What should I do if my feelings fade? I can t afford it and I can t put it down, so please advise me

I don't know if this pressure comes from his family or himself. If you just want to find a local person for a few years of struggle, this kind of person is no longer worth your efforts for. And from the family, I think, at this time, he also hopes that you will face it together, to gain the understanding of the family, not just to be a resentful woman or a righteous Ling Ran, which will make him doubt this relationship.

Communication and understanding are always the cornerstone and firewall of love.

Personally, I think you already have the answer.

You tell me? My beautiful friend.

Let's put it this way. You ask him if he wants to rely on him or to live.

And what you want is life.

What he wants is to rely on.

See for yourself. If you choose him.

Can you make him a legend.

If you can't.

Personally, I think let her go.

And one more suggestion.

Distance produces beauty.

See what kind of feelings he has for you?

I'm in a bit of the same situation as you. I want to put it down, but I can't help it. However, this kind of torture will eventually break out one day, and I will break up.

The landlord, I think, he doesn't know how to love. Or rather, he doesn't love you. If he loves you, he will think about you, he will think of you from time to time, it is impossible to contact only once a week, or you take the initiative.

He said that his parents wanted him to find a rich only daughter, and he told you, which means that he has seriously considered it, and if he loves you, he will not consider it at all. Got it? And, to you, doesn't it mean that you have a number in mind?

Also, the question of how much money you spend. I think that a man who always asks a woman to spend money just feels a bit of a mixed bag. If he wants to go on with you for a long time, he will definitely take into account your problems, such as, you always give you money, do you have enough money, etc.

At that time, I was very similar to you now, as long as he was good, anything could be done. Give me 100% love, even if we break up, I don't regret it. He ignores me, it's okay, maybe he's busy right now, don't bother him...

But now I regret it, and I regret it. I hope you can think about everything that happened to you and him, and whether the relationship has changed. You can also calm down for half a month or a month, think about it, don't hit him, and see if he will take the initiative to contact you.

Once you've calmed down, you'll know what to do.

ps My position is to hope that since he doesn't love you and thinks about finding a rich girl, then why don't you fulfill him, maybe he will regret it later. When you break up, have a backbone! ）

There are so many men in the world, and there must be one who is your Prince Charming. Maybe he's not. If you continue to communicate, there will be more and more contradictions. 7 years is a long time, 2555 days, and it is also very short, fleeting. Choose well and don't let yourself regret it. Come on!

When you love, you really love, and when you don't love, you really don't love. You're struggling like you're holding on to a straw right now, but no matter what, the result is going to fall. It's better to let go.

He has such an attitude, it seems that he is very troubled about how to choose, you don't look for him to calm down and take a look, and then it is better to be ready to let go.

Tangled. I don't know how to say it.

I am also from Nanjing, an only child, and my family conditions are okay.

I think we are very realistic here, my parents' generation, including many of my friends, are realistic to death...

Now they are all only children, and the family looks at them seriously, and I can understand your boyfriend's parents.

A few years ago, when I was just in college, I talked about a boy who was from another city, and he had a sister who lived in a town in another province, and my parents asked me to break up with him after they found out. Although I didn't want to, I broke up with him because I didn't want to make my parents sad. Hehe, don't talk about it.

Looking back, it was hard for me to do it, caught in the middle, just like your boyfriend. It was really painful. Especially when he was still vexatious (for me), it was even more unbearable. Then they broke up.

How to do it, I don't know, you have to ask yourself.

You should understand that love also needs to be managed. And two people should know how to tolerate and understand each other, communicate more, reduce suspicion, don't care too much about their own gains and losses, and use good attitudes and skills to manage love, so that love can go longer. I tell you a good way to strengthen your determination to love and stabilize your mind, you can try to log in to the "Tower of Hearts" to participate in their "True Love Test", because in the process of participating in this seemingly game-like "Internet Love Test", it can not only help you witness how deep your love for him is, but also record the bits and pieces on your love road, become your love file for you to keep forever, and also help you understand how to manage your love and maintain your relationship.

You can find it by taking a look at the "Tower of Hearts".

Leave this man! Brother said.

Maybe you should have a face-to-face conversation with him! Tell him what is in your heart! It's better to make everything clear! Otherwise, you'll just keep going like this! There is no end!

Such a person is not worthy of you to treat him so much, if he loves you, how can he listen to a few words from his parents, and his Taidu towards you will change! I can't make my own decisions, how can I be good to you!

It is advisable to be separated for a while, get along as ordinary friends during this time, and then go with the flow. If you still feel like you can't let go of each other, that's the best.