from the corruption of society.

Pretending to be indifferent just doesn't want too many people to see through their hearts and wants to maintain a sense of mystery.

I used to be a novice, a brother I believed, because someone else said I was a dog. Of course I asked him why, maybe I lost in front of interests. Later, all kinds of alienated me!

What I remember most clearly is that there was a dinner party where I didn't go, and his laughter! It was raining lightly, and I laughed madly on the road, and I was like a madman at the time. It would have been so bad, and he had changed me!

Later, I was indifferent.

People who pretend to be indifferent are first afraid of being indifferent by others, so they show a look of rejection thousands of miles away.

We are naturally apathetic because of the psychological impact of our childhood and some of the major experiences in our lives.

This topic reminds me of a term in psychology - apathy, which can be understood as insensibility.

Indifference, indifference, etc., may sound "cold and cold".

Actually, apathy is not a rare limb experience, and each of us may have experienced this kind of insensitivity at some point or on a certain issue. Apathy is a feeling of "no feeling" and a "no emotion" emotion. It may sound overwhelming, but here are some common "symptoms" that may feel familiar:

Suddenly lose interest in activities that you used to enjoy, such as having dinner with friends, exercising, watching movies, etc. Inability to generate motivation for work and dedication to work tasks. It felt like just getting up and going to work was exhausting all my strength.

In my spare time, even if I know that there are more valuable and interesting activities, I feel "unable to get up", and I can't control my behavior of slumping on the sofa and swiping my phone to consume time.

For some topics that everyone is discussing enthusiastically, although I think it is intellectually meaningful, I just can't arouse interest, and I feel that "it's none of my business" and "what can I do if I discuss it". It feels empty, life has no purpose, and even the goals of the past seem meaningless.

The personality of an indifferent person: he talks little, he doesn't like to laugh, he doesn't know how to love people, he doesn't care about anything, and this type of person tends to have a small social circle.

Indifference is "expressionless, very cold, don't like to talk, don't know how to care about others, don't know how to love others, don't care about anything", the real character of the stool wide indifference, I think it should be like I set up a door for myself in my heart, lock a lock, and don't let others enter me.

The real character is indifferent and easy to lose his temper with others, and he is actually losing his temper with himself, but he wants to communicate with people, which is very contradictory, and this root has a lot to do with the environment in which he grew up in Zao Town.

In fact, people who are indifferent in their hearts are often more difficult to detect, and they will participate in various activities and gatherings like ordinary people, and behave like ordinary people.

However, at the same time of in-depth communication, it is often more difficult to find topics that the indifferent person will talk about, and it will be obvious that the indifferent person has few words, has always been in the position of an observer, and the way of speaking is different from the indifference of ordinary people, but an attitude that does not care about the feelings of others. When talking to people who are indifferent in their hearts, you can feel the coldness that emanates from the bottom of your heart.

Summary. Husbands and wives should talk about everything. If you think he did something wrong, then give your own opinion on that thing.

Don't make small gestures without saying it to your face. That would only ruin your own marriage. Selfish people are generally influenced by their families, so it takes time to change slowly.

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Hello, I am now 66 years old. The husband I'm looking for has always been selfish. I do my own thing, and I never care about any good person.

Even the grandson is indifferent to Xiang Xiao! This is true for the eldest grandson. I've always disliked my little grandson.

He said that if he didn't want a second child. You can cook for me. This kind of person is difficult to find on the ground.

The same is true for brothers and sisters.

It looks quite mild on the outside.

Husbands and wives should talk about everything. If you think he did something wrong, then put forward your own opinion on that matter. Don't point to the beam shooting, don't say it in person, and make small movements below.

That would only ruin your own marriage. Selfish people are generally influenced by their families, so it takes time to change slowly.

Question 1: What are the manifestations of indifferent people Indifferent to the people and things around them, indifferent, unsympathetic, selfish.

Question 2: What are the specific manifestations of an apathetic person...? Indifferent to other people's people and things, it is difficult for others to approach.

Question 3: What are the characteristics of an indifferent and ruthless person Apathetic and ruthless.

Question 4: What are the characteristics and points of an apathetic person? People who are indifferent at heart look calmer on the outside! But from the words and deeds, you can see the cold and noble of TA! Like a cold rose in bloom!

People who are indifferent on the outside are mostly trying to protect themselves! Don't let yourself get hurt! But those who have a good relationship with him will know that he has a different heart.

Question 5: What are the manifestations of a person with a cold heart? What a person shows off means what he lacks, and a person who is indifferent in heart is bound to be calm and cheerful on the outside.

Question 6: What is the manifestation of a person who is indifferent in his bones and has cold eyes.

Question 7: How to be considered an "indifferent person" Just like me, when others talk to me, although I care about others, I never take the initiative to speak. I'm either an introvert or I don't want to communicate too much with people I don't know.

Question 8: Nowadays people are very indifferent, so as a person, should behave very well, that is, sick, as long as we lend a helping hand when others need help.

Around us, there will be such a type of peopleThey can't describe their trembling emotions and think too much about reality and logic, like a"Robots"

They seem to be stuck in a dilemma: if they can't describe emotions in words, that's the same as no emotion.

Back in the 70s of the last century, their symptoms were given the name "alexithymia" (This is not a psychiatric diagnosis

And people are gradually discovering that the problem is not just "indescribable" – some of them have difficulty even feeling their emotions.

Our emotions are often accompanied by a number of physical reactions, such as flushing when we are angry, turning pale when we are frightened, and trembling slightly when we are afraid.

But these feelings are confusing and clueless to them, and they may even think that these physical feelings are a sign of illness.

It is already difficult to be aware of one's own emotions, and understanding the emotions of others is even more "luxurious".

When you tell them about an experience with emotion, they can receive the cause and effect of the event in its entirety (people with alexithymia tend to have good logical skills), but completely filter out the emotions you convey from the past.

But that's what we want them to experience the most!

For example, when you say to him:

I accidentally fell in the middle of the road when a truck came rushing towards me! It's just one meter away! Fortunately, in the end, the driver hit the brakes. ”

You're saying: I'm in danger, I'm afraid, I want to be comforted.

When the average person hears this, most of them will exclaim: "This is so scary!" It's too dangerous, you're not hurt, are you? ”…

However, the response given by people with alexithymia often feels impersonal.

The truck should not have a large load, otherwise at this speed, the braking distance will be longer. ”

Completely oblivious to your fright, and focused on the braking distance.

It's a bit like what we often say "can't read the eyes", but they really can't read emotions, and it's even more difficult to respond appropriately.

Do you know? Alexithymia is not far awayAccording to statistics, there is one in ten people in the population, and the majority are men.

Their symptoms also vary in presentation and severity:

Some people just lack certain emotional experiences, such as not getting angry or sad, while others have no emotional responses.

Some people are born with extreme rationality, while others have lost the ability to feel emotions when they grow up.

They laugh too, but this may be to cater to the "human nature trembling" they learned growing up, and in fact, they have no waves in their hearts.

In the face of expectant eyes, perhaps they have never been able to be "sincere"; And their sincerity can sometimes hurt just as much.