If people are not married in middle age, is this a shame for their parents?

Personally, I think this is really a cognitive problem, who stipulates that people must get married when they reach middle age? You have to get married after the age of 30, or you have to get married after the age of 40. Marriage and love itself is a very private matter, even if we don't get married for the rest of our lives, we won't lose face to our parents, this is just a way of life we choose, as long as we can bear the consequences of our choice, then no one should blame our choice.

It is undeniable that the elderly have their own unique way of thinking, and they also have a different worldview from young people, but if we are really not married in middle age, I will choose to talk to our parents about this issue first. Instead of taking an evasive approach, first explain to your parents whether you really want to live alone for the rest of your life, or just that you haven't found a suitable partner at this age, and explain this problem clearly to your parents, in fact, you can solve a lot of confusion of your parents, and we should win the support and understanding of your parents.

Remember, and it's very important in life, that we must have our own opinions when it comes to choosing our lifestyle. Whether we choose to be single for a lifetime, or we choose to find the other half who is ultimately suitable for us in the vast sea of people, we must have this kind of confidence that this is our own business and has nothing to do with others, then we will not have that kind of fear of others looking down on the emotion, in this world, everyone is really busy with their own affairs, and no one will take the time to care whether we are single or not.

There is no shame in being single, it is not terrible to be single, and being single does not make others look down on it, because it is just a way of life that we choose for ourselves. We try to make it clear to our parents that we don't have the approval of our parents, so what is it? Everyone has their own life, as long as we don't disturb others, then let's enjoy this single life, isn't this also a good choice?

This is not a shame for your parents, if you get married alone, you have to find the right person, otherwise you will not be happy, and your marriage will not be fruitful.

I don't think there's anything to be ashamed of, marriage is a lifelong thing after all, and some people just haven't met in the first half of their lives, and they like themselves or the people they like.

As a normal person, we are eager for a double harvest in our family and career, and our parents raised us in the hope that we can be as happy as possible, and when we are middle-aged and unmarried, the concept of the older generation is not agreed, and it will be incomprehensible by others, and the parents will feel a little embarrassed, but if you are very good and give up marriage for the country and family, then they will feel more proud.

I think Dad's words are a bit heavy, a little hurtful to people's self-esteem, but Dad is also anxious with you, middle-aged and unmarried, Dad must be in a hurry, but it's useless to be anxious, it still depends on your attitude towards marriage.

Because all parents hope that their children will start a family as soon as possible, so that the elderly can rest assured, so they must understand the elderly and tolerate the elderly.

In fact, the old man shouldn't say this about you, maybe your old man is an acute person, and your character doesn't want him. Saying such things hurts others and hurts oneself, and it is not beneficial to anyone.

Your dad's words are a bit heavy. It's a bit ugly. But you are already middle-aged and have not yet married, and the old man must be very anxious. That's why I say that about you. You should understand the mood of the elderly.

Because parents are the best teachers of their children, many times their words and deeds can affect their children, so as a married adult, you should manage your marriage well and set a good example for your children.

Modern young people are less and less aware of marriage, some of them are not married due to objective factors such as economic factors, and some are not married due to subjective factors such as self-confidence and knowledge factors. A friend of mine once said that she was afraid to get married because she didn't want to be a woman like her mother and she was tired. Big and small things in the family are managed by one woman.

She was also afraid to find a man like her father, who was selfish. He only cared about his profession and did not do a good job as a husband and father. This is also one of the reasons why we hear a lot of unmarried or hesitant to be unmarried, and a lot of times, you will hear people say that the reason I don't get married is that I don't want to be a woman like my mother, or I don't want to look for a woman who misses my mother, or I want to be an irresponsible person like my father.

Many times, parents' words and actions affect the healthy development of their children, and many parents think that their children are too young to understand those feelings. It is true that it is difficult for children to establish correct values and views of love at an early age, but children will judge their marriage or emotional style based on the way their parents are married. A child, the first of the opposite sex is the father, and the first marriage model is the marriage model of the parents, therefore, in their inherent conception, they will subconsciously copy the marriage of their parents, and when they grow up, they will also know to copy the marriage model of their parents.

If the parents are unhappy in their marriage, then most of the children will be copied. Therefore, those who are parents but do not care about marriage, do not think that the child knows nothing, in fact, the child knows everything. An unhappy marriage can also have a very serious impact on the children, and when you get married, you have to learn to maintain the marriage and learn how to manage it well.

Because they see the unhappiness of their parents' marriage, they feel that they will be like this if they enter marriage, and they will fear marriage.

Because of the parents of some young people, the marriage is particularly bumpy. will leave an indelible psychological shadow on them. That's why there is such a saying.

Because the marital status of the parents will have some impact on the children, if the parents always have conflicts, it will naturally cause psychological shadows to the children, so the marriage of the parents will directly affect the children.

Because the family environment really affects a person's life, a child who grows up in a happy family, they will naturally believe in love and look forward to a good life, if the parents' marriage is originally unhappy, they will not believe in love from the heart.