Why can childhood sweethearts on TV be together, but in reality, friendship lasts forever?

The most familiar strangers, some people are destined to be friends, friendship and love are always two parallel lines, this feeling is like you like a dress very much, desperate to get it, but to get it, found that she is no different from other clothes, maybe I must not be particularly appropriate, but if you don't like it, you must get, if you don't want to lose this childhood sweetheart, just go with the flow, each is fine.

I played with him from childhood to adulthood, when we were in kindergarten, we played together, and he always bullied me. Then elementary school wasn't together, but we got together as soon as we had the holidays. I have eaten with him, exercised together, fought together, teased others together, played house together, reviewed together, slept together, and explored together.

Despite this, he is a bamboo horse in my heart, and I am not a green plum in his heart. Now he has been with his girlfriend for three years, and his girlfriend is not bad, but his girlfriend quarreled with his parents when she first met him. I feel sorry for him, I only met him the day before yesterday, he is no longer the person I used to know, he has changed a lot.

I asked someone after the meeting. How about him, others say it's not good. My family coaxed us to be childhood sweethearts, and I felt a sigh in my heart at that time.

It used to be so good, but now I can't even talk about a word. You are still beautiful in my heart, even if you are nothing in the eyes of others.

Just today, at the age of 25, he got engaged, and at the age of 21, he started saying that he wanted to marry my boy, and finally married someone else. Our parents were friends, his parents were in business in other places, and then he went out with him before graduating from high school. I have been with him since he was twenty-two years old, we have been with him a lot, we discussed those girls together, and one year on Valentine's Day I helped him buy chocolates and roses and accompanied him to the girl's house, and introduced myself as my sister.

A few days before the winter vacation, I was preparing for the final exam, and received his **, he said that he drank two glasses of liquor before he dared to call ** to me, he said that he wanted to marry me, and he had never wanted to marry me as strongly as now, as long as I agreed, he asked my mother for the household registration book. Before this, the parents of both sides had joked that they wanted to settle down, but every time it was just a joke. I said particularly harsh things in **, I rejected him, scolded him and even insulted him.

It has always been clear to me that we will not have any relationship other than friends.

I met her when I was in kindergarten, and I thought she was so beautiful at that time!! Although it is more beautiful now) later went to preschool together....Immediately after elementary school, junior high school, they are all the same school but different classes...Because I like her, I was nervous when I saw her, and I didn't say a few words. When I was young, I would give her my sugar and fruits, and I guess she forgot about it, so it was never salty or light....Later, we went to college, she was in Shenyang, I was in Fushun...Friends in the Northeast should know what the geographical location is...In my sophomore year, I was single, and she was also single, and seeing that there were two years to graduate, I felt that it would be too late to say anything.

And so the story begins.

From the beginning of love, he was alone in his eyes, and after many years, he was exhausted by the dark crush and learned that I was also the first girl he ever liked. At that time, he broke up with his first love, and the pain was unbearable. And I stand in the position of his so-called childhood sweetheart, and the cinnabar mole that is not made into the heart will not become the white moonlight in the future.

So be it.

I liked him for 3 years, and he really liked me for 3 years, but unfortunately at different times. Now we each have boyfriends and girlfriends, but every time we see him, I still have waves in my heart. I don't know if he's the same.,Anyway,My childhood sweetheart is probably a kind of fate without fate.。

Childhood sweethearts can be friendship or love.

We often use the term "childhood sweetheart" to describe a man and a woman who have grown up playing together since childhood, and their relationship is relatively close.

The "green plum" here refers to the unripe green plum in the south; The "bamboo horse" refers to the fact that when children play, they use bamboo poles to put spring and ride as horses under their crotch. Childhood sweethearts are to describe the innocent and innocent play games of boys and girls when they are young. Now it mainly refers to the intimate relationship between men and women when they are young.

The story of childhood sweethearts:

"Long Trunk Travel" mainly describes the eagerness of a woman who misses her husband, and she travels hundreds of miles from her place of residence without hesitation to meet her husband. These two sentences vividly describe the scene when they played together as children. Later, "childhood sweethearts" and "two little guesses" were used by people to express innocent, innocent, and pure feelings.

The poet Li Bai's "Changgan Xing" tells the story of a woman who missed her husband and traveled hundreds of miles from Changgan (now outside the Zhonghua Gate in Nanjing) to Changsha to meet her husband.

The scene where they played together since childhood was: "Lang rode a bamboo horse, went around the bed to make green plums, lived together in Changganli, and the two were not suspicious." "It speaks volumes about the intimacy between them.

After that, people use "childhood sweethearts" and "two little guesses" to say that men and women have had real purity since childhood, innocent feelings, of course, now mainly refer to couples or lovers who have known each other since childhood.

People also use "childhood sweethearts" to refer to men and women who have been with them since childhood, especially to refer to a pair of men and women who grow up and fall in love or get married.

In life, there are too many childhood sweethearts who are not together, and their relationship makes many people very envious, and it is also very regrettable, because it is a very happy thing to have a person who grows up with you in your youth, and he will be the most important role in your life, whether they are together or not.

Childhood sweetheart, what a beautiful word! Of course, it's also the best memory! Some childhood sweethearts are not together, probably because they are too familiar with each other, so they want a fresher relationship to break the current status quo, they may know that they are not the girls or boys that each other likes, because the two are too familiar, so they are contaminated with some of each other's behavioral habits, too similar personalities and tempers make the two parties limited to being good friends, good hair and small, and no closer relationship.

Or one of them is a crush.,One person likes other people.,The status quo of this relationship is still very much.,Because it's a childhood sweetheart.,So the person with a crush has always acquiesced to this relationship.,All people will think they'll be together.,Therefore,There's a party who doesn't like to let the crush be limited to the relationship of friends.,It's not a two-way love to run is a very painful thing.,It's also a chasm that is difficult to cross.。

There is also the fact that the two have been together for a long time in the way of brothers and sisters, so there is no source of this emotion at the beginning, so it does not exist in the emotional development of both parties, because it belongs to the existence of that kind of family relationship, so this kind of relationship is simple and does not have any medium, so the possibility of being together is very small.

Therefore, I think that the childhood sweethearts who are together are derived from the likes of both parties, rather than the feelings of one person, but the existence of this relationship is still very beautiful, because he will be the brightest color in your youth, and he will stand up for you when you are in trouble, eat together, skip class together, and chase the person you like together is a very beautiful thing.

Because childhood sweethearts start playing at a very young age, they get along when they are young, and they don't necessarily get along when they grow up, because people change over time.

Because I know each other too well, and I feel that the personality aspect is very inappropriate, it is still very difficult to be together.

It's because they don't have a particularly big run-in in their personalities, and because they know too well for fear of hurting the feelings of both parents, they can't sit together.

Childhood sweethearts are used to describe friendship.

Use childhood sweethearts and two little guesses to show that the innocent and pure feelings are deep in the long run, and you can also put childhood sweethearts and two little guesses together to use the meaning of the cover branch. Later, childhood sweethearts were used to describe the innocence of men and women when they were young, playing together. Now it mostly refers to couples or lovers who have known each other since childhood, and later generations call men and women who have grown up with them since childhood.

In particular, it refers to people who fall in love or get married when they grow up, and same-sex friends who have grown up together since childhood are called total horn friends.

When they find themselves grown up, they are embarrassed to study and play together, and they are even afraid to meet, avoid each other, meet each other unintentionally, and may blush and heartbeat. Compared with other ways of love, childhood sweethearts tend to be more shy. They especially cherish the past experience, and regard this strange emotional experience as a non-parting thought, and regard it as a blasphemy of the pure feelings of the past.

Other explanations

Childhood sweetheart-like lovers think more about each other, they figure out each other's psychology more, and they are not 100% sure and dare not take the initiative to express themselves. I am afraid that if I am not careful, I can offend or wronged the other party. And the result of this speculation made them even more hesitant.

This is a common phenomenon of contradiction between the two laws in love, the deeper the love, the less it is revealed.

For childhood sweethearts, it is more important to emphasize active pursuit and bold expression. Especially for the girl, it is more advantageous, the girl's feelings are delicate and sensitive, and she can better understand the other party's mood. In addition, if you have a good foundation in the past, as long as you make appropriate hints, the other party will understand.

Childhood sweethearts may be love, or they may be friends who are scattered and find love. The term originates from traditional Chinese culture and is often used to describe two close friends who met at a young age, grew up together, formed a deep friendship, and stayed in touch as adults. There may be an element of love in this relationship, or it may just be a friendship of pure regret.

In literary and artistic works, childhood sweethearts are often one of the entry points of love stories. In many pure love anime and **, the love clues between the protagonist and the childhood sweetheart are very common, but this does not mean that the childhood sweetheart must be love. In real life, many childhood sweethearts are still just pure friendship and have not developed further.

Therefore, childhood sweethearts can be both love and friendship, and its most important meaning is to express a special intimacy and deep feelings. <>