I ve been with my boyfriend for 5 years, I ve been with my boyfriend for 5 years, and I feel like he

Updated on psychology 2024-05-14
28 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Since you've been walking so hard for so long, think about what you're doing it all for? That's the first point, and the second point is what his parents think of you now? Did I agree with you?

    Next and most importantly, how did your boyfriend treat you? You are going to live with him in the future, if he is very good to you, and his family is not very opposed now, then you will not be far from success when you come to this point, and then persevere, unless this is not the life you want, feel too tired, too depressed, then stop, but think carefully, if he is not very good to you, then you don't need to make yourself so tired, you are not very big, find a good person who loves yourself, the right door, that is the happiest, think about it! Come on!

    Wishing you happiness!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Don't think about the question of leaving or staying, first ask him who he thinks of you, 5 years is not a short time, and he is saying that you also live in his house, he has to give a name. If he says you're young or something, I don't think you need to stay there anymore because he doesn't want to marry you at all. But don't be too impulsive in everything, think about it and do it, don't go back when the time comes, then you really can't get married.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    The man's family has never mentioned marriage? That means that the man's family doesn't pay attention to this marriage, what about your boyfriend's opinion? You have to ask him, if you feel tired yourself, and you feel that if you pass the door, you will feel uncomfortable and unhappy, then don't force yourself, reluctant love will not be happy.

    Thank you!!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Happiness is your own, and there will definitely be obstacles Forgive me for talking too much, you have been with him since you were 19 years old, no matter what, you are cowardly, and even have no intention of getting married Everyone is looking for their other half for a happy life on the basis of not for a person who looks at the conditions and even looks at the face of his parents to live Stick to it Love is not wrong, but numb love will ruin your life Think it out for yourself.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Age is never a matter of happiness! Just ask you, are you happy now? Are you sure you'll be happy after fighting for it? If the answer is no, let's divide it. You will find better, and believe that you can find better. As long as you believe, you will succeed!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Leave, this man has never thought of marrying you, when someone suitable to marry him appears. He will abandon you, so why let yourself live with such inferiority? Leave him and you will find a better one!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    First of all, think about why your boyfriend didn't mention marriage? Do you know how important you are to him? Love is not something that is bought by prayer, and happiness is not something that can be swallowed. Think it all over and you'll know what to do.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You still tell your boyfriend directly, forget it, you delay yourself like this, their family is different and they don't have other men, why do you have to be so wronged by yourself, as long as there is that fate.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I think marriage is a matter for two people, and it is the biggest thing in two people's lives. Your boyfriend is obviously the key in this matter, and you have to get a genuine and realistic commitment from him right away! If you are destined to be miserable, you might as well cut it with your own hands!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It depends on whether you like this man or not, and whether you think this kind of life is happy or not... Marriage is a big deal... Everything will be fine.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Yes, marriage is a big deal, not a child's play.

    Think it through and then decide.

    I advise you to go outside and take a walk, something unexpected may happen.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If you think you'll be happy, stay.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You've been together for so long, you should get to know each other and trust that the other person can give you happiness.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It's hard to think about this confidant, life is already troubled in many aspects, seeing that you are a good girl, I hope your boyfriend cherishes you and wishes you happiness.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You can remind him that there is no hope and stop quickly, you can't afford to wait.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Hold on until you admit it, so why give up.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I've been with my boyfriend for five years, and I feel that he has changed, first of all, you have to think about it, how has your boyfriend become? Does it feel like he didn't love you before, yes, many people have this feeling, two people have been together for so long, for outsiders, you love each other so much, you can last so long, but only you know that there is a problem within us, which is related to many people who think that we loved each other very much when we first got married, why married life.

    The beauty of the world cannot last forever, but the more unhappy it becomes, and this is only because time can change everything.

    When you first fall in love, your boyfriend will accommodate you, care about you, take into account your feelings, and cherish you as a baby, but as time goes by, he slowly knows your temperament, and also thinks that you love him very much, he will no longer pay attention to you because of freshness, and slowly lose patience, and even anniversaries may be forgotten, and may not be in the mood to listen to what you say in your heart, more often your temper becomes vexatious in him, at this time will you feel that you love the wrong person, Why doesn't he love you as much as he did then, just because he doesn't have more experience to take care of your feelings.

    He may be working hard and sacrificing because of your beautiful future, working hard, so he has no time to accompany you, sacrificing your anniversary, for the purpose of making money, he will snub you, ignore you because he is tired of work, in fact, on the other hand, we can think about it, if he is really busy, he is desperately trying to buy a house, struggling to satisfy your desires, and sprinting for a good married life, so why can't you care about this man well, he is at least not struggling alone, he has changed his behavior, Is it worth your doubts?

    Many times, we have to think clearly about why people change, whether the boyfriend has changed his mind, or whether he feels that he doesn't love you anymore, and a woman's gains and losses start when he feels that the man has changed, which is nothing, but you have to figure out what the purpose of his change is, and then you decide what to do.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If you have been together for a long time. It's normal to change because of something, don't mind this too much, as long as he really likes you and really treats you.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If you can get along for five years in a relationship, it means that the two of you are still more suitable. But it feels like he's changed, and it's likely that something happened to him. Or maybe you're tired of the relationship.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    People will definitely change after being together for a long time, and you may not care about you as much as you used to, but this is not that you don't love you anymore, this is because you have been together for a long time

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    You should have a good talk with your boyfriend, after all, the two of you have been together for a long time, and you also need to make some changes appropriately, you can change your hairstyle, and make your boyfriend love you very much again.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    In such a situation, you should communicate with your boyfriend in a timely manner, and the two people should adjust the mode of getting along with each other to enhance each other's feelings, and do not affect the relationship between the two people because of these problems.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Well, if you really don't feel it, then tell him to be nice to your buddy after a breakup, it always feels weird, don't always think that happiness is given by men, your own happiness is important, and women should know how to strive for happiness by themselves.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I've been together with my boyfriend for five years, and I feel like you've changed, what should I do? You feel like you've been with your boyfriend for five years, and it feels like he's changed, and you don't have to be nice to him. If he treats you well, he will automatically come to you.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    In such a situation, I think you should break up with the other person, because the other person has changed, and the way the two of you get along has also changed, so it will affect the relationship between the two of you.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    It's been 5 years together, and it's been a long time, why haven't you gotten married? Most people are married after two or three years of falling in love, and the longer it lasts, the bigger it feels.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    At this time, you need to ask the other party, or you can also end the relationship by breaking up, so as not to hurt yourself.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    After a long time in the world, you will definitely lose the freshness of love, so try to find a way to increase the freshness of feelings.

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