The only child is so lonely at home alone during the holidays, what can he do

Updated on society 2024-05-21
24 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    You can go to a study class, you can learn anything, you know more people, and at the same time, it will also promote a regular schedule and rest, and there will be a sense of fulfillment.

    You can also set a difficult goal or plan by yourself, which is very interesting.

    In fact, if it were me personally, I would prefer to be in a daze, read books, and walk around.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    If you don't have the opportunity, you should use the Internet at home, read books, and participate in some moderate physical exercises.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    You can read extracurricular books, sew cross-stitch, chat on the Internet, plant flowers and plants, and so on.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Play Audition, watch Harry Potter, secrets that can't be said, Transformers... Chat online, hang out, go shopping with friends, watch TV.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It's good to communicate with your parents, it's not easy to go home once on vacation. For only children, parents are more concerned, don't just when you get home, you should consider your parents' thoughts, and talk to your parents when you have time. Cleaning up or cooking a delicious meal at home, I'm sure my parents will be very happy when they come home and see it.

    If you can help your parents, you must do something for them. A happy family requires your efforts

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Watching TV, playing on the computer, shopping with classmates, watching movies, Harry Potter, unspeakable secrets, and so on.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's good to watch movies online, play games, read books, and participate in some moderate physical activity.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Watch movies and play games on the Internet to clean up your home.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Go online, study and read, help your parents cook, have enough time, and travel if money allows.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Cleaning the room, doing housework, helping mom and dad cook.

    That's what an only child lacks!

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Go to the street to sell newspapers and experience life.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Watch TV, do housework.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    In today's civilized society, the only child is diligent and studious, and he is certainly better than his predecessors. Therefore, the only child is not lonely. Be sure to honor your parents.

    Foolishness, hope for the axe. When parents are sick and hospitalized, a person has to bear everything, the bitterness and sorrow can only be borne by himself, the visit of relatives and friends is love, and the real money and effort may not be thankless can only be done by himself. When parents are deceived and sad, as the only child, they still have to rush forward, comfort and guide, and if necessary, they have to quietly make up for the lack of money unknowingly, and sometimes they are tired when they think about it.

    People will always be lonely, and it is important to learn how to be alone with yourself. In the family environment, it is the pearl of the palm, the parents are pampered, and they have a certain sense of superiority.

    However, in the social environment, only children sometimes appear to be weak in their ability to deal with others, and their willfulness in relationships with others is inevitably frustrated. This generation of only children is also related to the fact that parents have been too doting on their children since childhood. The cultivation of children's independent spirit, sharing spirit, hardship and endurance is also lacking.

    Loneliness is a trivial matter, after growing up, there are no two brothers and sisters around you, and you are at a loss for anything, there is a brother or sister who can at least help you come up with ideas, and when your parents are old, you need someone to take care of you and have someone to solve your problems, after all, in addition to your parents, the closest ones are brothers and sisters, of course, only children also have certain benefits. At least your parents' love will be focused on you alone, but this is also a sign of selfishness.

    We have a lot of teenage children who don't let their parents want a second child, no one thought that teenage children would have such thoughts, they are used to eating alone, even brothers and sisters can't accept it, in short, that's just the child's idea, as they grow older, maybe they will blame their parents for touching the nail in the future, how not to give him a brother and sister, parents are difficult, pity the hearts of parents in the world! The key is whether the child can be understood, respected and appreciated from childhood to adulthood, so in the process of educating children, we should not only pay attention to the physical growth of children, but also pay attention to the psychological and emotional needs of children.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    First of all, parents should often accompany their children, and they should take more chains to search for children to participate in some pro-socks to call Lu Dong, take their children to travel more, and usually accompany their children to read or chat together, and then they can also give their children more love and walk around with relatives.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Parents should give their children more care, usually accompany Sun Fanxin to accompany their children, often take their children to participate in some social activities, and do some parent-child games with their children, so that children will be particularly happy.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Parents should accompany their children for many years, and should take their children to participate in more activities, so that they can communicate with their children more, so that their children can have a happy life.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    In fact, the only child in the family is not particularly lonely, because there are a lot of hobby classes for this excited only child, and the love of the parents will be given to this child, so this child is still very happy.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If you want to have a better time, you should be able to make more friends, and parents should also communicate more with their children at home. Parents should take more care of their children, so that they will have a happy life.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    At this time, you can consider the situation of having a second child, or you also need parents to play some games with their children, which can also make your children very happy.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    An only child should find something to do for himself and should have his own interests and hobbies. You can also hang out with friends often, or you can choose some more relaxed and enjoyable activities. You can also go out shopping with friends. In this way, you will be able to have a good time.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Parents should spend more time with their children, play with their children often, travel with their children often, and pay attention to their children's psychological thoughts.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Today's only children don't feel lonely in life because they don't have siblings. Although many parents nowadays often choose to have a second child because they feel that if the child they give birth to is an only child, they will feel lonely in life because they have no siblings, but I personally do not agree with this view of these parents.

    First of all, starting from our generation of post-80s, the vast majority of us are only children, and we have no brothers and sisters when we grow up. It's alone, but we have never felt lonely, after all, in daily life and study, we have a lot of classmates and friends, who can grow up with us, so for these parents to put forward the view that only children without siblings will feel lonely in life, I can think that it is simply untenable.

    And for many parents, they really choose to have another child, not because they are afraid that their child is an only child and feels lonely in life, it is so simple, in fact, I personally think it is. It's just one of the factors they consider. The most important thing is perhaps that many parents think that having one more child is more reliable than a one-child family, in terms of old-age care, after all, if the hope of the future pension is pinned on your own child, then the pressure on the child will be great, if you want one more child, you can share the pressure of the child, but I personally think that in fact, this aspect is not directly related to whether it is an only child. The most important thing depends on the education and guidance of parents for their nieces.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Yes, now only children in life. There will be feelings of loneliness, but most of them still experience being pampered and been. Overly concerned about this situation.

    All the love of my parents was given to their children, and because I only had one child and the family had a small burden, most of my material needs were met from childhood to adulthood, which would allow me to make more trial and error, and would support me to follow the path I wanted to take.

    I didn't seem lonely when I was a child, I was young, I had friends, I had classmates, I had colleagues, I loved others, and I didn't feel lonely when I grew up all the way. There is an old saying that there are many people who have a lot of right and wrong, and this sentence is also suitable for the family, anyway, when I was a child, I saw and heard that my brothers were fighting against each other because of a house. So at least in my opinion, an only child is not alone.

    There is also the love of the father, the only child can also enjoy the love of the father and mother alone, and it is very common for the child to have an uneven bowl of water, and it will not feel lonely at all.

    When my grandmother was hospitalized, my uncle, aunt, and my mother took turns to stay at the bedside for four months, 24 hours a day. Although there was no prevarication, everyone had a mortgage, they had to raise their children, and if they didn't go to work for a day, they wouldn't have a life, and in just four months, everyone was exhausted and miserable! Alas, it is really too difficult to think that now that the only child needs to take care of four elderly people in the future......What if one day we lose the love of our parents and do not have our brothers and sisters to share the pain with?

    As a matter of fact, the matter of providing for one's parents in the old age cannot be solved entirely by money, and having more children may not necessarily provide for them better. As for the loneliness of the only child, why don't you ask the two of them how they feel about having a second child and a third child? Now that there are a few children who start a family and don't need their parents' help, why not wonder how their only child grows up?

    Don't always use your child's loneliness as an excuse, first weigh whether you can afford your money and ability.

    There is no one of my peers in the family, there is not even a person to talk to, some words can only be held in my heart, and I can only carry things alone, and the love given by brothers and sisters and parents is completely different. "All the people who persuaded me to have a second child used this reason, and the difference between the first child and the second child is more than ten years old, so I am not alone. Loneliness or not loneliness It doesn't matter if you have a few brothers and sisters, but if you have more children, you won't be alone?

    no one looks down on them if they are not angry, and brothers and sisters who are uneven in wealth are even more chicken feathers! The key is education, and without education, no matter if one or a few are in vain.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Now the only child in life I personally think that loneliness will still exist, after all, there are no siblings and feel lonely, since childhood there are no siblings in a one-person environment to grow up, pampered and loved by parents, although the love of parents is Bao Qiyun tolerated the only child, but there are no siblings, life is relatively boring, unlike a family with many children, you will feel that you are playmates together, because children need playmates, so they will not feel lonely.

    First, being an only child is a special existence, and loneliness also goes hand in hand. In the family, there is no brother and sister company, which is a kind of loneliness, and in the workplace, there is no blood relatives to help, which is also a kind of loneliness. But there are two sides to everything.

    It depends on how you understand loneliness. Adjust yourself in loneliness and make yourself stronger, you will find that loneliness is the best booster, go and enjoy loneliness. Loneliness has made you mature faster as you grow up.

    I hope mine satisfies you.

    Second, the children of Dugaoji are lucky, they enjoy the love of their parents and grandparents, and they easily become the "little emperor and little princess" in the family, living a happy life without competition. Lost perception of the outside world, like flowers in a greenhouse. And because there is no peer sharing, there is a lot less happiness, which also increases my loneliness.

    This is precisely the greatest sorrow of an only child. When they have to go through the separation from their families to face society, they need to go through inner entanglements, struggles and suffering, and this suffering is the throes of growth, which must be endured, and there is no substitute for the loneliness of this experience. But that's where the two sides of the world come in.

    Only some only children with a more cheerful personality have a lot of playmates outside, so they will not feel lonely, so now they advocate having a second child and a third child, that is, they hope that the child will be accompanied and will not be lonely and lonely, which is also a very good thing, because the only child always accompanies him in the process, and a person has more time, so a child's family In general, the child has to get along with other children more, so as not to make the child's character become withdrawn. In this way, the child will grow up to be more enthusiastic and have a more cheerful personality.

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