What are the characteristics of college students concept of love?

1. Compared with the previous 20 years of college students, today's college students pay more attention to the immediacy of love, and regard love as an independent life task rather than a long-term life goal such as marriage. The diversification of love is accompanied by the development of the Internet, which makes college student love no longer so serious and sacred. 2. Simply most students fall in love like the heroes and heroines in Qiong Yao's pen, there is no pressure of real life, and the first priority of men and women is to fall in love seriously.

And love is never separated from the solid earth, and love that is divorced from real life is easy to "see the light and die". 3. Spiritual characteristics dominate college students' choice of lovers, and they pay more attention to mutual recognition at the spiritual level, and the material exchange and peer-to-peer in secular life will not affect college students; College students even pursue pure love once. 4. Natural and casual college students believe more in fate, and when faced with unexplained emotional entanglements, students will explain the changes in emotions with fate.

5. Rationality and sensibility coexist, and college students have both emotional impulses and rational thinking when choosing their lovers. Think more about whether the two parties are suitable for each other, and put the feeling of being very happy together in the top of the list. However, planning for the future life is not mentally prepared, and it is often difficult to pass the test of reality when faced with major life issues such as career choices.

College students generally fall in love for the first time, so they don't think about it in the future, they only know that the two are very good together. Therefore, many people encounter practical problems after graduation and break up.

Make progress together, have a correct view of love, be simple, have foresight, love more while you are young, and tolerate each other more.

1. Strong autonomy.

College students have outstanding personalities, heavy feelings, and are easily impulsive, and are not limited by traditional customs, and generally do not seek the opinions of both parents before or even after determining the relationship.

2. The motivation for love is simple.

Many college students do not think too much about whether they can come together in the future, and they are not clearly and consciously aware that they should choose a lifelong partner, they value the process of falling in love, they fall in love because they need to love and be loved, and they are mostly out of instinctive love and attraction. There are also some college students who fall in love out of conformity or vanity, and regard love as a means to enrich their extracurricular life, relieve loneliness, and fill the emptiness. Lack of deep awareness of feelings.

3. Weak self-control and frustration resistance.

Once a female college student falls in love, she is not often good at controlling her emotions, allowing her feelings to indulge at will, lacking the ability to control reasonably, relying too much on her love partner, and being extremely painful at the slightest twist and turn. Once the relationship is frustrated, it will lose control of emotions and be unable to extricate itself, which will have a serious impact on learning. Due to the lack of mature experience in getting along, many college students cannot accommodate each other and cannot deal with various problems encountered in the process of love calmly and rationally.

It can be seen that correcting the relationship between study and love and correctly handling the problems encountered in the relationship are problems that college students in love urgently need to learn and face rationally. 4. Love shows immaturity and instability At present, the love of college students is showing a lower grade, and the number of people is on the rise. It is not an isolated phenomenon that students start falling in love in the first grade, and some students even fall in love as soon as they enter school.

Due to their shallow social experience and simple thinking, many of these junior students do not have a clear concept of their life goals and needs, resulting in simple, naïve and immature treatment of love issues. In terms of mate selection criteria, the appearance is often emphasized and the inside is neglected. In the way of love, it is often important to focus on form and light on content.

In love behavior, the process is often emphasized over the result; Emphasis on pleasure, light on responsibility. This kind of immaturity in love problems, coupled with the fact that they are not financially independent during school, their feelings and thoughts are volatile in the process of falling in love, and they lack the ability to properly deal with emotional entanglements in love, which can easily cause periodic interruptions in love, or drifting in the choice of love partners, and the success rate of love is very low. Most college students treat the problem of falling out of love through "talking to friends" or "rational thinking", adopt a tolerant attitude towards themselves and each other, and respect each other's choices.

However, there are still some students who can't get rid of the "emotional crisis", and some lose confidence and give up the pursuit of love; Some are sluggish, self-defeating, and think that everything has lost its meaning; Some regard each other as enemies, wantonly slander, and even do extreme acts to hurt each other. Therefore, college students need to understand some common sense of love and learn to face their emotional problems with a mature attitude. Most of the contemporary college students are post-00s, and their view of love is completely different from that of the previous generation.

Falling in love is a social activity, which is the process of cultivating love or mutual interaction on the basis of love, mainly the exchange and communication between the two parties. Generally speaking, if you are in sincere contact, support each other, make progress together, and achieve each other. It is very normal for college students to fall in love, and college students fall in love with the following characteristics:

1.Romantic.

Contemporary college students are full of hope and pursuit for the future, and their love on campus has more romantic colors, emphasizing spiritual elements such as ideals, quality, and character, and yearning for the ideal love of literature and art.

2.Variability.

College students have shallow social experience and are in the budding period of youth, most of them are impulsive in love, not good at dealing with entanglements in love, and have large emotional fluctuations, resulting in their love being changeable.

3.Tolerance.

The love life of college students must also develop within a certain moral range, premarital sex is a more sensitive part of the moral values of marriage and love, and the survey shows that college students have a high tolerance for premarital sex, and most of them say that it is normal behavior that is blameless or understandable.

Most of the current college students' view of love is not a way of getting along with each other for the purpose of marriage, and the starting point of their love is mainly emotional sustenance; Secondly, the way college students treat love is bold and straightforward, and dares to say and act, which is mainly manifested in daring to express themselves and not passively waiting; In addition, due to the different levels of social experience and the single focus of thought, many students do not have a clear concept of their life goals and current needs, resulting in simple, naïve, immature and stubborn treatment of love issues.

The psychology of love is a compulsory course in life; In the process of getting along with the opposite sex, couples will inevitably quarrel and have cold wars. And most boys don't take the initiative to understand what to do with the cold war between couples. Boys should learn to solve the problems of the Cold War, be silent when they are not adjustable, never verbally abusive, take the initiative to recognize their mistakes, and seek peaceful communication.

Girls should also calm down and look for the root cause of the problem, and they can also eliminate difficulties by eating.

3.Falling in love in college also has its own benefits. Romantic relationships in college can increase our awareness of responsibilities and motivate each other to progress together during the course of their studies in school.

The beautiful love of the university is sacred, and the love between college students is the purest and kindest in the future life. And love between college students can also help us get rid of our bad habits, improve ourselves, and make ourselves a better person.