Is it better for such a girl to be a girlfriend or a friend

I'm a girl, and like you, I'm studying abroad. From your description, I think this girl is very serious, not greedy for cheap, and more polite. But not necessarily she is really good at thinking about others.

You get along too shallowly, in fact, you don't know her. Whether she's sincere or hypocritical, you don't know. And it's hard to say how this girl feels about you.

Although she is very polite to you, she may not really like you. I'm the same with my average friend. I think it's a bit premature for you to think about this question now.

If you feel that this girl makes you feel okay, try to get along with her further, get to know her better, and after you get acquainted, you will no longer be particularly polite to each other, but show your true nature, and it will not be too late for you to make a decision at that time. And you also have to see what kind of attitude this girl has towards you, if she is happy every time she sees you, I think she likes you. Come on.

Very cultured girl; It seems that you still admire her from the bottom of your heart; If you feel it, you can try to socialize; You can also learn a lot from her;

If you don't feel it, you don't have to fall in love for the sake of falling in love, just be friends.

You just have a crush on her now, that's all, and whether you can develop into a lover depends on whether your feelings for her have deepened further.

From what you said, I feel that she is a very educated and polite girl Everything has to start from the basics, and it is recommended to be friends first

Look at her, she can do whatever you want.

The first is that she really doesn't call you, and the first impression is completely unfeeling, and she can't arouse any hormonal throbs. Then I suggest that in such a situation, it is better for you to give up. Because of the love between men and women, the most essential attraction at the beginning is the instinctive attraction, and on this basis, we can cultivate spiritual resonance and run-in of the way we get along.

And this feeling, if you don't have it in the first place, is often unlikely to cultivate. Even if she is moved by you for some reason and chooses to be with you, once she meets someone she likes, she will easily be distracted.

So don't feel someone who doesn't feel for you, like not trying to wake up someone who is pretending to be asleep, because everything is doomed to be in vain. Love is a matter of two people, thunder and fire, no one is missing; No matter how heart-warming you are and how obsessed you are; A slap can't be slapped no matter what. It's better to turn around and look for the person who can really resonate with you in the vast sea of people.

The second is that although the first impression is good, as soon as you open your mouth, you will ruin everything, and the girl really can't talk to you, and the impression will be greatly reduced. For women, men who can chat and can talk together are like a treasure, after all, girls are more sensitive to emotions and pay more attention to companionship and emotional temperature. Those straight men who don't know how to turn their brains at all and only talk about things are often difficult to make women feel comfortable.

The last type is that the value is not enough, and in terms of appearance, status, wealth, ability, etc., girls cannot feel satisfied and safe enough. Nowadays, there are fewer and fewer women who believe that they are "full of affection", no matter how attractive they are to a man, they can evaluate the possibility of future happiness from a rational level. And this assessment is very realistic, taking into account the real life, and even the future child's upbringing and education.

The essence of marriage is actually to ensure the purity of genes and the inheritance of wealth, every woman will hope that her children can be sufficiently secure in their growth, if they can inherit excellent genes from nature, it is even better. Therefore, after the love dream of youth, women will become more realistic. If you feel that she likes you, is happy to be with you, and is rejected in the end, it is often a failure in the core values.

That girl just wants to be friends with you, not boyfriend and girlfriend, I think she should have a standard in her heart, or she already has someone in her heart to admire, she told you to only be friends, which means that she did not take you into account when considering her boyfriend, if she does not have a boyfriend yet, it should be that you have not met her criteria for choosing a mate. If you care about her, you might as well understand her psychology and what kind of boyfriend she is going to choose?

In reality, there is such a person, you can't be a boyfriend and girlfriend, but you can be a friend, it may be that she thinks you are not suitable at all, being a boyfriend and girlfriend is not as simple as chatting and shopping, you have to hold hands, you have to live together, and she can't accept you yet, so don't force her, just follow the fate.

This means that this girl may already have other boys she likes, or she hasn't called you and doesn't want to fall in love with you.

I guess so.

Maybe your relationship is like friends.

You can't be a lover.

Some people are just suitable to be friends.

I'm honored to answer for you: Brother, do you understand the boiled woman?

The girl said that it was more suitable to be friends, which is a tactful rejection in love. The reason for this scene may be that you get along with her in the process of communicating with her, and you usually chat like an ordinary friend, and in the process of this communication, you do not arouse her curiosity, desire, and feelings between men and women. It could also be that she confessed too early, that she wasn't mentally prepared, or that you weren't the type of person she liked.

When a girl says this, it's not irreparable, you need to confirm whether the other party has someone you like, if there is, then it's difficult to insert the feelings she already has, if not, you can understand her interests and hobbies from many aspects, the biggest language of two people is common interests, don't be discouraged, silently care about her, don't pursue it too much, but cause the other party's disgust, as long as you use your heart, it is possible to move her.

Look at each other. If there is no interest.

Stop chatting.

Summary. Hello, dear, If a girl rejects you with "let's still be friends", you send her a message and she will reply to you, and you ask her out to play, and she will not refuse. There is even such a little bit of shyness in the middle of the conversation and demeanor, so it means that you still have a chance Because usually in this case, the girl does not really reject you, she still wants to know more about you, and then think about it.

Hello, dear, If a girl refuses to reject you with "let's still be friends", she will reply to you if you send her a message, and she will not refuse if you ask her out to play. There is even such a little bit of shyness in the middle of the conversation and demeanor, so it means that you still have a chance Because usually in this case, the girl does not really reject you, she also sells pants because she wants to know more about you and regret it, and then think about it.

Some girls usually can't say anything about rejecting you directly, but use friends as an excuse to slowly distance themselves from you.

As long as you and the girl are still in contact, can still chat, and can meet, you still have the possibility of development!