Which mantra do you hate the most? Why?

I believe that most people don't like to hear this sentence. People who say this do feel that they are superior, like leaders, like big officials, however, most of the time, they are not leaders, not big officials. It's just a habit in oral expression, or a mantra, but in fact, this way of speaking, everyone doesn't like it.

Let's analyze why some people talk the way they do. The main reason is that you don't know yourself. There is a lot of pride in my heart:

We know that there is a saying that humility makes people progress, and pride makes people lag behind! There is also an old saying: there must be my teacher in a threesome.

Even if the person who said this is really a leader, then we judge that he does not know the way of humility. Let's look at the consequences of someone talking like that, as the saying goes; A word can prosper the country, and a word can destroy the country. It is said that the power of language is very great, if someone speaks in a condescending tone for a long time.

It will inevitably arouse everyone's dissatisfaction and disgust. It can even affect family life and other aspects.

The mantra thief Lala went to Yay. If you don't listen, you just have to get by. There is everyone in the world.

It can also be said to be normal. Just like people's various faults and shortcomings, they don't have anything wrong at all, let alone feel it, and they are all used to it. So if you think about it, you don't have to!

Only stay away!

When it comes to mantras, everyone is not indispensable. Usually play ** mantra is buddy, I sit in the east, please have a meal. But don't take it seriously, he's teasing you.

You know! The most offensive mantra is why didn't you say it earlier. The general idea is that things are over-bought, which is a common thing that people encounter.

Among the male friends I know, there are so many people who speak with a mantra, especially when they talk to the same sex, and their favorite mantra is "I rely on", almost every time I say a word, there will always be a mantra like this at the beginning, which is quite speechless! I just want to ask them, can't they talk well?

There is a father around him, and he scolds the country when he is angry, and he used to be too, but now he is working hard to improve his cultivation, and he basically doesn't have such a mantra anymore.

The people around me, whether they are family members, relatives, friends, or colleagues, are cultivated people, and they don't have serious mantras.

I'm also drunk, and I thought it was quite interesting when I heard this at first, but after a long time, I found that everyone said that I was drunk no matter what I did, and I was disgusted when I heard too much.

Every time I hear "I'm so straight, you take care of it." "I just want to slap me directly, and then say: I hit someone so painfully, you bear with it.

2. I said that I was not good, that was not good, it was modesty. You want to say that I'm not good, that's not good, it's looking for death.

3. Women, don't live like a cigarette, light you up when people are bored, and bounce you off after smoking, remember, you have to live like drugs, either you can't give up, or you can't afford to provoke you.

4. This is my temper. As long as others ignore me, I won't bother me anymore. Your attitude determines my attitude, and if you are silent to me, I will have to be indifferent to you.

5. If you are not satisfied with me, please come to me directly, don't go to others to vent your emotions that you have nowhere to place.

6. You never know how many versions you will have in other people's mouths, nor will you know what others have said to slander you in order to defend themselves, let alone stop those unrealistic gossip. And what you can do is ignore it, and there is no need to explain and clarify, people who understand you will always believe you. My favorite quote:

If you're not blind, don't know me from anyone's mouth.

7. You hate me about my, as if you can sublimate my life if you like me.

It is inevitable that there will be people in life who hate you, who love to laugh at you and belittle you. How to tell them to shut up with high emotional intelligence, I have the following suggestions:

First, ignore them. Picky people are usually looking for some kind of response. When you ignore them, they're likely to give up. You don't have to laugh at their jokes; You also don't have to defend yourself or respond.

Second, the unexpected. Someone who wants to be sarcastic about the way you dress will pretend to be sincere. When you hear an exaggerated tone say, "The clothes are so beautiful!" You can: "Thank you, I'm glad you liked it." "It forces people who hate us to say what they actually mean or to make concessions.

Third, be brief. "It's good that you make decisions for you, and I can make decisions for myself as well. If the roles were reversed, it would sound like we would both be unhappy. They left immediately.

Fourth, don't argue about the facts. When the people around you say: you are doomed.

Them: "yes, it probably won't work. But I love what I do and I learn a lot.

When you narrate the emotional reasons for doing something, people don't attack you in the chain.

Fifth, find a group. Nasty people, who want us to stay the same forever, even at the expense of our longevity. Go find a circle you like, for example, if you like to draw, go play with an illustrator; If you want to be an actor, go to a local club and learn improvisation.

One of my most hated phrases is "you can't".

A sentence you can't wrap up blindly contains endless irony and blows, for a student who believes in it, this sentence will give a heavy blow to self-confidence, enthusiasm is very important for a student, and the praise of others can give students great encouragement, more confidence in their own grades, and full of confidence in themselves.

For a person who is working, a sentence that you can't do contains all kinds of crises, the first time you enter the workplace, you lack social experience, and you are in a state of slow exploration, and your sentence of negation makes him full of uncertainty about the future, even more confused and overwhelmed, where should he go in the next life? Should I continue this job or not? Questions like these swirl through my mind, causing my melancholy to soar.

What is needed in this simple society is for everyone to encourage and help each other, not to fight each other, a little more warmth, less bad words, and the world will be more harmonious.

1. "Do you know?" I've been lying to you! ”

2. There was once a sincere love in front of me, I didn't cherish it, and I regretted it until I lost it, and the greatest pain in the world is nothing more than this. If God can give me a chance to start over, I will say three words to that girl, I love you. If I had to add a deadline before this relationship, I hoped, it would be 10,000 years ......

3. "If you don't have a dream, what's the difference between being a key seller and a salted fish?" ”

4. "You can't say that, a fire in my heart will not be extinguished!" ”

5, "Your Majesty, may I ask you, can you let the villain blindfold and then throw it?" ”

6. "Don't say so much, take the manuscript and only tease it out to see!" ”

7. "No, because the villain will faint when he sees blood!" ”

2.It's not because I hate a person's bits and pieces that Li Slag starts to hate ta, it's because I hate a person that I hate ta's bits and pieces, in a word, I hate every expression.

3.If someone is constantly antagonistic to you, then that person either likes you or hates you.

4.If you see a person clearly, why bother to expose it, hate a person, why turn your face, there are many people who are not used to it, just like others are not used to us.

5.Forgive me for being too clear about love and hate in this life. I hate a person who will hate it thoroughly, leaving no chance and. So thank you for showing up, please don't send it slowly.

6.Start hating a person for doing anything. It's not because I can't bear the loneliness, but because I'll always think about you. Today's class is over, so hungry. I want to hug you.

7.Speaking of which, there is no love without a reason in this world, and there is no hate without a reason. Like someone, because a little liking is enough, that point is what you want the most, hating someone, because a little bit of annoyance is just as enough, that point is what you dislike the most.

8.I already hate being so disgusted that I hear her voice, and hearing her laugh is as uncomfortable as hearing the sound of my fingernails scratching a blackboard.

9.Each of us is pursuing, but sometimes we don't find what we want in our lives, sometimes we find it and lose it, and life is hovering between gains and losses.

10.I like someone, I hate someone, my attitude is so direct. Sorry, I can't learn to pretend.

11.I hate a person, thinking that it will fade over time. But I've found that as soon as I get back in touch, I only get more annoying.

12.I hate waiting for someone the most, I can't wait to hurt myself, and I want to play ambiguous when I come to hurt.

13.There needs to be a balance between people, just as nature needs balance. People who don't respect other people's feelings will only end up being hated and hated by others.

14.I can be gentle with you, but you have to know a little bit of proportion.

15.Sometimes you don't get what you want most, and sometimes what you least expect happens. You meet thousands of people every day, and none of them really touch your heart, and then you meet one person, and your life changes forever.

16.I hate it when people lie to me, and I hate it when people abandon me.

17.I hate it when you talk to me and mention another person's name.

The statistics are as follows, and the top three are: "whatever" (I don't know) (swear words, and the fourth to tenth places are: "neurotic" or "sick", "isn't it?").

or "Really, fake?" ", "I'm dizzy", "depressed", "boring", "good", "boring".

Ask yourself, are you saying these mantras when you are communicating with others? In addition to these classic mantras, many buzzwords have also become people's mantras. In recent years, the most popular ones are "power", "magic horse", "floating clouds", "Yali Mountain", "envy, jealousy and hate", etc., these Internet buzzwords have also become a mantra for many young people.

Some say 10 sentences, including 8 "thens"; Some people seem to have never had a happy time, and they always talk about "pain" and "annoyance". Attentive netizens summed up the mantra of the United States ** Obama is "IMHO", and Kennedy's daughter said 142 "you know" in an interview with the New York Times. Regardless of whether you are rich or poor, or whether you have a high level of cultural literacy, mantras are like plasters stuck to people's mouths, and they can't be shaken off.

Actually, the original meaning of the mantra is a derogatory term. According to the analysis of experts, "mantra" originally referred to those monks who had not attained the Tao, and often put some mysterious and mysterious Zen words on their lips, pretending to be enlightened. It has evolved to this day, and it has become synonymous with personal idioms, as if it has been blurted out without the brain.

It is precisely because we have escaped the consciousness police that we can see the deep subconscious behind it, so some people call the mantra "Morse code of the mind". The formation of a mantra is related to the personality, but also to the environment and the people it comes into contact with.

What kind of mantra is also reflected in what kind of personality, through mantras and other ways to release and vent. Mantras such as "boring, boring, depressed" typically reflect this mentality. It is often said that Qingji is "almost spring" and "casual" people are mostly content with the status quo, lack assertiveness, and have unclear goals; Most people who often say "it is said", "maybe", and "forget it" have low self-confidence; People who say "look at me" and "no problem" are usually confident and willing to take responsibility.

Language is a product of society, and the bumpwords of society in a specific period can reflect the social status quo of a specific period and the social mentality of a group. It is advisable to say more positive mantras in your life.