What do you think is the most reactive social phenomenon at class reunions?

Class reunion, if it is the first few times after graduation, it must be a common memory, recalling the youthful time on campus, to see if the classmates who had a crush back then are still glorious, the original class president and the man of the year are now working in **, teasing each other but sincerely. It's not good, and now that the career is a little better, the students who will help recruit and contact must also be people with successful careers and happy families, and those who push the blame and play sloppy are those students who are relatively not very good. Since the starting point is to have this mentality, what do we get together?

Naturally, it is to compare and show off, prove to the introverted self in the past, and wash away some black history. People are vain vanity makes people progress, and if everyone is equal, who wants to work hard? At the class reunion 20 years later, there will definitely not be many people present at this time, only some old classmates who have an active atmosphere, charm and interests.

Why are these people the only ones left? If you think about it, people with successful careers have a full schedule of time, and a group of old classmates who haven't seen each other for a few years can't waste time if they don't have interests, and people who live a restrained life, their own food and clothing, children's tuition and education are all problems, how can there be extra time and energy to listen to the ridicule of old classmates.

Most of the class reunions are aimed at connecting feelings and renewing friendship, but there are not many who can really talk about only feelings and friendship. People are not independent individuals, and they will be somewhat tainted with social vulgarity. After all, in life, fame, wealth, and status directly reflect how well a person mixes in this society, and it also affects the life circle with which you usually interact.

For reasons such as these, it is difficult for students with large differences in the two circles to sit together and reminisce about the old days, even if they sit together reluctantly, it is somewhat of a bit of a show. Even if a successful student doesn't despise your poverty, I believe that most of the average classmates will feel a little estranged, and they feel that they can't play with him, and they are not people from the same world.

It reflects the ruthlessness of time and the indifference of people's hearts, and from the moment they walk out of the school gate, people are moving towards aging. Especially classmates who are often not together, when they meet once every few years, they will always feel that the other party has aged a lot. In addition, there is a little bit of feeling about life, some students have a good life, and some students have a more embarrassing life.

Now some of my classmates have been laid off. These students are, they can't understand it at all. In addition, there are some other changes, for example, when the classmates are young, they look good, but when they get older, their appearance begins to change.

There are even some who are already miserable gamblers, with different male classmates, gray hair, and old-fashioned. I can't find what my classmates looked like when they were young. There are also students who have undergone a huge change in body shape.

Some people are fat and out of shape.

Class reunions gather feelings, sigh about time, and compare fame and fortune. Friends who once thought they would last forever will one day be separated. Graduation is a hurdle that no one can avoid.

Class reunions are becoming more and more frequent, one year, three years, ten years...It seems that there are always a few active people who want to organize us, but more often than not, we can't find the feeling we had at the beginning. At the beginning, we had a class reunion, and we got together because we missed and because of friendship, and there were always so many people who couldn't help but hug and get close when we met. That person may have been at the same table at the beginning, and they shared a lot of little secrets together; Or maybe it's buddies, who used to sweat together in the playground....However, the class reunion in reality has more fireworks in the red dust, and even has a greasy feeling.

Class reunions became a place to show off. I have also participated in some class reunions, in addition to the lively also felt another atmosphere, that is, to show off, show off wealth, show off status, show off talent, classmates, after graduation due to various factors, some have made a fortune, some have advanced, some have outstanding talents, but some are not good, life is not satisfactory, when the class reunion, if a good blind show off is a great stab to those who are not very good, people can't raise their heads, always sit in an inconspicuous place, and their hearts may be crying, Complaining that he is not angry. In the future, those classmates were reluctant to attend.

Class reunions became synonymous with small circles. There are also some people who turn class reunions into small circles, they are seeking to maximize their own interests, use each other's resources, and integrate the greatest interests, which is not called a class reunion, but the formation of an alliance of interests, which is not advisable.

Show off, our class has not been organized for more than ten years, there was an outbreak, and as a result, the group was established, and I couldn't get used to his self-centeredness, and his remarks did not suit his heart, and he could be kicked out of the group. If you can't do it, if you are rich, you will reach the world, and if you are poor, you will be alone.

It's nothing, it's that you think too much.

Because the class reunion is like a small comparison meeting, and many of the good friends who played in the student period have become strangers, and you have to leave a point for talking to them, so it is said that the class reunion is the most hypocritical.

Because there will be a lot of comparisons in class reunions, and at the same time, everyone is cautious with each other, so it is also a particularly hypocritical party.

Because when classmates get together, they show off how well they live and how much money they make, and they don't care about other people's feelings at all.

Because there is not much intersection between classmates, the purpose of getting together is to compare with each other and show off their own things.

At class reunions, many people will praise themselves and say that they are doing well and tell some lies.

For class reunions, there are no more than three kinds of people, one is very active, as long as there is a class reunion, he will go to participate, and he is also actively organizing contacts, that is, the subject said that Li Tanxian who always goes to the party; The second type of people is the "dispensable" type, for class reunions, they generally eat a normal heart, go when they have time, and do not participate if they don't have time, and they are noncommittal to this kind of gathering, a dispensable attitude; Another kind of people just don't like class reunions, have a kind of opposition to this kind of gathering, even afraid of psychology, as soon as they hear that their classmates are going to watch the party again, they will be sad, not to go to it and feel bad, go and go against the true feelings of the heart, this kind of party makes them restless and restless.

So what is the psychology of "people who always go to class reunions", that is, the first type of people mentioned above? In fact, this kind of people are still relatively "simple", their hearts are more sunny and optimistic, that is, they like to join in the fun, and should be warm-hearted, very friendly people, they feel that classmates are very sincere, very worth cherishing, to have the opportunity to reminisce about the old is a rare thing, this kind of person is either very optimistic, or is "very big", it is easy to be satisfied on weekdays, there is no excessive utilitarianism. Of course, there are also some successful people, this kind of people's mentality may have some changes, they feel that they are role models, they should appear in front of everyone, let others envy them, but this kind of people should also be in the minority, most people who like to party are still very straightforward.

You should also socialize more with such people than stay away.

The second type is the "dispensable" attitude of people, this kind of people should be the best to get along with, but also your most cherished, usually they are easier to satisfy, will not be able to live in any matter, let alone care who is good and who is bad, this kind of person's personality is more gentle, do things more prudently, do not have much utilitarianism, get along with classmates purely out of emotion, although sometimes it is not very positive, but this is the most real embodiment. Often overly passionate emotions do not come from the heart. Therefore, this kind of student is still the person you should associate with.

For the third type of people, the mind is more meticulous, belongs to the competitive but did not succeed, this kind of people have a strong sense of self-esteem, and there are more inner thoughts, so when interacting with them, the verbal expression should be carefully considered, otherwise, it is very likely that your sentence of "do not follow the heart" will easily hurt their self-esteem, thus causing unnecessary misunderstandings. Although this kind of person is a bit extreme, they are often very sincere in their hearts and do not have too many bad thoughts.

1. People who mix well and satisfy vanity.

In the concept of many Chinese people, the rich and noble do not gather like a brocade night walk, so some good people are particularly eager to participate in class reunions, after all, a successful career is a face-saving thing for men. Through class reunions, it is their desire for classmates who were once on an equal footing with themselves to look up to themselves, of course, if someone really asks them to borrow money, he may not give it, for him, under the gorgeous show off in front of everyone, it is enough to satisfy his vanity.

2. The nostalgic type is purely for people who reminisce about the past.

Of course, it is undeniable that some people participate in class reunions for pure reminiscence, and after the former classmates enter the society, they will inevitably experience all the ups and downs in society, and at this time they will know the truth with their families. Looking back on the time when everyone was together, I felt that the days that had passed were worth remembering, but when the class reunion really came, many people found that although it was still the original formula, it was no longer the original taste, so most of these people were disappointed.

3. People who stand in line freely and watch jokes.

As the saying goes, things gather by like, people are grouped, and at class reunions, they are often free to stand in line, the good ones are looking for the good ones, the ones who are doing business are looking for the ones who are doing business, the bad ones are mixed and the bad ones are complaining about each other's unhappiness together, and then find each other's shortcomings, find a balance in their hearts, look at jokes, and feel that who is so miserable. Then they laughed at each other and it was over.

4. People who blindly follow the trend.

Some people don't belong to the above three situations, and the reason why they are keen to participate in class reunions is because they feel that everyone is going, and they don't go to take a good ride like something less, so they blindly follow the trend, just to show off their sense of existence.

Many people feel that true friendship between classmates is not maintained by a meal, but more should be a heartfelt thought, a blessing when they see each other getting better and better, and a comfort to see each other's suffering. Some people also said that since the number of chains between classmates has become both familiar and unfamiliar, don't miss it, and have nothing to say, it is better to keep it in your heart, at least beautiful.

During the Chinese New Year, many people will attend class reunions, what do you think of this phenomenon. In fact, my opinion on this phenomenon cannot also be the following points, and I will analyze them in detail next.

Clause. 1. This is a normal situation, because everyone is only free to gather at this time. In fact, the Chinese New Year class reunion is a normal situation.

Because if everyone is in the same place, then the probability of attending the same school is still very high. However, because of work, there are not many opportunities for everyone to get together, even if they want to. Or everyone is not available.

So, it's a good time to celebrate the New Year. At this time, everyone is free. The probability of being able to gather them is very high.

Therefore, many people may choose to hold a class reunion during the Chinese New Year.

Clause. Second, this may also be an act of comparison. Actually, after I came out to work, I had a class reunion.

It is generally the rich who take the lead. After all, you always have to make an appointment for a class reunion, and naturally you also need to pay a deposit. However, it is natural that I want to participate in the showmanship.

Perhaps he also contracted the money for this party. And if you don't have a good time, you naturally don't have any idea of participating. Actually, everybody came out to work.

Unless the original relationship was really good and good, maybe the class reunion is really for connecting feelings. If not, maybe everyone is playing on the spot. Of course, it can be regarded as a way to learn about each other's recent situation.

Clause. 3. Moderate consumption is very important. In fact, the party has a normal appointment.

Let's have a meal together. It's okay for one person to scrape together a few hundred dollars. But if the class reunion is a big deal, there is no individual average of tens of thousands of people who can't hold it.

You don't have to. In fact, the original intention of the class reunion was also to hope to connect feelings. Learn about each other's recent developments and situations.

Some of the good ones may be able to help some of the less well. In fact, this is a class reunion in the true sense. If you blindly compare, you will even be fattened by a swollen face.

This is very unnecessary.

I think this phenomenon is still relatively good, and during the New Year, it is necessary to get together and cultivate feelings, otherwise the feelings between classmates will be weak.

Personally, I think that we need to look at this phenomenon correctly, and everyone has nothing to do during the Chinese New Year, and they participate in class reunions. You can keep in touch with your classmates.

I think this phenomenon is still better, after all, this is the only time to get together, and it can also strengthen the relationship between classmates.