Depressed, why is my husband like that, my husband doesn t understand me, I m so depressed, what sho

First of all, I want to say to you, don't pursue feelings too deliberately, you should let it take its course. Your husband doesn't understand you, it may be that there is a conflict between your personalities, causing him to not understand what you say and what you do; Or what kind of thing have you done that caused him to have a misunderstanding, so that he became suspicious and became a ghost! If you must make him understand you and trust you, then I suggest that you find an opportunity to ask him out to watch a movie, or go for a walk in the park, and then take the opportunity to find a topic to guide him to explain what he thinks about you or the reason for his dissatisfaction, and then you can slowly clarify his misunderstanding of you to him.

Next, you can turn the conflict into a jade silk! (Note: This is just a way of thinking, not the only way to solve problems.)

Wishing you happiness!

A man must eat a peck of salt with his friend before he knows him. The harder you try to show yourself "innocent", the more your husband may feel that something is wrong. The heart is selfless and the world is wide, do whatever you want, and one day he will understand you.

You misunderstand the meaning of love, love is to tolerate each other, trust each other, care for each other, that is true love, if he doesn't believe in you anything, what is the point of being together.

Does it also mean that you have time to get to know him?

You don't have to explain it.

What does he care about?

For example, is he very rich? Worry that you're with him because he's rich.

Since you love him so much.

Do you need to explain?

He cares about you to be suspicious.

Then you love him quietly!

Men are always less attentive than women!

It's okay. Relax.

Love him well. One day he will find out that he was wrong.

Let your husband come here and look at this passage, I mean, you write down what you really mean, like in a diary.

Then use some method to let your husband see it, so that he feels that you didn't mean to show him.

Cold! Sweat! How do you know your husband loves you very much?!

He loves you, why is he still pulling like this?!

Said the day--depend-

Women are equal to men, he's bullying you or something, oh, it's clear if ——— things are not fair! - You're a human being, you can't do this for the rest of your life.

How big a person pulls, this little problem is also to make up something.

Cold! Ask yourself!

Since you have married your husband, of course, you should continue to live a good life with your husband, you will have to experience more difficulties in the future, this small problem is still very easy to solve, your husband is indeed a little bored, but this is not too serious a matter, there are the following suggestions to help you solve the problems you encounter between you and your husband:

The first point, first of all, you have to put your mentality well, your husband is indeed very boring, but because he is bored, so he is a more honest person, people have been silently loving you, you are actually really happy, why do you feel distressed? At least your husband never goes out to mess with flowers, your situation is actually envied by many girls, after all, some women's husbands are too fun-loving, often not able to settle down after marriage, some are too attentive, three days and two heads go out to find a lady or even take care of the mistress, and your husband is much better than these men, your husband has always liked you alone, has been devoted to you, you should be particularly moved by this.

The second point, if you really feel that your husband is too boring, causing your married life to be particularly boring, you should take the initiative to take your husband to do something interesting, marriage is not boring, if you have time, you can take your husband out for a walk, even if your husband is very boring, but he sees you so much that he can be by your side, of course, he will accompany you to take a walk, and travel is a better way, Traveling as a couple can help your husband change his previous introverted personality, and you can also cultivate a good relationship during the trip, which is really a double win.

He is not bored from now on, but you were bored before you got married, you were able to bear it before, why can't you bear it now, and why don't you want to understand it before you get married, now you know that your husband's character is boring, and you can't stand it. Whether you're going to endure it or get a divorce, it's the price you should pay. You are all adults, why don't you think about it completely before doing things, and now ask others what to do, and others are not standing in your environment at all, can you tell you exactly what to do?

It's nothing more than to continue to endure it, but you need to change your husband's personality, mainly by your transfer, men generally don't talk much, your husband belongs to the type of stuffy, then there must be nothing else to say if necessary. It's scary to think about, I just got married and I have nothing to say, so in the future, as I understand better, I don't say anything about whether the problem can be solved with a look.

Either you just can't bear it, there is only one way is to divorce, the country is easy to change its nature, and it is not very easy to change your husband, so the most direct way is to divorce, and then you go to find a man who can talk and chat with him. You're not a little girl anymore, you have to consider the pros and cons of everything you do, of course, I'm telling you from an outsider's point of view, if you can't get by, you will leave, and be brave enough to find your true love.

But you have to think clearly, can you really find true love after you are divorced? Married life is boring, two people have faded the heat of love, only the family affection that depends on each other, many times the husband and wife need to communicate with each other, as long as you have a little patience with your husband, can he not talk to you more?

Husband and wife are originally complementary to each other will get along better, I think it's a good thing that your husband is more boring, generally too active people will not be too troublesome, if you think your husband is boring, then try your best to be an interesting person, make your husband happy isn't it good.

Dad is too quiet, he needs his mother to drag him out for activities, a combination of work and rest, it's good, and Mom is noisy, but I can't indulge my mom all the time, just my dad can take her temperament. Do you think it would be upset if two people who were also making a fuss were together? Wouldn't it be too boring if two people were equally quiet?

So it's good that you and your husband complement each other.

You can find more games or movies to watch with him, take her out for a walk, some people are very boring and introverted, but he doesn't mean that he can't communicate with the outside world, if you take the initiative to play with him, she will still play with you. It's just that this person is more passive, not very active, if you are not a very boring person, you can also occupy that active position to mobilize the relationship between the two of you. You can find more games or movies to watch with him, take her out for a walk, some people are very boring and introverted, but he doesn't mean that he can't communicate with the outside world, if you take the initiative to play with him, she will still play with you.

It's just that this person is more passive, not very active, if you are not a very boring person, you can also occupy that active position to mobilize the relationship between the two of you.

You can take the initiative to chat with your husband, tell him interesting things about you at work, talk about things in life, and let him open up.

I think this is because of your personality, you can usually take your husband out to play more, or participate in group activities, etc., so that he will gradually become more cheerful.

You usually tolerate your husband's shortcomings more, and don't always complain about your husband.

A more boring man is more honest and will be very dedicated to your relationship.

The flowers in the moon mirror in the water are beautiful, can you eat them? Can I wear it?

A person who accompanies you all day long can serve tea and pour water when you are sick? Can you spend money when you don't have money? The basis of marriage is economic, and if a man can give his salary to his wife and not complain about a small amount of pocket money, then he is at least a responsible husband.

Don't think that others don't understand you, you should first ask yourself what you have given in this marriage? When your husband is hungry, can you be full when you sing? He's sick, can he get better if you read poetry?

Romance is just a mood, and life is a myriad of trivialities. Don't force a man who is tired after work to recite poetry with you, you should pour him a cup of hot tea and give him a smile.

You've been married for too short a time to accept the transition before and after marriage.

Don't trust the men who can talk about the so-called romance with you, if you become their wife, they will also talk about romance with others outside.

Love and marriage are the same, they both need to be constantly discovered, constantly tolerated, and cherished in order to continue to improve.

Cherish your marriage and your husband, build your family well, communicate your heart with him more, and you will be happy!

If only I had such a husband

If only I had such a wife

Romantic? Do you know what matters to reality? You only thought of yourself? It's hard to go to work, too!! Plain is bliss, cherish it

Well, it's normal, and my boyfriend doesn't understand either.

I'm training him now, and if I don't understand, I have to listen, just listen to me all the time.

My previous boyfriend could tell me this, but the two of them are very discordant in life, I am not good at housework, and he is not good at it, so he always complains to each other.

It turns out that complementarity goes a little further in life.

Because after all, life is the most basic, it's easy to find someone who can talk to you, grab a handful on the Internet, but there are really not many people who can get along with you very well in life.

The literati are destined to be lonely, so it is good to enjoy solitude.

Actually, you should communicate. My former boyfriend was like that. Belong to give you material satisfaction.

But it can't give you spiritual satisfaction. Now you feel that this aspect is lacking. You can try to see what he likes.

Go and accompany his hobby first. Interest, after a while, if he has the heart, he will begin to learn to care for you spiritually. And not just the thoughtfulness of life.

Hehe, communicate more. The feeling before and after marriage is different!

Hehe, that's a tricky question!

Tell him directly, tell him how much you need romance, sometimes pretend not to understand, in fact, he knows!

Many times, a man doesn't care about a home, and that's all that matters.

If you want to be with a man who has no sense of responsibility and doesn't care about his family, it's like trying to twist an unripe melon off, and the result must be conceivable, not sweet, and can't be eaten.

However, according to your current situation, standing in your position is indeed not very acceptable.

However, many times, when the interruption continues, the consequences are endless. If it's yours, it will be yours after all, and if it's not yours, he will leave one day.

Maybe there will be a more suitable person waiting for you later, to be precise, there will definitely be someone who belongs to you waiting for you after that.

You also said that since you can take care of this family by yourself, it is okay without him, then you should also be optimistic, willing to give, and willing to give.

Letting someone who wants you angry know that you haven't been angry at all is the biggest punishment for him. ”

Don't punish yourself for someone else's mistakes.

Everything should be handled in the most suitable way for it.,Laughing is the end.,Crying is the end.。。。

Uncontrollable The charm of a man grows with age Is no one like you like your man Probably you are not happy And a woman will age very quickly after giving birth to a child At this time, what do you rely on to keep him is to improve personal cultivation Show the inner beauty of your married woman You must not be just a housewife Usually spare time life should be as rich as possible to strive for For the problem of the third party For the time being, it should be treated coldly As long as he does not bring the woman home, sooner or later he will be tired and tired Will come back to you What is home? It's that you have children is home, and if it's not dementia, he'll know how to choose.

If you marry or find the wrong person, you will become your own grave. If you don't want to spend the rest of your life in pain, I suggest you let it go. Do you think you will be happy if you force it?

Don't be reluctant to face the breakup calmly, it's just because he doesn't know how to cherish you. Don't quarrel with him, get together and disperse, and go your own way in the future to find your own happiness.

There will be a second time, there will be a second time, you should think about it yourself, although men love to play, but what to play, I think myself, play anything can be forgiven, but play people, resolutely not...

I feel the same way I have the same experience as you My husband promised me to break it off with her, but I also found out that they didn't break off at all I contacted several times a month I asked him and he thought he had deleted it all and he didn't admit it I have evidence I don't think he was going to divorce me because he owed me so much I hate him and lied to me for her I shed tears every day Pain.