What should I do? and a friend s question .

Updated on psychology 2024-05-18
13 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Logically, you are not wrong, but morally, you have made a very serious mistake. It's painful to be betrayed by the people you trust the most. But her madness also shows that she cares about you very much, take the initiative, because from the perspective of friendship, this time it's yours or not.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I wonder if you explained it to her? Why on earth didn't you lend her phone?

    What tone did you use to speak to her?

    You care about her, and she cares about you.

    At this time, according to her character, find a reasonable way to apologize, and then talk together calmly, and make everything clear, I think, there is nothing that can't be solved.

    You said, she has done this more than once, so she should make it clear, otherwise she will have a next time.

    If you're a man, I think, she'll like you a lot

    Addendum: Write her a letter, tell her all your thoughts, and touch her with sincerity. Be sure to explain it clearly!

    But make it important to admit your own mistakes (you must have done something unreasonable, and even if you don't, you have to pick a bone out of the egg!). Instead of saying that she is wrong (even if she is more wrong), because it is you who want to reconcile.

    As for whose fault it is, reconciliation can be said slowly.

    I don't think she should ignore you, in fact, she should be angry with you.

    If she really ignores you, it doesn't matter, you've done your best, and you've admitted your mistakes.

    You can stop caring about her (even if you don't want to, you can't go hungry).

    There is no perfect way to deal with it, but as long as you do your best and don't regret it, you'll be fine!!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It's not for the sake of points, it's just for you to refer to! In fact, life is like this, there is no right or wrong, what you think is wrong is right, what you think is right is wrong! It's okay to think about it, if I were a ta, I might think the same way as ta!

    Therefore, it is not necessary to forgive others appropriately, and forgiving others will also increase your own perseverance! Both are mutually beneficial! Haha, hope it helps!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I think she's in love with you!! The reason she's angry is because she thinks you don't care about her! Maybe maybe she cares too much about you as a friend!

    If you want me to say, if she says to reconcile with you, she will agree, and don't give up this precious friendship because of the impulse! Think about your experience together, if you really ignore her in the future, do you feel comfortable!

    Sometimes it's okay to be humble to a friend, friend, and it's hard to find a good friend!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Seeing that people write so much is generally like this.

    But I've been in a situation where a friend deliberately finds fault and you "unintentionally" refuses, and she loses her temper and throws things, and then ignores you in the future.

    This friend of mine did it on purpose, because he saw that you were annoyed, and there was no reason not to play with you, so he deliberately found fault, and then you couldn't get off the stage, and ignored you, no matter how much you apologized, said sorry, and went to play with someone else.

    It's just one of the things I've experienced, and my friend is a very shrewd and scheming girl (just a few people) and the landlord can refer to it when I talk about it casually.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I don't think she's right! But the girl loves face, you should apologize to him!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Didn't you say it, you will be punished if you don't finish writing, it makes no difference if you see death or not. If you think about it from her perspective, you wouldn't say that.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    She thinks of you first when she needs help.

    And you didn't give her the help she wanted.

    I think most of the fault lies with you.

    Because it's not particularly important for you to use your phone, you say no.

    Of course, her approach is a bit extreme.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You said you didn't want to pay attention to her, and you said something else.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Dealing with the relationship between friends is really a very important thing, there are not many good friends, sincerity is enough.

    First of all, don't think that the closest person is the best friend, because distance can produce another kind of beauty, and secondly, leave a friend's private space, don't know that you are good friends and can do whatever you want.

    Third, it's best not to have an interest relationship with your friends, and if you do, you should also be clear about money, and your own brothers will also settle accounts.

    Fourth, you must treat your friends with sincerity and never take advantage of the friends around you, because everyone is smart.

    I hope you can take care of your friends!!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Whenever you encounter difficulties and happiness, the first person you think of, and he can help you in all aspects, even if he can't, he has this heart, can comfort you, he thinks of you when he has difficulties and happiness, and shares with you, there is no secret between you and him, he will never betray you, and the person who always thinks about the problem from your point of view can give you the truest friendship. This is your best friend, on the contrary, he does the same to you, and it can be kept for the rest of your life.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Wealth is not a lifelong friend, but a friend is a lifelong wealth Heng Minfan!

    Because there are a lot of ordinary friends, and they come and go quickly. Only mutual appreciation, mutual understanding, mutual tolerance, mutual support, honesty, affection and righteousness, mutual tolerance and no exclusive friends are the greatest assets in your life!

    It is only after you get it that you sublimate, grow and develop! (despise plagiarism of my own answers).

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Only when you really put your truest and best side to others, others will take you seriously, and you can't blindly avoid it, so that others may dislike you, and you can't make everyone like you, at least most people think you're better.

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