Do you feel that it is painful to be constrained by love or the care of others?

I have to see who it is, if it's someone I care about a lot, not only will I not feel this kind of pain, but I will feel very happy, after all, the person I care about also cares about myself, but if I don't care very much, I don't care about the person who doesn't take it to heart at all, I will feel very uncomfortable, I will feel annoyed, it's actually a little painful for me.

It's a little bit, my mother has taken my exam results very seriously since I was a child, but I just don't fight hard, I can't do it every time, I just don't like to study, I opened my mind before going to college, and I was the first in four years of college, and I just said lightly that you should have been like this a long time ago, and you didn't get into the first year of the graduate school entrance examination, and you were counted into the dust. Every time I go to a lot of occasions with my elders, I am said not to be clever and not to come out, in fact, I am quite envious of the kind of self-acquaintance who has a very outgoing personality, but after working hard for so many years, I still can't do it, and then I think about it and slow heating is also very good, others like it or not, I care about you. Before I went to high school, I liked a boy classmate who had a good relationship with me, and I was a big fat man of more than 160 pounds at that time, maybe it was the kind of person who was willing to get close to you and walk into your heart when you were the ugliest and most unbearable, and then realized the change in emotion, I felt that the other party would not like me, and I was afraid that my friends would not be able to do it, and I refused all the contact after that, or low self-esteem, in fact, I haven't let it go until now.

It is estimated that it is impossible to meet a second such person in this life, and I have long been ready to pay for the orphan life, I told my mother that I would be inferior because you don't praise you, she was puzzled, saying that my self-confidence should not be drawn from others, but I still can't give myself self-confidence, probably still longing to be loved. Others like it, avoid it like a scorpion.

It is happy to be loved and cared for, because there are very few people in this world who really care about you, but sometimes excessive care and love can become a kind of bondage, making people feel breathless, sometimes my parents always interfere with many of my decisions with reasons to be good to me, which actually makes me quite painful, because as an adult, I believe that I have the ability to judge right from wrong, but they are always not at ease, afraid that I will fall and I will be hurt, I know that they will be like this because they love me, But sometimes I feel really depressed.

I think it is, maybe I was hit by my parents since I was a child, I feel like I'm worthless, I've never been praised, it's really never. My parents also had self-deprecation towards themselves, they would just say that they were incompetent, and then my sister wanted to buy a house in the county, and they would laugh at it. Then when a boy chased me in junior high school, and when he said that I was good-looking, my first reaction was that his eyes were highly myopia.

Then in high school, I slowly got used to being praised by others, but I still blushed every time and wanted to hide. Then I met a boy who was really good to me, and I would wonder why he was good to me, I didn't deserve it, I had so many shortcomings.

Being deeply loved, the IQ is getting higher and higher, and the vision is becoming more and more critical. I learned to love myself, I learned to act on the spot, I learned to play tricks, it was difficult to be coaxed, and for those scum routines, I couldn't tell through them, and I could even teach both hands. It is a blessing to be deeply loved, but it may be a misfortune to be deeply loved.

I feel that he loves me deeply, and I will reflect on whether I love him well.

Never felt so. After the divorce, I left my hometown to start anew in a different place, and later met my current husband, in order to be with me and fight with my family, I silently endured the bombardment of seven aunts and eight aunts for more than a year, and I have always been very good to my daughter and me. He was three years younger than me, but I was pampered like a child in front of him.

I'm afraid that I will be wronged and hurt again.

It turned out that I had a conflict with a classmate, it was she who bullied me with unspeakable means, I told our mutual friends, and they were aggrieved and explained to me together, that classmate still made small moves behind his back, and as a result, our mutual friends favored her, and then the whole class formed an atmosphere of bullying me, because others were so deeply suspicious of me and then got a lot of bad problems, after 2 years, there are no friends and no one likes me, and the people in the dormitory have something to say to me to isolate me. But I obviously don't want to live such a life, don't I want to live a happy and normal life? I'm so kind.

Did I do anything bad in my last life? Why don't you even give me a peaceful life, I'm the most pitiful in the world, I don't deserve anything, I really don't deserve it. And all of this stems from the fact that I can't speak, and it's not interesting to speak.

Am I worthy? I don't deserve it.

I feel a little burdened, because I know my shortcomings very well, whoever has been with me for a long time will see me who doesn't like me like this and who will tolerate and love me for a long time, so it's better not to start at the beginning.

Sometimes my parents' overly caring concern bothers me and causes me pain, like they nagging every time.

Being loved and loving others is happiness, but wrong love is painful.

In the world of feelings, everyone has their own du

Loving and being loved experiences zhi. Because love is a feeling of loving and being loved, a tacit understanding of the heart, an unforgettable thought, a kind of willing to give without reciprocation, a kind of striving to create a sky for the happiness of the lover, a desire to be cared for, respected, understood and tolerated, a process of relying on each other and treating each other kindly, a feeling of heartbeat, heartbeat, and heartache. If you love someone, you must understand and understand, apologize and thank you, admit your mistakes and correct them, be considerate and considerate, accept rather than endure, and be tolerant.

In this world, everyone has someone they want to seek, and if they miss it, they won't come back. If you fall in love, don't give up easily. It's awkward, maybe you regret it for a while; But you give up, and it may make you regret it for the rest of your life.

A life that has experienced love is beautiful, and love that cannot stand the test is not profound. Beautiful love makes life rich, and the love that has passed the test is perfect, after all, happiness will not always wait for you, the person who loves you and the person you love is not ready to appear, please learn to cherish the person who loves you.

The feeling of love is always very sweet at the beginning, and it always feels too much.

Bai alone with du, one more person to help you share, zhi you are finally no longer lonely, dao at least one person thinks about you, in love with you, no matter what you do, as long as you can be together, it is good, but slowly, as you get to know each other more deeply, you begin to find each other's shortcomings, so problems occur one after another, you begin to annoy, tired and even want to escape, some people say that love is like picking up stones, always want to pick up a suitable one, but how do you know when you can pick it up? She suits you, so are you suited to her? In fact, love is like a grinding stone, maybe when you first picked it up, you are not so satisfied, but remember that people are flexible, many things can be changed, as long as you have the heart and courage, instead of picking up unknown stones everywhere, it is better to polish the stones you already have, have you started grinding?

It's a good thing to have a certain interest in everything and be dissatisfied, but if everything is as you said above, first consider whether the positive encouragement you get in your daily study life is enough, so that you are always picking on words like "certain" and "impossible" that others say, and find some strange examples to refute. It is a subconscious mind that is trying to prove itself and express itself. It is recommended to get in touch with more people and things in society, see more and experience more, and no longer the current state of "thinking too much and occasionally having self-denial".

It should be one of the states that a person should be at the age of 17, and it can't be called such a serious psychological problem. Learn more to build self-confidence and actively participate in social activities. Changing yourself is something that only you can do and persevere. Come on.

Adolescent students tend to yearn for freedom and freedom from their shackles, and they tend to regard traditional and classic things as dogmatism that binds them, and have a negative attitude towards them. From this point of view, you have a very strong sense of self, and you also very much want to be able to make a difference from others. It is good to have such determination and ideas, but as Newton said, to be able to achieve success is to stand on the shoulders of giants, not to rush to deny other things, but to learn to apply these laws to your own use.

The landlord has a strong sense of logic, if you can become a high-IQ talent under the education of the United States, and no one pays attention to your set under the test-oriented education in China, it is very frustrating.

Sounds like you're a fan of "contrarianism"? It feels like this kind of drilling and picking, which seems to make you feel a sense of "self" that is unique to others? That's normal for your age.

Adolescence is a time of self-worth, and you want to create your own unique perspectives and ideas as a way to prove yourself. As long as the process doesn't interfere with your interactions with others, you might as well just go with the flow.

The happiness of loving someone is the satisfaction after taking the initiative to give, and it is definitely not the joy behind the taking.

What does it feel like to love someone?

I often think about him, and I feel that he is full of merits, basically perfect. Trust everything he says and feel that it is the most pleasant thing to be with him. I don't see him feeling uncomfortable all over, I feel that I can't live without him, and I am willing to do a lot of things for him——— many people have different views on love, I think so.

I've been looking for a long time, too.

I don't know what it's like.

I guess it's a desperate effort.

There is sadness and happiness.

There are crying and laughing.

It feels like even the air is filled with a sweet pink smell.

It felt like I was back in my mother's womb.

I can't find her (him) and get upset. I always think about her (him) in my heartWorried about her (him) everywhereAs long as you can see her (he), you will be happy.

Sweet and sour.

There are joys and sorrows. Anyway, my love history is that I can't see each other for a day, and I always want her to be by my side, and now I don't have a girlfriend, and I still miss when I was in love, thinking about her good and her bad, her smile, and her cuteness Actually, this is my boy's personal thought, I don't know how you feel, can you tell me?

It's about thinking, forgiving, believing, and supporting.

I can't help but feel jealous when I see him with the opposite sex.

You think about everything about him or her and only care about everything about him/her.

Super cool! A new world begins anew.

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There are a lot of feelings, and for everyone, there will be different feelings! Loving someone will become very happy, very relaxed, will think of him (her) from time to time, may also be heartbroken, see him as if he is about to leave him, etc.! Sometimes when I see her have an accident, I feel very distressed .........

You have to realize it for yourself!

True love is not expressed in words, it comes from the heart, when you fall in love with someone, your whole heart will be attracted by the person you love, fascinated by him (her), concerned for him (her), I hope you can see him (her) every minute, when you can't see him, you will always think of him (her), you will be excited when you see it, your heart beats faster, you will feel very warm and safe when you are together, real love for a person will be willing to take care of him (her) care for him (her), give him (her) everything he (she) wantsWhen you see the person you love happy, you will be happy, and you will be troubled when you see him (her) troubled, but you will do everything you can to make the person you love happy and happy, and a person who truly loves you will want to grow old with him (her) and get along with him (her), and you will look forward to using all your love.

It is a blessing to love someone.

Blessed. But how to express this "love", perhaps many people can't express it clearly. In fact, this is what love feels like: when it's not there.

Feeling lonely, it will be cheerful and happy when it is around. Only when there is a difference can we understand the value of being together.

You will feel it when you miss it.

The presence of love!! I think when two people can't be together, you are lonely, you can listen to ** to relieve boredom. The best solution is to keep a journal and keep your memories forever.

When you're willing to give the other person all your favorite chocolates, prove that you're in love with him.

Sometimes happy, sometimes miserable, sometimes confused, sometimes tangled ... Everything that can be linked to feelings will be felt by you.

"Do what you want to do, even if it's not worth it, even if it's wasteful, but it's what you want to do. "Everyone has something they want to do, and they want to be able to do what they want to do when they have time. In the process of doing these things by yourself, you can not only discover your own interests, but also better understand the people around you and what kind of attitude you use to treat yourself.

Because in this world, there are still relatively few people who will try to contact us, and some people are good to you with a certain purpose. You must know that a person who truly loves you will not ask you to share his pain.

When you are really attracted to someone, you will focus your attention on him, and your emotions will change slightly with the other person's emotions. When you see that the other person is unhappy, you will question yourself and always feel that it is because you have not done well in some aspect that you will make him unhappy. The person who truly loves you will not ask you to share the pain for him, because he does not want to affect you because of his bad emotions.

For most people, they want to show their best in front of the people they like and leave a good impression on each other, but occasionally they will do not do well. A person who truly loves you will not ask you to share the pain for him, because he wants to show his best side in front of you, and does not want to see you worry about himself, nor does he want you to change his impression in your mind.

Some people have a hard time controlling their emotions, so when they get along with others, they will always inadvertently vent their bad emotions, and no matter what kind of impact they will have if they do this, they always feel that as long as they are happy, it is enough. If you think like that, most of them will be rejected by others. The person who truly loves you will not ask you to share the pain for him, because he will not vent his bad emotions on you.

Everyone will encounter difficult things to deal with, and you can turn to the people around you when you need them, but there is no need to ask others to make changes for you or let others do what you think. Because of your performance, the other person will feel that they are restricted, and they will feel a little pressure. The person who truly loves you will not ask you to share the pain for him, because he will deal with everything he encounters and does not want you to worry about it.

We will find that some people will say some bad things to others when they are in a bad mood, and they always feel that they are in a bad mood, which is caused by the other party. But for lovers, you will only make the other person unhappy by doing this, and it will also make him question some of his actions. A person who truly loves you will not ask you to share his pain because he will not say things to you in a bad tone.