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I was going to say you have to be sincere!
Since you said to be realistic!
Then I'll teach you!
You're a woman, please don't look down.
If you are a man.
To the woman - don't take the initiative, you must be very enthusiastic when she talks to you!
But after the fact, it's still - don't care!
For men - usually like a good iron buddy, (with everyone!) But you have to have a temper! This temper has to come up!
Turn your face and don't recognize people.,After the past, you have to be nice to everyone.,You have to see everyone as a good buddy in the face.,But your temper has to come suddenly!! Let others not figure out what your temper is like, such a person is the best!! Don't speak ill of someone in front of anyone, say good things about a good friend and so on!
That means you have to be able to play with people! Being a man is definitely not afraid of being said to be "true yin" by others
I'm afraid of being called "stupid" by others!
You've got to be able to play people! And you have to have a temper that others can't figure out!
As for the "female" I said, I said that there will be a lot of girls chasing after me!
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Few words many deeds. Pay attention to credit, promise them to do your best to complete the things, and don't promise to help them if you are not sure.
Help them not to think about what they will give them in return.
More encouragement, less cynicism, and don't skimp on their applause when they do something good!
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The key to being with classmates is to be able to speak, but you can't empty the gun, you have to talk about it, and don't talk about others behind others' backs, give enough face to others, try to help others say good things, even if you don't want to say it, say a little, be true to people, don't be cautious, don't take advantage of small advantages, you try to see if it's okay.
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Sincerely, honestly, and, of course, care and help are also indispensable.
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Get in touch with your classmates, care about them, and help them!
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The main thing is to understand each other, consider each other's feelings in everything, do not talk about the shortcomings of other students, and most importantly, be sincere with your classmates. As long as you can: treat your classmates the way you want them to treat you. The relationship between classmates will be very harmonious.
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Be yourself, insist on being yourself.
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1. First of all, you must communicate with your classmates, if you have any problems, you can communicate with your classmates, each student will have different opinions, then you will learn a lot of useful things.
2. Help your classmates more, if you are a student who is transferred to another school and is not familiar with the environment here, you can introduce more to this student and play with him (her).
3. If there is a conflict with a classmate, we should take the initiative to resolve it, we should take the initiative to apologize to the classmate, if the classmate makes a mistake, we can also analyze the reason for the conflict between us.
4. If you don't have a notebook or a pen, you should take the initiative to lend it to your classmates, don't be stingy, after all, it's just some trivial things, but some things that call you to fight and bully others must not be done.
5. If a classmate has any secrets and tells you, don't keep it secret, don't talk big, tell others, because this is the classmate's own privacy, and if others know, the classmate will definitely be angry, shy, embarrassed, and ignore you again.
6. Know how to share, play with your classmates with your delicious and fun food, it is not interesting to eat and play alone, only sharing is happy.
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Establish a good interpersonal relationship with your classmates, as long as you master the skills, you can not only quickly break into the circle of classmates, but also establish long-term and stable interpersonal relationships.
1.Pay attention to the way you speak.
Pay attention to the way you speak, and show respect for others. Respect is mutual. He who respects others will be respected by others.
Respect for others is conducive to establishing an equal relationship with classmates. Be compassionate, make your classmates feel your kindness, and promote the further establishment of harmonious relationships.
Take the little niece as an example, because she has been more favored at home since she was a child, when she usually borrows stationery from her classmates, she just says, hey, lend me your pen to write. In this way, for a long time, her classmates were not very willing to pay attention to her.
Focusing on the way she speaks is a particular one that suits her perfectly.
For example, when my little niece borrows a pen from a classmate, she can say something like, Huahua, please lend me a pen. Thank you.
When the little niece talks to Huahua, she accurately says the name of the other person and adds words such as please. Huahua can feel that her niece's respect for her can naturally get Huahua's respect for her little niece.
In fact, paying attention to the way you speak will not only win the respect of your classmates, but also gradually establish good interpersonal relationships.
2.Allow others to correct their mistakes.
Making mistakes is something that no one can avoid. However, we tend to ignore our own mistakes, focus too much on the mistakes of others, and turn a blind eye to the actions of others to correct their mistakes. Over time, because everyone only pays attention to each other's mistakes, the people who originally intended to be friends with you gradually get farther and farther away from you.
So, the skill to making good friends is to accept others and allow others to correct their mistakes.
Let's use the little niece.
Originally, the little niece was a very enthusiastic child, and she was also very concerned about the affairs of her classmates. However, she has a problem, when chatting with her classmates, she always likes to talk about the mistakes of other classmates, and ignores the efforts made by others to correct their mistakes. In this way, other classmates always heard bad remarks, and gradually everyone disliked talking to her.
At this time, the little niece needs to change the way she views her classmates.
For example, at the same table of the little niece, Xiao Jing is a very joking person, and there are a few unintentional jokes that hurt the little niece, and the little niece is very unhappy about it. After a few times, Xiao Jing also found out and began to change the way she joked. However, the little niece never accepted Xiao Jing and still ignored Xiao Jing.
In fact, Xiao Jing has realized her mistake, but because she hurt her little niece by making jokes a few times before, the little niece can't get used to Xiao Jing, and she says that Xiao Jing loves to joke everywhere, and refuses Xiao Jing's apology. As a result, the relationship between the little niece and Xiao Jing became worse and worse.
If you want to change the bad relationship between your little niece and Xiao Jing and re-establish a good relationship with Xiao Jing, you only need to do 2 things.
1 Accept Xiao Jing's apology, let go of the prejudice against Xiao Jing in the past, and stop talking about Xiao Jing's faults everywhere.
2. Recognize Jing's efforts to make a joke about her mistakes, and allow Jing to correct her mistakes.
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How do you build a good relationship with your classmates? First of all, when you first start to get in touch with a person, you don't know much about a person's personality and temperament. What kind of personality and temper is it to talk less and observe more at the beginning?
Get to know its constellations! Don't ask what you like, what you eat, or play, and the best thing is to observe quietly! For example, your favorite color is red!
Just find the right time to buy a small red gift for him and build a good relationship! It's good to play together, and it's usually taboo to talk behind your back! Report it!
Help students who are in difficulty and deal with students with all kinds of temperaments and personalities! Build your own charisma! People of the same frequency will be attracted to you!
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First of all, we should learn to communicate with others; Second, you can help others a lot, so that you are happy, others are happy, and others will appreciate you. Third, you must control your own mouth, and you can't tell the secret that others tell you, because others tell you because they really regard you as a friend who can make deep friends, and if you say it, it will change the concept of others being good to you. Fourth, share things with others from time to time, so that next time someone else has something to share with you, so that your relationship will be better.
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It's good to have normal interactions, there's no need to accommodate others everywhere in order to have a good relationship, the most important thing is to learn.
To give you an idea, think about it.
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To move her this is the best.
Treat them as if they were your own parents