How can you let go of a relationship that has been entangled for eight years

Friend, first of all, you need to clarify the nature of your relationship, whether you have loved each other for eight years, or if you have been "entangled" for eight years, as your title said. This is important.

People say it's hard to love someone, but it's even harder to forget someone.

Eight years, how many memories of each other are carried.

Or, they are already used to each other's days and suddenly separate. It's normal to be unaccustomed.

To let go, it's not difficult, it's not easy, first you have to make it clear to yourself that he has left you. And then there is empathy, of course, the object of empathy is not necessarily a person, it can be something you like, work.

Go on a trip and dilute old memories with new landscapes...

There is no one in this world who can live without anyone in the true sense of ...

Give yourself time to get used to the day without ta...

Friends, well, for your family, in fact, feelings are only a part of a person's life.

I understand everything I said you know, all you need is a door, a door to walk out of yourself...

Good luck!

If you can't let go, don't let go, just like forgetting someone, it's impossible to forget it all at once, so calm your heart, start your life again, work hard, time can dilute everything! Relationships are just one part of life, and we have other meaningful things to do! Good luck!

Eight years of the War of Resistance, you can use three years to calm down, it's better than to keep the chaos going on.

I'm a woman, and I know that the only way to let go of a relationship for such a long time is: you have to deeply realize that he doesn't love you!

When a relationship is about to end, it is like waking up from a dream, and it seems that everything is about to come to naught before I realize that this is just a dream! So what can be done? You may not forget, but at least you should let go, because there is a road to go, you can't move forward with a load, and you have a dream to chase.

You're going to put it down in such a dashing way:

1.Only time pressure and responsibility will make you forget, and when you face these difficult times, your heart will not remember those past events!

2.What should come will come! If you really can't let go, it's good to bury that relationship in your heart. One more peace, one more peace of mind. I've cried, I've been in pain, and I've given it all back! Time is really the best medicine, it picks your destined people from time to time.

3.It is difficult to forget a loved one, especially one who has not been gained or has been lost, but if you know that your relationship must have a cause and no effect, it must be just a passer-by who does not have any unwillingness, and continues to live with wishes and wonders, then you will have the time to let go.

4.Time can make us forget all the pain caused by feelings. Anyone is so small in front of it, no matter who that person is, they will send him into the depths of memory, and eventually disappear without a trace.

5.I can usually keep myself busy, do something I like, do something I wanted to do in the past but didn't have time to do it, and make me full. If you really don't have anything to do, go for a run and make yourself tired.

6.A sincere relationship is the beginning of the end for some reason, you are always physically and mentally hurt, but since it has reached the point of being bound, it must be a problem, at this time you have to calm down and ask yourself if you can really not continue, if you really can't continue, then be strong.

7.If you can choose one person to visit, meet more people, and understand different stories, you will find that your own pain is so minimal. Control your mood and tell your story with a smile.

When we mature in the future, when we treat this relationship again, we may not have the pain at that time, we will only think about the former person, so naïve, and we will also regard this emotion as the most wonderful memory.

I think that after a breakup, you must not be entangled, you must establish a correct concept of feelings, you must be dignified, you must not be too humble in the relationship, and you must learn to let go in a chic way.

In the face of a relationship that has ended, we should be free and easy, seal the previous memories, and then start a new life. Time will make us forget everything.

When encountering such a situation, you should let go of your previous feelings in a chic manner, and you should establish a correct concept of love, there is no need to dwell on it, you should look forward.

There is a weighing hammer patriarch in Yunnan, a native of the Ming Dynasty, surnamed Cai, who lives outside the small east gate of Kunming. His parents died, leaving behind a farm of property, living a good life, working diligently and thriftily, growing vegetables and selling them for pocket use. The wife is young and beautiful, but she is lazy and has an affair with a wild man.

Although Cai knew about this and didn't talk about her, as the days went by, she became more daring, and she had fornications with wild men every day, without any fear.

One day, Cai went out to sell vegetables very early, and it was expected that the wild man had not left home, so he bought wine and meat to take home, and at this time the wild man had not left, so he had to hide under the bed. Cai went into the kitchen to make food, and his wife felt embarrassed, so she went to wash her face and help her husband get food. When the meal was ready, Cai asked her to set up the dishes and chopsticks, she set up two sets of dishes and chopsticks, and Cai asked her to set up three sets.

I'm in for a treat today. She set it up, and Cai asked her to invite her out for a drink. She said

Guest**? Cai said: "In the room."

She said: "Don't talk nonsense, there are ** guests in the room." Cai said

It doesn't matter, don't be afraid, you can ask him to come out, if not, I will give him a knife. "As a last resort, the wife called the wild man out. Cai invited the wild man to sit down and toast him, the wild man thought it was poisonous and didn't dare to drink it, Cai drank it first and then invited him to drink, and the wild man was relieved.

After eating enough wine and food, Cai bowed to the wild man three times and said: "Today is a good marriage, my wife is young, no one greets me, you have to take good care of it, my family wealth and my wife, are handed over to you, please accept it." "The wife and the wild man refused, Cai said with a knife

If you don't agree, I will take your lives. The two had no choice but to agree.

Cai then went out empty-handed and went to the west of Changsong Mountain to become a monk, while practicing, while planting vegetables, and later worked hard to gain insight. Besides, after the wild man gained both wealth and sex, he was too lazy to eat, and his wife was beaten and scolded every day, she regretted it, and ran to Xilin Nunnery to invite Cai home, wanting to find the old good again, Cai ignored her. Later, the wild man ate up all the family wealth, and she had no way to beg for food, she remembered Cai's kindness and wanted to repay him.

Cai usually eats Kunyang's golden carp, she made a plate of golden carp and sent it to Xilin Nunnery for Cai to eat, Cai accepted it and said: "I received your love, I will take these fish and release them." "My wife said:

The fish is cooked and cannot be released. Cai put the fish in the water, and the fish were alive, until now, there is still this kind of fish at the Black Dragon Pond Monument in Kunming. Cai is a layman, and he can let go of his wife, wealth and sons, so his cultivation can be successful, I advise you to let go of Wanyuan, and his wife and children are comparable to the freedom of life and death!

Work hard to become a holy fruit!

How to let go of a relationship? How to put down a person?

In a relationship, how can it last long?

Have you decided to give up on the relationship?

Give yourself time to process your emotions.

You can give yourself some time to reminisce, to think about your relationship, and to sort out these bits and pieces. You can be sad, you can indulge once. Emotions need to be handled and vented.

After going through this stage, you can move on. Suppressing emotions is not good for yourself.

Hello, happy to answer for you.

It's easy to forget old love.

It's either time or a new love.

Do I think it's really that hard to give up? But no matter how hard you struggle, it's really hard to give up.

Because we will find that life is hopeless, without any hope, then my life is really very bleak and bleak, so give up, if it is really that easy, who will choose to entangle? But many people don't want to let go easily. It's not that you can't let go, but it's really not that easy to let go, we all know a lot of truths, but it's really hard to do.

None of us wanted to pester, or even think that we would stalk someone.

But when we get caught up in that game of chess, we will find that it is really not so easy to find a clear path. Then I might as well teach you how to do it this time. Whenever I take a shower in the bathroom, it's the most relaxing moment for me, and it's a very happy time for me to take a shower, because you'll find that moment when you start to face up to everything you have.

So it's really hard to give up, but if you want to learn to give up, it's really easy.

If we want to give up some things, some people, some past, and even some memories, we can really do it. Here's how to do it. First of all, when we want to give up something, we should stop deliberately hiding it or avoiding it.

Because the more you hide it, you will find that you really can't escape, so this time we choose to face it bravely. No matter what happens to me and him face to face, no matter what I will bring to me directly reminiscing about my past this time, we have to feel that it doesn't matter, first of all, you need to be brave enough to face it.

The second step is to reduce the frequency of casual scrolling through the past, so that you will find that over time you will withdraw from your brain. Secondly, in the process of forgetting, we need to choose things that we like very much, very practical work, very caring people to go out to play with, and go out together, so that many of our emotions and thoughts can be released. If you want something to leave you forever, then you need to slowly move the thing away and fill in something new, so that it is very easy to give up and forget.

Or you can choose to make the heart capacity very large. The capacity of the heart, the university teacher used to say a word called purification. So now I will teach you this word as well.

In the past, I thought that purification was to slowly clean up the uncomfortable things in my heart. But then the teacher gave the word a new meaning.

If you want to purify something, why not make your heart a little more expansive. For example, a drop of ink will be particularly clear in a basin, and will unconsciously dye all the colors black. But if you put a drop of ink in an ocean, then this pile of ink is not visible at all, so this is the capacity of the heart, why don't we purify it together.

The title of the song is not very clear, because I have not heard of this song, it is recommended to look it up in the Chinese music library, and you should be able to find the specific name of the song.

1. Don't ask about anything that cares about him.

The real letting go is all quietly, there is no solemn confession, but one night suddenly understands that he is not important to him at all, and then learns to slowly let go.

began to restrain himself from caring about his affairs, and no longer inquired about him, but began to learn to love himself slowly, and when others mentioned him, there was no slightest wave in his heart, which is the real letting go of a person.

2. Don't remember your past events.

When they say that they can't let go of someone, think about how they give up on you. Yes, if a person chooses to leave you, no matter how good he was to you before, those are meaningless, and really loving you will not let you go so easily.

So when a person leaves you, he no longer loves you, and if you cling to the memories, then it is an opportunity for the other party to look down on you. And what you have to do is to learn to be relieved, no longer recall the past, live the present life, start working hard to live, make yourself excellent and independent, and meet better people.

3. Learn to love yourself well and be generous and decent when you say goodbye.

In a relationship, loving yourself is the beginning of the ultimate romance. Only when a woman learns to love herself will others love you. Maybe you've been in a failed relationship, but it's taught you how to love yourself.

Only when a woman loves herself well and strives to make herself better, can you truly find that leaving is his loss, and you can be better relieved, truly give up the past, and pursue a new life. And when I meet you again, you will no longer miss each other, because you have become a better version of yourself, and you will no longer love the former him.

Have you decided to give up on the relationship?

You can try to separate for a while, just like separation. See how it goes, and then decide how the relationship develops!! Maybe you will see your attachment to each other after separation, so let's give it a try!! I wish you all happiness!!

Calm down more, ask yourself carefully in your heart, do you really feel the scoundrel that this life brings to you, do you really want to get out of this besieged city, talk to your true friends, don't be impulsive, impulsiveness is the devil, that's right, you can also find a psychological counselor in your city to talk about your feelings, they will analyze and channel your emotions from a professional point of view, help you find the life you really want to live, and really look for, bless you, find your position!