Does a child s selfishness have anything to do with the parents?

Updated on parenting 2024-05-22
13 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Dabin said that it must be related, parents' love for their children must be selfless, but due to the wrong education method may lead to children being selfish, autistic, self-abandonment, it is possible, too doting children grow up in such an environment is likely to be distorted, because they are all only children, there is no strong desire for the love of parents in the early years of several children in the family, and they think that the parents' support for their love should be shared, and they are their responsibilities and obligations. Children's selfishness and parents are indeed related, but it is not that parents directly cause children to be selfish, and the formation of acquired habits also accounts for a large part, then I am also an only child, and my parents also love me very much, why am I not so selfish, it depends on my strong quality.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Relevant, but not all. Character is the most important, but it is also the result of nature and nurture, and parents are responsible for the latter.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Acquired education has a lot to do with parents.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Related, either the parents are too doting or the parents are too selfish.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Everyone is fair when it comes to whether to be nice to themselves or to others.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Of course it is. You have children.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Parents are selfish for children and this is also where they learn, and children are selfish to their friends. It is particularly terrible to only take other people's and not know how to give and love.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It will make the child become very selfish, and he will have no friends after learning selfishness from his parents since he was a child.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It will make the child lack love in his heart, and he is not willing to communicate with his parents, and his personality will also have a certain introvert.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It will also have a private impact, children are watching their parents, and they will also learn.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Selfish and hypocritical parents generally have these five manifestations in life, which can be seen at a glance.

    1.The requirements for others are high, and the requirements for oneself are low.

    The lazy, incompetent, and selfish man will put his hope in others, and he will be happy and lazy because of hunger.

    2.Turning a blind eye to one's own problems, holding on to the problems of others.

    The more you lack something, the more you love to show off what you grind, and the more you will be jealous of what others have. Once they catch other people's problems, they will make a big fuss to satisfy their own vanity.

    3.He thinks very highly of himself, and always feels that others owe him.

    Selfish people are always self-centered, they dare to brag about everything, and they look down on those who listen to him.

    4.Others turn a blind eye to his goodness, and he talks about his kindness to others every day.

    Selfish people don't know how to be grateful to others, but they remember their kindness to others very clearly, for fear that others will forget, so they will often find someone to talk to you, in order to make you return the favor faster. At the same time, I also want to show my "benevolence" side in front of outsiders.

    5.Speaking harshly, doing things mercilessly, turning faces ruthlessly.

    Selfish people don't take into account the feelings of others, and when faced with a conflict of interests, the previous friendship can be "written off" in their eyes.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    1.Selfish parents will make children selfish, compared to dragons and phoenixes, family education is an indispensable part of children's growth, parents are children's role models, children's development is imitation at the beginning, if parents themselves are very selfish to educate children will also pass on his values to children.

    2.Parents who always hurt their children, children's character is acquired, if they always hurt their children, children's hearts will also change from soft to indifferent, indifferent can not be hurt, so treat your children well.

    Do not do to others what you do not want to do to yourself, and you must set a good example and be a good example of what you want your children to be.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Whether parents are selfish or not is a very subjective question, because everyone's parents are different, everyone's life experiences and values are different, and the definition of selfishness is also different. Some parents may be more concerned about their own interests and less concerned about their children's motivations and needs, but that doesn't mean all parents are like this.

    In addition, whether a person is selfish or not is also related to their age, gender, life experience, cultural background, and other factors. In some cases, parents may be more concerned about their own interests, while in others, children may be more concerned about their parents' interests. In addition, a person's behavior is also influenced by moral and ethical standards.

    We should avoid using a simple "selfishness" to describe the behavior of all parents. Whether parents are selfish or not is a matter that needs to be carefully considered and should be evaluated on a case-by-case basis. When considering parental behavior, we should consider factors such as their motivations, values, life experiences, cultural environment, etc., rather than making judgments based solely on whether they have their own interests or not.

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