Nowadays, the college student s view of love, put forward your point of view

Know what kind of love is the most beautiful. Is it the unswerving love of the hand of the son and the love of the son growing old together, or the love that was once vigorous, experienced ups and downs, and finally came together? Along the way, I have seen so many people experience love, pass by love, enjoy love, and escape love.

only to find that there is a kind of love that can't stand waiting, and there is a kind of love that can't stand hurt. I remember when I first started to know how to love, I liked to ask with my face up": How long will you love me?

He would fondly hold my face and gently touch the tip of my nose to tell me"I'm going to love you for a long time, a long time"Then I went ahead and asked:"How long is it? "He would still tell me like a child"A long time is a long time, a long time, a long time"The memories are beautiful.

I knew that at that time, we were really loving each other with our hearts, and everything about each other was so precious. I believe that we have really loved, cared for each other, and missed each other, but love cannot withstand harm. When everything happens, it is so sudden, all the sweetness is gone, and all that wins is pain, just hate, just blank.

Slowly began to learn to protect themselves, learn to interpret love, and found that love could not withstand harm. I know very well in my heart that once you give sincerely, the more you give, the more you will be hurt, and you must be hurt. So learn to face everything calmly, learn to ignore, and learn to love yourself.

I don't ask": How long will you love me? "Because I have found that love can never stand up to waiting, it can't stand hurting. But I still forgot my original intention when I risked falling into a relationship, I learned not to care, but I learned to protect myself. I was still afraid of giving, I was afraid of hurting, and I found that I didn't understand what love was.

If you don't love anymore, then I will leave, after all, there is a love that can't stand waiting and can't stand hurting.

I like to be with you Even if I look at each other silently like this One look is enough for me to understand your mind I like to be with you Even if I don't say a word One of your expressions also makes me happy from the bottom of my heart I like to be with you Even if my eyes don't look at you Feel the beating of your heart with my heart That's the tacit understanding of our hearts Like to be with you Gently hold your hand Spread the warm affection in my heart to you and my heart I like to be with you Look at Sunset's blushing smiling face It's like when I first asked you The flush on your face I still can't forget I like to be with you Ride to the stream in the suburbs Listen to the frogs sing and harmonize Just like you and I play unrestrainedly I like to be with you Climb to the top of the building on a summer night Count the stars in the sky Which one is me and which one is you.

One. College students are adults, physiological and psychological maturity, although they are still studying, but the budding of youth is increasingly yearning for the opposite sex, opposites attract, logically, at the right time, the right environment to meet the opposite sex, in love, happy mood, more can enhance physical and mental health, improve the interest in learning.

Two. What is the most important thing in a person's life? Different people have different answers.

From the perspective of an ordinary person, in a person's life, love is the most important, family is the most important, and career is second. Only with love can a family be further established. A happy family life can be more conducive to the development of a career.

During college, boys and girls are in the same class, a school, get along day and night, understand each other, enjoy each other, develop into love, talk about a vigorous love, and add a sweetness and brilliance to their lives. If you say that college students who don't fall in love in college, their IQ is definitely fine, but their EQ may be flawed. Some people say that college students fall in love and delay their studies.

Some people also say that college students have a low success rate in falling in love at school, and when they graduate, Lao Yan will fly separately and hurt their feelings. But in reality, how many college students can't get a graduation certificate because they fall in love? Even if some of them will fly separately and scatter the mandarin ducks after graduation, they have at least experienced love and gained experience.

But after a lot of Lao Yan flew apart, after a period of time, Cupid's golden arrow pulled the two together again.

Three. Don't fall in love in college, when you go to work, many people are already twenty-four or five, you must be familiar with the environment at work, familiar with work, and integrate into a certain industry, and wait for everything to stabilize, let alone a year and a half, and so on feel that you are not young, it's time to fall in love, and find that it is difficult to find a suitable partner around. Now the so-called leftover men and women who are older are not all busy with their studies first, and then busy with their careers, but when they want to fall in love, they find that the daylily is cold.

Four. Some people may say that the career is the mainstay, and when the career is successful, what kind of lover will be found? This is true.

Yang Zhenning, Lu Xun's wife is indeed many, much smaller, but how many people can reach that height? There are too few successful people, and too many ordinary people. Besides, a successful man can hold a girl's hand, and how many successful women can join forces with a young man?

Therefore, I am very much in favor of college students falling in love while they are in school. Even if you don't get married, you can enjoy the sweetness of love and enrich your life experience.

I don't think it's good for college students to fall in love, even though they are adults, but they are still consumers.

It should be supported, the age is enough, even if it is simple, but you can also fall in love.

Some people say that the love of college students is the purest and most beautiful, and some people say that the love of college students is unreliable. Everyone has a unique perspective on the matter. I'm going to share my thoughts with you.

It's very encouraging to meet the person you like and fall in love in college. There are not so many realistic factors in campus life, and the feelings at that time are very pure and beautiful. Even if we can't be together in the future, it's a great joy in life to experience it.

I don't mean to separate you, but to bless you! ）

Although the time in college is encouraged to fall in love, it is mainly in their own efforts. Boys and girls, don't completely lose yourself in a relationship. Losing the direction of youth struggle for the sake of a love is definitely not worth the loss.

Among the friends around me, there are almost few who don't fall in love, from fast food to school uniforms to wedding dresses. I've seen counselors match relationships between students, and I've seen attitudes. Teachers who don't support students in love.

In a lesson taught by our college English teacher, college is a must be in love, only if you have loved, you know what love is, how to love, how to make love grow, how to make yourself grow, when you have a significant other, your emotional intelligence will improve unconsciously, and all aspects will promote each other's growth and maturity.

As long as two people have a good relationship, it's true, don't care about other people's opinions, how difficult it is to meet someone who truly loves you in the vast sea of people. Don't give up on each other so easily, and the two of you together have a common goal to strive for, and promote the progress of both parties. So do it and cherish it!

Of course, the elective course of love has to be fateful. Sometimes you want to choose, but fate may not arrive, as if the course selection has been squeezed out; Some people don't want to choose it, but they turn their heads and look at it, they have confirmed that they are the people who are excited, as if everything has changed, and rewrote Mr. Qian Zhongshu's famous sentence to confess: Before I met you, I didn't think about falling in love.

After I met you, I didn't think about anyone else when I fell in love.

Good and bad are relative. Everyone is affected differently, for example, some people fall in love, and the effect is positive, making them better. However, some people fall in love, which only has a negative effect, neither progress, but also regresses.

That's relative. So we have to look at love dialectically. Here are some tips for falling in love in college!

1.Don't fall in love with the brain. What is the love brain?

To put it simply, after a person falls in love, he only has the other party in his heart, and there is nothing else, or his concentration on other things is greatly reduced, and everything is object-centered, which is the love brain. What I want to say is that college students should have an independent soul, not that falling in love means that they must always be attached to each other, in addition to the object you have many things, so, refuse to fall in love!

2.Don't expect too much from the other person. In love, many people will have the idea that the other party is so good, he is so good, and he can do anything.

no！Fade the aura of love, everyone is an ordinary person. So don't be disappointed thinking that he didn't live up to your expectations.

And when the boy is vulnerable, the girl should learn to accommodate and don't always think about letting him accommodate your temper.

3.Communicate often:In the process of getting along with two people.

Communication is very important. Many couples do not come together in the end because of poor communication. Not saying a word only creates a divide.

I don't want to ask if you don't explain, so I secretly wonder if he doesn't love me anymore, why is it like this! What does she mean by this move today, don't you love it? Contradictions like these arise, and then the contradictions begin to accumulate little by little.

Until one day, a small thing happens, it is the fuse, and then all the accumulation explodes, and the relationship between the two people is coming to an end.

Finally, I hope you will harvest a beautiful and meaningful love, and I believe that there are lovers in the world who will eventually become married

Views on college students' love.

I agree with college students falling in love.

First of all, college is not as stressful as middle school, college students are no longer simply just good at studying, we should also begin to understand an internal motivation factor that allows human beings to survive - love while receiving knowledge and learning to be independent. It is a relationship that is different from family and friendship, and it has a special magic that can fill a broken heart. If the college love is handled well, then he will be your partner in life, the driving force for learning, and the two of you can encourage and promote each other.

In addition, the age of college students is generally around 20 years old, and the physical development of young people at this age basically tends to mature, and with the secretion of hormones, the relationship between the opposite sex is attracted, and it is easy to arouse the desire to fall in love. At the same time, the legal age of marriage in China is 22 years old for men and 20 years old for girls.

A lot of college students have reached this age. Therefore, college students falling in love is an objective need for physical and psychological development, which is understandable, and should not be regarded as a flood beast, but should be viewed calmly and objectively.

Secondly, the campus is not as pure as the society, and the love in the university is still relatively pure, and we can experience love, learn love and understand love well in the university. In the current social living environment, material satisfaction is often the primary task, and love only plays an auxiliary role, so the reason for falling in love together in society is often because it is suitable rather than love. However, the four years of college are the connection between the school and the society, but they have not yet officially stepped into the society, so the love of college students does not have so much money, material fame and fortune, we can open our hearts to love, to accumulate love experience, to find the right person in life.

Four years, we have enough time to learn to tolerate, learn to understand, and cultivate the best version of ourselves to the people we love the most. Therefore, fading away from the glitz of the world, a vigorous love, even if there is no fate in the end, we have no regrets in this life because of love.

Of course, although I agree with college love, it is not a love that does whatever it wants. What I advocate is high-quality love, love is different due to the different realm of the parties, if you are just addicted to the love of this kind of relationship, I think it is okay not to talk about it, waste money, waste time, waste of feelings and waste of youth, at the age of college can be said to be the foundation for a lifetime of happiness, we should promote each other through love, encourage each other. In addition, I firmly oppose the deviant behavior between student couples, and when each other does not fully understand the responsibility and responsibility, do not promise some unsafe words, let alone use the ethereal future as a bargaining chip.

Finally, I want to say that college love lies in refinement rather than many, so think twice before acting, if you think it's inappropriate, it's okay to be alone.

I'm a junior in college, and I have the following views on college students falling in love:

1. There is no right or wrong in falling in love.

In fact, there are many questions about "can college students fall in love" and "is it right or wrong for college students to fall in love".

In fact, in my opinion, there is no right or wrong for college students to fall in love, college is different from high school and junior high school, and we are still young in junior high school, and we can't understand or control our thoughts.

In high school, we couldn't fall in love because of the pressure of complicated homework and exams.

I think it's understandable to fall in love in college, first, college has reached the age where we can fall in love, and college provides more space for us to socialize or cultivate our feelings.

Before we entered the society, college was the only time we had left to spend freely.

There are many people's regrets that they didn't fall in love in college, and the love in the student days was beautiful, and when we really went to work, we didn't have much time to cultivate feelings.

So I felt the need to have a relationship in college!

2. Fall in love correctly.

There is a lot of news about the romantic relationships between college students and men, and some of them have spent all their money for each other.

There are also people who have miscarriages for each other.

Some people fall into a point of no return because they are in love.

All these negative news show us that today's college students still can't handle their romantic relationships perfectly.

College students must establish a correct outlook on love and the world when they fall in love, pay attention to protecting themselves, and don't hurt themselves for some unworthy people.

Resolutely abandon the behavior of the love brain, reasonably summarize and improve your love, falling in love is a matter for both parties, and we are all responsible for each other.

3. Learn to fall in love.

In my opinion, falling in love is a pair of like-minded people, or people who can spark together, live and learn together.

When we are in love, we should pay attention to communicating with our other half, communicating and expressing our feelings.

Improve our understanding of each other, and let them know ourselves better.

In this way, love can last a long time.

4. Be sensible in love.

We are already college students, we have our own independent thinking and ideas, and falling in love is just for us to find a person to rely on, a partner to share, and someone to accompany us.

Don't take the matter of falling in love too seriously, our more important task is to improve ourselves, develop ourselves, and achieve a better version of ourselves.

If you find that your relationship has seriously affected your life or the other person's life, you must remember to break off as soon as possible, make a trade-off in time, and don't make yourself sad.

In the end, all the girls and boys of the home team said: If you like ta, you must love ta, don't hurt ta, don't hurt yourself!!