Should I chase the girl I like?

My advice is not to pursue it.

Just now I read a person asking for help, saying that he spent a lot of money for his girlfriend's family, which seriously affected his life.

Falling in love and getting married are two different things, so it doesn't matter if you really like her, but you have to have an irresponsible attitude, can you do it?

Once you have chosen her, you have a responsibility for her, and you have a responsibility for your own family (a responsibility derived from blood, not inheritance), and you have to choose between these two responsibilities. That's your heart, and it's going to be as bad as being torn apart.

And, to put it mildly, for a very practical reason: this girl, no matter how much you love her and spoil her, can you make sure that she loves you as much as you love her, and can you make sure that your relationship will never change? However, I can tell you that your family, especially your parents, will never betray you, at least 10,000 times more reliable than the so-called love.

Do you know that blood is thicker than water?

Besides, if you choose a girl, you have to be responsible for her, why should you take this responsibility? Without the support of your family, how far can you go alone? Is she willing to work hard with you? Will she change her mind? Will you be able to stay the course?

Your sister eloped, it was your sister who took the initiative, you must know that the responsibility is borne on the man, no matter what the man is, as long as your sister does not give up, then it will be fine, can you guarantee that the girl is the same as your sister? Besides, are you sure your sister was happy after she eloped? Or is it safe?

This kind of gambling elopement, if it is famous, may not come back to show the parents - I was the right choice.

My words may be a bit heavier, but I hope to be able to punch the awakened dreamer, of course, if I expect it to be right, you will probably not be able to let go of that girl, and even discourage yourself from being with her, but I hope that you will always take responsibility for your choices, whether you regret it or not.

At this point, LZ decides for himself, you can try to help that girl, but it is still recommended that you consult with someone before making a decision, and investigate how many successful ones there are, literary works do not count.

Help her become a talent secretly, and then slowly, time can overcome everything.

There's no need to elope, if you really love her, you're sure. Then you should chase her well. I'm afraid you'll give up halfway through the chase, and she'll hate you.

If she loves you, she won't choose to elope, she will let you choose your family, and she's afraid that you won't be happy, so you don't want to elope. In fact, you can choose both sides, not just one! If you really love, your family won't let you go the same path as your sister, so your family can discuss it, and she will listen to you, so you don't have to choose both.

Elopement must not be allowed. Even if you don't want this girl!! The best way is that after you help this girl have a certain amount of achievement, your marriage will fall into place, and your parents will not oppose it too strongly, and at that time, coupled with your persistence, it should not be a big problem.

You're not sure how much you love that girl right now! Sometimes parents are really right, even though they sometimes think differently from us ...

You can get that girl to get in touch with your parents and your grandfather, and make them feel good about the girl, and they just look at the appearance and background, and you let them see her inner nature, and you've watched some similar TV series, like "The Caller" (also called "The Sparrow Falls in Love with the Phoenix") A rich man falls in love with a rural girl.

If you need to chase her, you can buy her something or consciously ask her out to be alone with the two of you, which may improve the relationship.

Since you like each other, then go after it, otherwise you will regret it later, as long as you buy something she likes, gifts and bags, lipsticks, cosmetics and the like to give her, it is easy to be moved.

Of course, you have to chase it, you can buy gifts for each other when you pursue, and you can also take each other to some more romantic places.

Of course, it is necessary to chase, and to master a method, you can design more ritualistic and romantic scenes to pursue.

Of course, you have to chase, don't miss a girl if you like it, maybe she is your fate.

Summary. If you've only known each other for two or three days, then I think maybe this girl has left a better impression on you, and it's the type you prefer.

How do you chase a girl you like, and if you chase it, you're afraid that people won't agree to be good with you.

If you really like this girl and want to pursue him, you must first know what are the interests and hobbies of this girl?

If you really like this girl and want to pursue him, it is best to understand the girl's interests and hobbies in <> aspects

Doing what they like can increase the success rate.

Do you currently have a girl you want to pursue?

Son, yes. I want to be with her the most because I'm afraid that she won't agree, and I'm good friends with his best friend.

Fear of rejection.

Well. If you are good friends with his girlfriend, you should know her interests and hobbies.

I don't know, I only knew her for about two or three days.

If you've only known each other for two or three days, then I think maybe this girl has left a better impression on you, and it's the type you prefer.

Well. Just tell me how to chase it.

I think you don't know much about the basic information of this girl, usually speaking, in the case of this key attack, you have to find more opportunities to have more contact with this girl, such as playing ball together, or eating and chatting together, and watching <>exhibitions

Thank you very much for your trust, I hope I will give you inspiration or help, if you have other questions, or relatives and friends around you have consultation needs, welcome to ask, and finally wish you all the best of luck

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