There is no happiness in life, what is the reason for the lack of happiness

Hello, here are my answers to you.

Happiness is the warmth of snuggling in the warm arms of your mother;

Happiness is the sweetness that rests on the broad shoulders of lovers;

Happiness is the love of touching the delicate ** of children;

Happiness is the respect for the vicissitudes of life on the faces of parents.

Happiness is that when I can't see you, I can comfort myself like this: it's good to think about you quietly like this. Happiness is that I am tied to you all the time, even when you are not by my side.

Happiness is that whenever I think of you, the feeling of spring fills the air, and lovesickness is unfounded

Happiness: No matter how big the wind and waves outside, you will know that there is always a cup of hot coffee waiting for you at home.

Happiness is when the people who love each other are getting old, and they never get tired of seeing each other. Happiness is to be together all the time, and the days together are a lifetime, from the earth to the heaven......

Happiness is a mystery, if you ask a thousand people to come, there will be a thousand answers.

Someone once said: "True happiness cannot be described, it can only be experienced, and the deeper the experience, the more difficult it is to describe, because true happiness is not a collection of facts, but a continuation of a state." "Happiness is not for others to see, it has nothing to do with what others say, the important thing is that your heart is full of happy sunshine, that is, happiness is in your own hands, not in the eyes of others Happiness is a feeling, this feeling should be pleasant, make people feel comfortable, sweet and happy.

Life is also happy, unhappy is also over, or happy, unhappy things will be diluted over time, with a tolerant attitude, people will feel relaxed and happy!

That's what you haven't experienced, life is actually very dull, every day is firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, the key depends on how you look at it. Some people live happily because they enjoy life, and some people live miserable because they endure life. I hope it inspires and helps you.

Happiness is not just a feeling, don't think too much, don't put too much pressure on yourself, do something you have always wanted to do, or buy something you like. Believing that feeling is happiness.

Remember, peace is blessing, and you will be very happy if you can live a small life in an ordinary way.

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The reason for not having a sense of happiness is that if you don't have a sense of satisfaction and purpose, you will feel unhappy. This is due to a lack of understanding of the purpose and meaning of the purpose of living and removing, or a lack of recognition of one's own success and progress. Relationship problems with others, such as problems with intimacy, social isolation or conflict, can have a negative impact on well-being.

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Summary. 1.I think the lack of happiness may be due to not finding a suitable or enjoyable career, and failing to find a sense of worthiness in it.

2.Without happiness, it may be that there is no recognition in the emotion, or friendship, or love. 3.

There is no happiness because you care too much about what others think of you, ask yourself to do something you don't like, and don't really be yourself.

1.I think the lack of happiness may be due to not finding a suitable or enjoyable career, and failing to find a sense of worthiness in it. 2.

Without happiness, it may be that there is no recognition in the emotion, or friendship, or love. 3.There is no happiness because you care too much about what others think of you, ask yourself to do something you don't like, and don't really be yourself.

Excuse me, but please go into more detail?

Now everyone is under a lot of pressure, treat yourself well, don't care too much about other people's opinions, learn more about what you are interested in, do what you are interested in, slowly find the feeling of happiness, first of all, you have to please yourself. Happiness is actually very simple, don't overcomplicate it. Perhaps, you can get something you have always wanted to do, or someone you have always seen, or simply help others.

Happiness may be that you have done something meaningful and your value has been affirmed. Happiness can also be the quietness of immersing yourself in your own little world. Everyone has different personalities and interests, and to have a sense of happiness, you must first understand yourself and what you want most!

Happiness needs to be discovered, and it is found in the daily bits and pieces!

At the age of 30, I don't have a house or a car, and when I am idle or talking to friends about regrets, I always feel a little entangled in my heart, and my happiness suddenly plummets. I always feel that Chang socks have to have a house, and it is also convenient for children to study in the future, and the housing prices in Shenzhen are so high that they far exceed the income of the family, so there is no need to put too much pressure on yourself for the house. How do you balance this inner struggle?

Without a house, happiness can really be lower. But it also depends on your financial situation to see if you really need to buy a house.

For a family, the happiness of having a house is definitely much stronger than not having a house. Just like the friend who asked the question said, having a house book must be steady, and it is also very convenient for children to read.

If there is no house, we need to face the problem:

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01 --What should I do if the rent is temporarily raised?

When I first interned, I rented a house for the New Year, and I felt that I had encountered many situations, and the sadness of renting a house can only be understood by those who have rented a house.

Once you met a landlord who rented for about half a year, the landlord began to increase the rent, or move out, it was almost August, the weather was hot and the house was difficult to find, I renewed the lease for half a year, and it rose by 200 per month.

02-- It's sad to be evicted by your landlord, and that pain will make you want to have a home.

Last year, a friend was in a hurry to find a house, because the landlord needed to renovate the house he rented, and told them to move a month in advance, and they had no choice but to pack their bags and find a house.

03-The strange roommates you meet in a shared house affect your sense of well-being.

In the process of sharing a house, it is actually very happy to meet like-minded roommates, everything has accidents, and it is inevitable to meet strange roommates. Sharing a house with others, because everyone's work and rest time and living habits are different, of course, there will be some small frictions, which is normal, and I am most afraid that the co-tenant will be lenient with the attitude of the owner and be strict with Bixun.

Although buying a house by yourself does not have the above problems, there are also pros and cons:

In fact, most people just want a sense of security and belonging, which has nothing to do with material things and has nothing to do with money worship. The house, as a basic material security, is indeed important. If young people don't have a house, starting a family is a problem, and it will also give rise to a lot of subsequent troubles, so there is no need to leave the house and talk about life, so as not to be said that they can't eat grapes and say that grapes are sour, or that they don't have backache when they stand and talk.

Whether the house is important or not and whether the money is important or not is actually the same thing, but whether to buy a house or not depends on the individual's choice, and it is not a matter of no choice. The so-called "no way" is mostly a kind of self-consolation and selling well when you get cheap.

1--Everyone's financial situation is different, and the mortgage is stressful.

2--I bought a house by myself, and how I want to decorate it depends on my mood.

3--There is no need to worry about getting married or having children.

In our lives, there are many people who do not have a house or a car, and they are also very happy, in fact, it is not necessary to have a house and a car to have happiness, happiness comes from our mentality. In real life, many people often attribute their happiness to the material level, thinking that if they reach a certain age, do not have their own house, and do not have a relatively decent car, they will have an inferiority complex in their hearts, thinking that they have a sense of frustration. In fact, I don't agree with this kind of thinking, although the material aspect is very important to us, but whether a person's heart is truly happy, in fact, is **in their own heart, **in their own mentality to maintain and adjust.

When other people around us are more successful in their careers, have their own luxury cars, and have their own spacious and bright houses, these will naturally make us envious, which is human nature, but we should also be aware of the people around us, the reason why these people can succeed is also due to their own efforts, from their own innate advantages or a certain amount of luck, and for these, we should not be too entangled and caring, many times, As long as we work hard enough, we will not be able to achieve the same living conditions as the other person, and we should not blame ourselves and be too annoyed. In fact, like our parents' life, at our age, there is no car and house at all, and even household appliances are luxuries for them, but they live very happily, the real sense of happiness, in fact, is still ** in their own hearts, many times, when we can look at ourselves objectively, look at some of their own advantages and their own achievements, then we will no longer be annoyed by too much anxiety because of life, when we envy others, In fact, those who have a house and a car may also envy us in some way, so in many cases we need to change ourselves, this too utilitarian mentality, in order to let ourselves truly find the true meaning of happiness and joy in life. In fact, if you don't have a house, a car, or this kind of thought, you won't have expectations to bring troubles, and you will feel the joy and happiness brought by life.

Everyone has a different definition of happiness, and my opinion is as follows:

1.For those who value material things more in character, not having a house will naturally reduce their sense of happiness, such people will lack a sense of security, and feel that the house can give them a sense of security, so there is no house and there is a lack of happiness, and the whole person will live in uneasiness, always feel that they have achieved nothing, and will gradually become inferior.

2.On the contrary, for those who are more confident and like freedom, there is no house and other material things, these things will not have any effect on them at all, as long as there is a place to sleep, people who can have their own freedom and love themselves at the same time, this is happiness, the house is just a material thing, for such people, they will not care about these problems, and they will not look at these things very lightly, so such a humanoid state will not have no happiness even if there is no house, Bu Pei will not have no happiness, On the contrary, they will live more freely and happily, and if they have a house, they will feel that the house is a constraint, a sense of oppression, so they will feel hindered and block their right to pursue freedom.

3.My happiness comes from having the habit of maintaining good health, having a loving job, helping those in need through my own ability, being able to taste my favorite and healthy food at any time, loving myself and the people around me, having healthy and friendly interpersonal relationships, reading my favorite books, staying curious, having my own independent three views, acquiring knowledge through learning, gaining wisdom through action, especially freedom of thought, and living freely and happily.

My happiness comes from having the habit of maintaining good health, having a loving job, helping those in need through my own ability, being able to taste the cracks and taste the food that I like and is good for health at any time, loving myself and the people around me, having a healthy and friendly interpersonal relationship, reading my favorite books, staying curious, having my own independent three views, acquiring knowledge through learning, gaining wisdom through action, especially the freedom of thinking and thinking, and living freely and happily.