Is there a time in your life where you feel like you can t hold on?

The most uncomfortable time is when a person is tired, no one hurts, there is a kind of tiredness is unimaginable tired, there is no monetary reward, no one cares, no material encouragement, a person is tired indescribable, especially a woman takes care of a family, and then the child will also have a surname with you, like an outsider, without the warmth of the family, then how can a tired word, sad in my heart, I dare not say to my mother's family when I leave my hometown, I dare not say to my mother's family, all kinds of contradictions in my mother-in-law's house can not be resolved, I am really tired, and the most annoying thing is to deceive people and things. I'm sad only tears know.

When people live in the world, they will have seven emotions and six desires, and they will have times when they are particularly happy and sad. There are different levels of happiness and sadness, and many things can make us particularly happy or very sad. I don't think there's anything that can be described in the most words.

There are many things that are sad, and sometimes they are largely undivided between happy and sad. What I feel sad about my life is that I failed the entrance exam, my relatives suffered from illness, and I faced some times that were important to me but I couldn't do anything. As long as it is not life and death, it will usher in a bright day in sad things.

Once had a very good friend. Our friendship is so good that we can't wait to wear a pair of pants, and we can't wait to be inseparable. Once, I took her to my aunt's house to play and met my cousin.

The two looked at each other and secretly had a relationship, and then she was late for menstruation, so she thought she was pregnant, and she was so frightened that she lost her claim, and went to discuss countermeasures with my cousin, and my cousin was at a loss, and he was getting colder and colder to her, and his friend couldn't think about it for a while, so he jumped into the river and committed suicide, but fortunately he was found and rescued. But this incident caused a bad discussion in the neighborhood, and her parents were ashamed, and led her to my house to "ask the teacher for sin", scolding me for bad intentions, bad intentions, pimping, all kinds of foul language, my God, I was a seventeen-year-old girl at that time, how could I bear such insults? What's even more sad is that my friends don't defend me.

At that time, I was really disheartened and wanted to die. For the first time in my life, I got myself drunk.

A person's life can be divided into childhood, youth, youth, middle age, and old age. In comparison, middle age is the most difficult, first of all, the children are older, the heart can't be finished, the sleep is not good, and you have to prevent your own body, plus there are old people who are tired to think about.

When you are most helpless, no one helps you, and no one comforts you, when they only look at jokes, I now understand what it is to join forces, what will be the consequences of a motivated person and an unmotivated person together, will only fall into the abyss, no return, their own personal feelings, even hatred has no strength, blame yourself for going the wrong way.

The real difficulty should be in old age, death is approaching little by little, and you have no countermeasures but to disarm and surrender. Shouting that every day should not be, shouting that the earth is not spiritual, this is the biggest helplessness and pain in life. Therefore, the struggle of youth and the pressure of middle age are not a problem.

The real problem, the real difficulty, is that the sun is setting, and it will never go back.

A person's life is like a fluctuating curve, you will never know when you are at your worst, and you will never know when you are at your peak. So, you have to ask when you are most down, maybe next time, or maybe now.

It is generally believed that it is the most difficult time for people to reach middle age, both old and young, and the turning point of a person's life is at this time. It is also the time when the burden is the heaviest, and the burden of the family has to bear the career (if there is a career), people will still be unwilling to fight when they reach middle age, and no matter how old they are, they will accept their fate. I accepted what life should be.

When I was 15 years old, my mother said, "Don't study." The task of providing my sister with a reading was handed over to you, and it was really a thunderbolt at that time. But there is no way, this is the fate.

And my husband is gambling, my son doesn't care, he doesn't care about business, and he doesn't go to class. Single-mindedly gambling money, without my son to give me warmth and support me to survive. Maybe I don't have me now, no matter how hard and tired my son is, I have to be strong, and I finally hope that my husband will wake up and change his mind.

When the strong hope in your heart is completely shattered and there is no end in sight, the meaning of life will be lost. This is probably the most disheartening time.

According to the normal understanding of most people, it is of course the most difficult for people to reach middle age, as everyone says, people reach middle age, there are old and young, this is a heavy responsibility. Actually, when it comes to responsibility, I don't think it's a big deal, as long as you work hard and solve economic problems, responsibility will be solved. I think the most difficult stage of life should be the twilight of people, everyone thinks, the elderly will have a lot of psychological burden:

......Fear of the end of life and worry about future generationsOften, the psychological burden is heavier than the financial burden. Therefore, as young people, we should fully understand our elders, do our best to comfort them, and give them the least psychological burden, so that our dearest and beloved elders can spend their old age happily and with relief.

Looking back, it seems that what I felt I couldn't hold at the time has survived since then. The people around me too, sometimes look at them as if they have fallen into some pit that they can't get out, but in the end they all come out, so people's potential is unlimited, you have to believe that as long as you live every day seriously and strive to make yourself happy, looking back may not be nothing.

I don't know how I survived, I look back and think about the days when I feel like I couldn't hold on to it stuck like paper, and suddenly half a month has passed, but this is not a cure. I think when I can't hold on, I make something simple and mechanical, because it's easy to stick to, and because I don't need to think about anything else, so I can hold on.

There was a painful time before, and I don't know how I survived, so I endured it and came over. The best way to adjust is to rely on yourself, try to enrich yourself, don't leave too much time to think about meaningless things, and take your time.

When I fall somewhere, I'll lie down somewhere. It's cool to lie down for a while, and it's cool to lie down all the time! If you believe that there is no way to be unequal, if it doesn't give you a way, there will be no way to be unparalleled!

Besides, you must be firm in your beliefs and stick to your dreams. You know, if people don't have dreams, what is the difference between being carefree and carefree, and finally, if you really feel that you can't hold on, you must establish an optimistic attitude. If you think about it, no matter what, no one can get out of this world alive.

Because I'm afraid of death, I'm trying to find a reason to live, I haven't eaten a lot of food, the world is very big I haven't seen it, my ** hasn't finished reading it, I haven't made my parents' life better, so many things haven't been done, so I have to hold on, for my own tomorrow, I can only continue to work hard.

It's just to keep telling myself that I have to get through, and I tell myself that everything is left to time. No matter how big it is, it won't be a matter in 10 years. Then I found someone to talk to, listened to my friends' encouragement and gave me strength, from not having the strength to get up, to opening the curtains, to going to an appointment for dinner, to going out and starting a normal life like a walking corpse, to numbness, to not being in pain, to burying in my heart, to not thinking about it often.

Of course, it's still sad to have occasional flashbacks now, but shake your head and get on with your life.

1. People are forced out.

Some people are not so far away, and if you work hard, you may be able to stand in the same position as them one day. "When we don't have more to do, we will find out how far away those stars, those celebrities are. I thought that all of them were because they were celebrities, but then through hard work, I found that I had slowly grown up, and those celebrities were not out of reach.

2. Successful people are often not too comfortable or too afraid, but are at ease.

Once you become a legend, you will be followed, but no one will care what happens in your middle. Ma Yun became the richest man, but Wang Jianlin immediately caught up. Maybe Xiaobai, you will say again, can we compare with Ma Yun and Wang Jianlin?

Then I'll tell you again, super class schedule. Founder, other people's families sell pork, and your family is farming, you have nothing to say, right?

3. Think about you in the next ten years, whether you will achieve something or nothing.

When you have already begun to doubt your efforts, have you ever imagined what your future self will be like? Is it silently bowing to fate and spending the rest of your life ordinarily, or proudly puffing up your chest and calmly recalling the past.

The future is the life that has not yet come, what you need is to keep working hard to create your own future. I don't want a life that looks to the bottom at a glance.

4. Choice is more important than hard work, when you have worked hard enough, whether the original choice is correct.

Have you ever thought about a question when you've tried hard enough? Whether it was the right choice in the first place. If it's not right, then give up decisively, and if it's right, then decisively persevere.

These words have really helped me for a many, long time, on the edge of the abyss of despair, there is nothing better than a scale, in the face of endless darkness, to examine your own behavior, to measure the correctness and consequences of this move with your heart, if there is no consequence that does not affect others, then you can jump down and fall into the abyss, but often lying under the abyss are the pathetic people who have given up, and then often stand on the edge of the abyss but stand up and walk forward, to fight against the unjust life, is a respectable warrior. Stand up and walk forward, people, rather than be warriors, rather than fall down as bears.

Cheer yourself up and get out for exercise.

Since you don't have the courage to die, let's live well!

If you can't go on, you can run down, and there is nothing you can't survive.

There's nothing you can't get through.

I think everyone will experience such a dark moment in their life, feeling that life is hopeless and there is no way out, but as the saying goes, "there is no way out of the mountains and rivers, and the willows and flowers are bright and another village".If you can't go down the road ahead, then be sure to turn at the intersection at the right time, maybe there is a scenery that belongs to you.

Throughout my school years, I worked hard and was admitted to my ideal school, but after graduating, it seemed that nothing was going well, and I really stuffed my teeth with cold water. Because the job was not confirmed, I left home alone and went to work in a strange city, because I was strong in my bones, and it was impossible to wait for my parents to support me at home. But at the moment of being unrelated, there was indeed some uneasiness and confusion, and the most difficult time was when I was about to pay the rent, there was no money left in my pocket, and I had not yet found a place to work, and I felt very helpless and desperate at that time.

But I was stubborn and refused to give my parents a **, I didn't want them to think that I couldn't do it.

So after eating instant noodles for a week, I decided to work as a waiter in a restaurant, although it was dirty and tiring, but this job did not require experience or anything. After all, people want to fill their stomachs, think about it, I have never worried about money before, but now it is difficult for a penny to be a hero. Because the hotel is for food and accommodation, my accommodation problem was solved.

After receiving a month's salary, I bought myself a beautiful dress, because I knew that if I wore too badly, it would really affect my image when I applied for a job. Maybe it worked, and I found a sales job that suited me. This work environment is clean, and the key is to exercise my ability.

It was a transition in the hotel that made my career turn around, and since then I have been doing better and better in the workplace, and I have encountered some difficulties in my later life, but I don't think it's really anything to me. I'm getting more and more adaptable. My heart is getting stronger and stronger, and it seems that nothing can defeat me anymore.

It's a bit ridiculous to say, but at this time last year, I thought about killing myself, and even walked to the roof and sat on the roof for a long time. Maybe it was because of cowardice, and finally walked down on his own. But after that time, although there were still many times when I felt that I couldn't hold on, I gritted my teeth and survived.

After that suicide attempt, I really began to feel that there is nothing in this world that cannot be solved. As long as you live, as long as you have this life, there are infinite possibilities.

This time last year, just a few months after I graduated, everything started to get hard because I was left alone in an unfamiliar city. During that time, there were a lot of problems at work, and my parents didn't understand that fighting ** was a quarrel, and the person I liked also returned to his city and had a new love, my best friend in college betrayed me because of interests, and everything came to me at once, and I really felt that I was abandoned by the whole world.

I remember very vividly that it was December 15th, because it was my birthday on the solar calendar. The rental house I live in is a five-story building, but because the villagers built it privately, the height is really high enough to kill a person. I even wrote a suicide note, and then ran to the rooftop alone to blow the cold wind.

Luckily, it was a sunny day, and there was an unexpected moon and stars in the sky. I wanted to die, but I calmed down when I looked at it, and then ran back by myself.

After I went back, there were more than a dozen missed ** on my phone, and it was the boy I liked who called, and he knew about me and my friend. A dozen missed and a text message, he saidDon't be afraid, hug, I'm here.

Just those few words are really powerful. The next morning he ran to my city and really hugged me.

So there are actually a lot of people in this world who love us, but everyone has a different way. If you really want to be loved, there's nothing about taking the initiative.