Why do some people like to brush the sense of existence, what psychology

People who brush their sense of existence should first of all be extremely inferior, at least subconsciously and heartwarmly; At the same time, such a person is an extremely narcissist, and his performance is arrogance, which is a bubble that blows up, and becomes disillusioned when he pokes it; Such a person is also very easy to disguise himself, is better at expressing himself, and is also easy to find trouble to show himself; Without a sense of existence, they are lonely, lonely and even avoidant. Those who like to brush their presence in the crowd are people who are anxious inside. There are many reasons why they are anxious, one of which is that they don't really achieve anything and want to be known by more people.

The so-called "sense of existence" refers to a certain sense of pride in living in this world, indicating that the world needs you and that you are still valuable to the world.

At present, the pace of society is getting faster and faster, and many people feel that their sense of existence is getting lower and lower, and there is no good way to highlight themselves and let others pay attention to themselves, so the psychology is extremely empty and they can't find the value of existence.

These people are actually very unconfident, even inferior people, rather than relying on the attention of others, it is better to enrich their hearts, enrich themselves, and make themselves really valuable.

I really know a few words and pretend to be forced, and I still use the most old-fashioned set of Chinese people, the theory of contradiction. Laughing at the dead, to learn some psychology and then pretending to be forced, the sense of existence is all arrogant, with high self-confidence in themselves, they are not because of lack of love to brush the sense of existence, but the confidence in their appearance to brush the sense of existence, usually this kind of people send a circle of friends in three days and two days, in fact, there is no real material, can only continue to attract the attention of others through their only advantage, for their own benefit, not inferiority, on the contrary, this kind of scheming, selfish, and like to play with others. But it's also very good at disguising itself.

In real life, it is not good to be recognized or proud by others.

Hopefully someone cares about themselves. Hungry for attention.

It's all the psychology of inferiority, and only people with low self-esteem care about whether others care about him, so they keep brushing their sense of existence to get others to pay attention.

Such people are relatively lacking in love, they want to get the attention and response of others by brushing their sense of existence, and such people are not confident, they hope to get the affirmation of others by brushing their sense of existence, such people are actually very empty in their hearts, and they hope to fill the emptiness in their hearts by brushing their sense of existence.

These people may just want to get noticed and make everyone like them.

may just want others to notice you, and your heart is very inferior, so you will brush up on your sense of existence.

I want to be recognized. Because I'm not good and have no sense of existence, I want to keep performing in front of people to make people pay attention to myself.

Maybe it's just to make others notice you and satisfy their vanity.

It shows that they are really unhappy, so they are always willing to brush their sense of existence in the circle of friends to prove that they are doing well.

In daily life, people always have time to chat, which is also a good way to communicate between people. When some people communicated, they talked about some of the troubles, confusions and incomprehensions in their lives, and everyone helped them find a way, which also increased their relationship with everyone.

Some people share some of their good experiences and practices with everyone, so that everyone can live a relaxed and happy life, which has been recognized by everyone. And there is such a kind of person in society who loves to show his sense of existence in front of other annihilations, as long as such a person fights in front of the crowd, there is nothing he doesn't know, the children and adults in his family are the materials he touts, he can be said to know astronomy, geography, everything knows, everything can be interjected, and sometimes the words that come out make people feel that they are bragging, and even when they receive other people's words, the bull's head is not in the horse's mouth, and sometimes they are laughed at by everyone, and they still do not repent of their words and deeds. Let people say behind their backs that he is the bridge clan, and the big white calls for understanding. In fact, the reason why these people are acting in front of people is that these people's psychology is not strong enough, or they feel their inferiority complex in some aspects.

A really strong person does not need to show off in front of others, they are always silently listening to what others are saying, and from other people's gossip can hear something beneficial to themselves, these people are successful in this obscurity. And those who often brush up on the sense of existence are often afraid that others will underestimate them, just like what is lacking in the prescription of traditional Chinese medicine, in fact, what they lack is a sense of existence.

What a person thinks in their heart cannot be seen, but people can judge what they think in their hearts through their words and deeds, which is what we say, everyone has a rod and scale in their hearts. As for what other ulterior things they have in their hearts, it can only be observed through future practice, and the reason why they brush up on their sense of existence will definitely have a certain purpose. Hope mine can help you, hopefully.

I hope that the other person will pay attention to himself.

Its meaning refers to the actions taken by a person in order to get the attention of others in order to demonstrate their sense of existence and worth.

Often, this behavior is motivated by a need for self-expression, but it can also be motivated by an unhealthy self-evaluation and need to gain approval and approval from others. This behavior can be manifested in posting your own **, status, dynamics, etc., or participating in controversial topics, showing off your achievements, etc. However, if this behavior becomes too frequent or excessive, it can cause negative effects and have a bad impact on one's own society, such as self-deprecation, addiction to social**, etc.

Presence is a force that is more powerful, more enduring and happier than beauty and wealth. Everyone hopes that they will be valued in their sense of existence, and they will feel valued by society and widely concerned.

It means that he is a particularly embarrassing existence, no one else has seen him much, and he has been honking.

That is, tell the other party, I'm here, you have to pay attention to me.

When I first went to work, I didn't understand anything, and whatever task the leader assigned, I racked my brains to do it well.

Once, our leader called me ** and said that I should help a little. As soon as I saw that the leaders had said so, let's go quickly. When I got there, it turned out that I was driving a pickup truck to pull the workpiece from one factory to another.

This task is simple, neatly complete the task, report to the leader, at that time the heart was quite beautiful, I feel that this is the leader attaches importance to me, and I will arrange private work as my own.

Until one day, in an occasional chat with a colleague, I learned that they had done this kind of private work countless times, and they still did it for the same person. Everyone else found an excuse not to go, only I was new here, I didn't know about this pit, and I went stupidly.

It doesn't matter if you work for the leader, it's okay once or twice, but if you call someone over every day, it's a bit inappropriate. What's even more speechless is that the people who went to help didn't even let them smoke a cigarette.

He has children and daughters, and he can't do it himself, so he can ask his son and son-in-law to help. In fact, there is no need to hit several ** every time and come to us. If you think about it, it's nothing more than trying to brush up on some presence.

It's as if to say, "I didn't mean anything else to call you, but to tell you that I'm alive."