Urgent, love crisis, what should I do

Everyone is in a bad mood, you should understand that you can't pass the exam and you're not around, can she be happy? It's also normal to have a chat with a friend, don't worry. Be broad-minded, brothers!

Big brother, give up! There is no hope.

There's a good chance she still likes her former boyfriend.

The big brother upstairs is so professional.

When there is an emotional crisis, you should observe whether there is a third party in your feelings. If there is, it must be prevented, and if not, it must be reviewed from the self. I think the most effective way to deal with the right way is to communicate.

Maybe things don't look the way you think, after all, it's just a guess and it doesn't confirm that Oak is stupid.

Maybe it's because the two of them have stayed for too long, and they feel a little tired, and after the love retention period, they don't have the freshness of being together at the beginning. In fact, it is not difficult for two people to fall in love together, the difficult thing is often to stay together, and the real relationship is to go through months of baptism and months of tempering.

As the saying goes: impulse is the devil. In the midst of anger, accidentally saying something can be fatal to him.

There is a solution to everything, remember, you must not quarrel, you must find the reason. Whether it's his or your own, you must prescribe the right medicine, nothing can be done overnight, not that if you find a problem, you can change it immediately, or it can be improved immediately, there must be a process.

Be lenient with others and strict with yourself. This is also useful in relationships. Remember, your emotions don't just belong to both of you, but you have more responsibilities to each other and each other's families, and since you have determined the relationship between the two people, you have the responsibility to tolerate and understand each other.

The most important thing in marriage is to encourage each other, make progress together, and make your small family more happy, so when you feel that there is an emotional problem in your marriage, you have to review it yourself, and at the same time, you can also find reliable relatives to compete for opinions and methods.

If the husband and wife are not honest with each other, I don't think this relationship will last long. Trust lies in the fact that two people can no longer waste time guessing what each other thinks, and if they can be together, they will be together, and if they can't be together, they will break up amicably, so as not to cause misunderstandings and hurt feelings.

First of all, it is necessary to communicate frequently, you should think about the problems of two people, and the most important thing is to solve the problem in a timely manner, not to make the contradiction more serious, and to respect each other.

At this time, the two of them should face the crisis together, actively understand things, and actively solve this crisis.

If you want to solve this crisis, then you have to understand each other, understand each other, and sit down and discuss the problem slowly, so that you can solve the crisis.

You have to analyze specific things to see what caused the crisis, the main thing is to be caring, tolerant, more caring, and more considerate of each other.

1. You can't give threatening orders to your boyfriend.

To be a more rational person, in the relationship, you have to choose a more harmonious way to get along with boys. Don't make one-sided arguments and justifications in everything, you should point out the other party's problems with rational emotions, you should have constructive suggestions, and you must not treat things with a threatening attitude, otherwise it will be counterproductive.

2. Don't "bet" on each other in emotional attitudes, but achieve emotional balance.

When the two sides encounter things, they always like one party to listen to the other, which is called emotional imbalance, two people are originally two concepts and thoughts, if they think about everything The other party wants to listen to themselves, it is called strong. It's okay to be just a little bit strong in your relationship. But you must not distort your emotions, when you have a little temper, you have to be a little cute, so that in the eyes of the other party, such a strong other half is very charming, so you must not "bet" on the other party when you want the other party to compromise, otherwise you will lose very badly.

3. In the relationship, you can't be a king-like existence.

There is no right or wrong in love, both parties are equal, but some couples like to have emotional dependence. What is emotional dependence? is always like to look high in front of the other party, the man thinks that he is the pillar of the family, and the woman thinks that marrying the other party will make the other party submit to themselves.

It is fate for two people to be together, if you add the label of king to yourself, such a relationship is not advisable, and only a degree of relaxation can make love more long-lasting.

Fourth, don't let yourself become a person who is too mild-mannered.

In a relationship, the weaker you are, the more you will crave the other party's understanding, companionship and protection, you will care a lot about your other party's thoughts, you will think that the other party is your everything, and you are willing to do something beyond the power of the other party. It is precisely because of such excessive gentleness that your love becomes humble, and it will also cause the other party's disgust and disgust.

Therefore, good love is based on the perception of two people, and only by being sincere with each other and knowing each other can we resolve all uncertain emotional crises.