Someone who has speaking experience comes in, my speaking experience

Hello! I might be able to help you.

The following issues need to be paid attention to when speaking:

1.Your own identity: design a speech that is consistent with your identity; When giving a speech, you should wear good clothing (must be decent) [if you are in front of the leader or in a meeting, don't steal the limelight from the leader];

2.Pay attention to the composition of the audience when giving a speech: if the level of education of the audience is generally not very high, do not have a large number of them, so as not to make the audience disgusted with you; If the level of education of the audience is comparable to yours, you can do your best;

If the audience is an elder and a leader, it should be modest and formal; If the audience is a junior, a junior, you can be appropriately humorous.

3.Be aware of the weather: if it's a sunny day, you can have a longer presentation. If it's winter and it's outdoors or there's no heating, it's appropriate to keep it brief.

4.Pay attention to the occasion: If you don't have amplification equipment and you are outdoors, you should increase the volume appropriately.

5.Others: 1) The eyes should communicate with the audience (do not stare at a certain person or a certain part of the people, it is important to take care of the whole audience).

2) It is best to have a strong voice (if it is a sad theme, it is best to have a choked tone, a sheep can arouse the feelings of the audience, and if the effect is good, it can make the audience cry and listen).

3) It's better to add some gestures (so that it looks natural).

4) Be yourself and yourself.

5) Pay attention to your feelings (when it comes to the funny part, don't laugh until the audience laughs).

6) Pay attention to some emergencies to avoid embarrassment on the spot (stay away from the microphone when there is a "microphone spraying" phenomenon; If the pitch is not quiet, you can step back and start or tell a joke related to the topic to attract the audience's attention. ）

7) If it's a speech contest and the opponent is on par with you, consider using a newer format that can be refreshing (but risky).

The question you mentioned is good, it seems that you have done a lot of research and you are also a person who strives for excellence. However, you raised the problem with the presentation. Personally, I don't think there is a right answer, and this belongs to personal ability, not knowledge.

I guess what you want is to be able to perform well in your presentations, not just know how to do it. There are far more people who know, understand, and understand something than people who can do it. If you are interested, you can talk to me, my teacher is the No. 1 coach of speech in China

I just finished listening to the voice, I listened to it twice, I listened to half of it last night, and I just finished listening to the second half of the content.

I'm a play-on speaker because I don't know how to write in advance, I just make a draft in my head and go straight to the stage to speak and show myself.

Once, on my grandfather's 80th birthday, as the host, I was pushed up to face dozens of unfamiliar relatives below, and directly presided over it, and the final effect was quite good, and I won the unanimous praise of those relatives - this is an opportunity for a group speech.

The second time was when I participated in the 7-day hotel manager training in Guangzhou, I wanted to show myself, so I went to the stage to give a speech in order to be able to compete for the squad leader, because the squad leader could directly pass the final store manager training assessment.

Therefore, I made an impromptu speech on the stage in front of more than 200 people in the audience, although I was not elected as the president in the end, but the effect was still good, and it was recognized by many people.

The third time was when I participated in the store manager study in Jinan, and the final assessment was to speak PPT on stage, because as a store manager, this is the basic quality that must be had, in the face of seven or eight senior old store managers and district presidents in the audience, I also did not write a manuscript directly - this is the experience of the third speech, before the time in Guangzhou, because Jinan passed the assessment to have the opportunity to go to Guangzhou to participate in training.

That's how I've been to the talks a few times, so I have the quality to go to "Super Speaker" and "Wonderful Talk" as well.

I just finished listening to the voice sharing, and it said that I usually have more opportunities to participate in such speeches, and I can make money from it.

But in daily life, how do you go about attending more lectures? Are there any channels to participate in these activities more often, and also monetize as a side hustle to make money?

Because in life, for example, I am an ordinary person with no achievements, unlike Dapeng who is the CEO, so I have such an opportunity to share more, and I, an ordinary worker at the bottom, no one wants to ask me to give a speech to share - so I want to ask if there is any way or channel for this matter?

At the end of the voice sharing, he said that if he usually has no opportunity, he should participate in more speech sharing opportunities on the Internet and in the community to exercise his speech ability - I am also operating in this situation, for example, when I used to shoot Douyin, I didn't write a script, just said it directly, and I thought about how to say it in my head, what I wanted to say, and it was okay.

For example, in the sharing of the text version in the group, I am often active and talking in various groups, for example, I have not written a manuscript now, I come directly, and what I think in my head is how to write. So I just want to ask, in the case of offline public speeches, what opportunities or channels and ways do ordinary people usually have to participate in such speeches and sharing?

In such a large-scale embarrassing scene as Bi Kuan, in the process of speaking in public, I said the wrong order of the sentences due to excessive nervousness, and ended up giving a big joke. Therefore, we must pay attention to learning more with professional teachers, master the correct way of speech and communication with others, so that our language expression will be clearer and smoother, and it is important to pay attention to the correct way of communication. 1.

Learn to empathize, be a person and do things, we should learn to empathize, consider the problem from the position of the opponent, and we can understand each other more, when we all know how to empathize, our tolerance will be effectively improved, and the chat will become more pleasant and efficient. 2.Talk about topics that the other person is interested inWhen you communicate with others, you should talk about the topics that the other person is interested in, which is also the common language we often say.

3.Learn to praise others from the bottom of your heart, people with wisdom must learn to praise others from the bottom of your heart, and it can only be unwise to oppose others, even if you don't agree with other people's views, but it's best not to say it in public right away, if it's not a very important thing, you can also don't say it, learn to praise others from the bottom of your heart, and communication will be smoother and happier. 4.

Learn to listen to other people's opinionsEveryone has the idea to express, when you meet others who need to express the content, you can learn to listen, remember that when you learn to listen, you will become more and more wise, and will be liked by more and more people, pay attention to what others say, listen to others' words attentively, communication will become smoother, and we will know how to respect others. 5.When we have a good suggestion, we should first recognize the other party's point of view before putting forward any reasonable suggestions, and use euphemistic suggestions to achieve good communication results, and communication will be smoother and more efficient.

I understand that you should be talking about yourself, such as when you arrive in a new environment, everyone can simply talk about themselves. If that's the case, be as concise as possible, with only two goals, one is to try to get people to remember your name; The second is to leave a good impression. You can say, hello everyone, my name is so-and-so, and my mom gave me this name probably to make me feel good (try to be humorous, or just say it, my mom told me that the name was given by the phone bill.

Where I come from, what kind of girl or boy I have? I am very willing to integrate into this new family, and I believe that we will gradually become good friends.

OK, then a smile, clean, and that's it.

Seeing this question, share a piece of knowledge you learned in the Peace of Heart Leadership Speaking course.

Most speakers are afraid of not speaking well, afraid of being laughed at after speaking, afraid of making a fool of themselves, afraid of not getting everyone's affirmative ......

What are these mindsets? We can call it the mindset of taking. For the speaker, it's an incorrect state of mind.

For those who have a desire for the heart, what you say will not be the most important part from the heart. You have a sense of vanity and put pressure on you to give a good presentation no matter what. You have a lot of pressure and you have to speak well in order for the audience to praise you and praise you.

Speeches don't have to be good, but what you say has to be useful to others. The correct speaking mindset is: sharing.

It's like if you have 10 pieces of candy and give 1 to each of the 10 audience members in the audience, is everyone happy? But if you ask 10 audience members for 1 candy each, will it be very nervous? Which mindset is more relaxed when you have candy for others and when you ask for candy from others?

Undoubtedly, of course it is easier when giving to others!

As a speaker, you should always pay attention to the state of the audience when standing on the podium.

I remember that in Xinhe's leader speech class, Mr. Sun Jian once gave us an analysis about the reception of the audience. Every speaker wants his speech to be persuasive and powerful. If the speaker can think and analyze the problem from the perspective of the audience, then such a speech is often more convincing with emotion and reason.

In the speech, the speaker envisions himself in the position or situation of the audience, and satisfies the psychological needs of the audience to the greatest extent, so that the speaker and the audience are psychologically compatible, so that their speech can be listened to and accepted by the audience.

This is a point to note, and I hope you find this sharing helpful.