Why did he become like this! 40

He fell out of love. Of course, it is impossible to ask a person who has just fallen out of love to talk and laugh as if nothing had happened, and if his reaction is so great, it means that he is deeply emotionally invested, and it will take him longer to recover.

As his friend, you want to help him, and you can feel between the lines that you like him a little, so what do you do next? If you have ever fallen out of love, you will know that during that painful time, people often have no other strength to socialize, be polite, and even lazy to accept the kind comfort of friends, because all the comforting words seem to be pale, and there is no way to reduce the pain in your heart, so you just want to hide and heal quietly, so there is the state you said "I don't want to see people for a day". If you are an empathetic person, it is best for you to be able to accompany him silently during this time.

The word silence is very important, don't say too many comforting words on his broken love, it will only aggravate the sting in his heart, you can go in and pour him a cup of tea after he locks himself up all day, pick an activity he usually likes, and suggest: "Don't be stuffy, let's go, it's good to relax, so that the mood is getting worse and worse ......."If he doesn't react or shakes his head in refusal, you say, "Don't think too much, your body is ......important.""Quit, don't force him to do anything, his heart is already very tired and tired, and he can't do anything else.

Every other day or two, try again, or bring two discs that he likes to watch, or bring some of his favorite foods......In short, if he doesn't want to speak, don't tremble, if you want to talk, avoid the content of his lovelorn, and use more heart-warming actions to silently accompany him out of that haze.

I also want to say that if he doesn't fall in love with you, don't allow yourself to invest in his feelings, even if he wants to find you as a substitute when he is in the darkest mood, you don't want to lose your promise for a while, love without two feelings is very bitter, fall in, and it will be difficult to come out again......

Don't mention his girlfriend in front of him now, as if you have a purpose, you just care about him now, chat with him, let him realize that you care about him so much, and when you are mature, you tell him how good he is, don't want that unsuccessful relationship, affect your future relationship development.

If that girl doesn't cherish your friend and always hurts him, persuade your friend to think about it, there is not only that girl on the earth, she doesn't consider your friend's feelings like that, even if they come together, they won't be happy! Persuade your friends! Don't get too bad with yourself!

If persuasion doesn't work, come and scold him, scold him, don't have any scruples, say whatever you want, say what you think, tell him, if you love, you won't give up, if you give up, you don't love, all reasons are not to love, or not to love enough.

If it's the first love, it's normal to have such a reaction, talk to him and share it with him, and the younger brother used to be like this. Don't worry, you don't need to take medicine, it will naturally be fine after a while, haha!!

Sit quietly with him, don't do anything deliberately, care about him silently, give him the courage to live, man, at this time, you need the most attention from others!!

Sooner or later, he will feel your efforts!

It must be the first love, and it won't be like this if you love a few more times, it's a little meaning.

It can only be said that he loves her too much.

56529 What do you say is accompaniment?

I think you better go and talk to him, listen to him more, drink some wine, and forget about the unhappy.

Love is very persistent, and it is hurt again and again.

But you have to pay again and again.

Hey, man, 3 That's it, you know, you have to encourage him, you have to be with him, you know?

Happiness will not wait for you all the time, the people who love you and the people you love are not ready to appear, please learn to cherish them.

When a person who loves you deeply changes for you, it is because he loves you, and when you meet someone, he puts away his stubborn temper for you; And because he loves you, he turns your interest into his interest when ......Or because he loves you.

There is no reason to like someone, and there is no regret to give.

They all think it's worth it, as long as they can be with the people they love.

In fact, we all have some such people around us, but (you. I. He hasn't discovered that the person who knows you best will always be by your side to protect you and not let you have a trace of grievances; People who truly love you may not say many things that love you, but they will do many things that love you.

If you find someone like this around you, please cherish .......

Please remember! The stars that can't be picked are always the brightest, and the small fish that slip away are always the most beautiful. The missed movie is always the best, and the lost lover always understands you best.

In this world, everyone has someone they want to find, and once they miss it, they won't come back.

If you fall in love, don't give up easily. It's awkward, maybe you regret it for a while; But you give up, and it may make you regret it for the rest of your life. A life that has experienced love is beautiful, and love that cannot stand the test is not profound.

Beautiful love enriches life, and love that has passed the test is perfect.

Let go, maybe it's really a wise choice, let go of hope and let go of disappointment, let go of concern and let go of loneliness, let go of the past to usher in a new life. Let go of your hands, give you a piece of undisturbed sky, and also give yourself a relieved heart. There is nothing wrong with love, but the object chosen may be wrong!!