I m not sociable, what should I do?

I'm also very inferior, I also have a friend of the opposite sex who is very inferior, I wondered, in fact, he is very good and good, I don't know where the inferiority complex comes from.

In fact, sometimes low self-esteem is not how bad you really are, but because you are too demanding of yourself, and low self-esteem is not what others think of you, but how you see yourself. Remember, 80, 90 are so inferior that they don't have time to pay attention to you, why are you still inferior? Put away your low self-esteem, be indifferent, first learn to look directly at others to show basic etiquette Your respect for others, and then learn to smile, don't know how to say, just smile calmly and sincerely, sincerity will always bring you good luck.

Be happy and take the initiative to communicate with others, language, or whatever. Sometimes our low self-esteem is not understood, and it is better to let go than this.

Friend.. I'm just like you.

If you are less than 18 years old, you may change it, go out more, talk to friends and family more, if you are too old, I think it is difficult for the two of us to change, everyone's personality has advantages and disadvantages, in fact, it is a sentence: be yourself.,,,

Don't deliberately ask yourself, there is a friend who is also introverted, but he desperately asks himself to become an extrovert, deliberately makes some exaggerated movements, and says those contrived words, I think it is, it's too much.

I'm just living every day calmly now.,I want to go to join in the fun.,If you don't want to, go back to the house to play on the computer and watch TV (anyway, I can't change it.,The most important thing is to be happy,,, isn't it a little decadent?,)

As for the girlfriend,,Don't be too shy.,When you see what you like, chase it.,It's okay.,First of all, I often ask her to come out to play.,If she refuses to come out to play 3 times, it means.。。。 I've just broken up for 1 week, and I'm still uncomfortable in my heart, love this thing, it's okay if you talk about the right person, it's better not to talk about the wrong person,

I was the same as you, I went for less than a month, and the manager asked me to run the business, but I didn't agree, also because I was more introverted, and most importantly, I didn't like it, and I never thought about any development in sales, so I flatly refused and resigned. In fact, it depends on your personal hobbies, others can't help you or anything, and what others say is not necessarily completely correct, in fact, sales now make a lot more money than design, and many bosses are starting from the advertising industry, depending on how you treat it. Anyway, I just want to make my way in the design world.

Huhu, I'm looking for a job these days......

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Brother, it's okay. It's okay for a man to be good-looking, be generous, talk to others more, and don't be too sensitive.

I'll give you four words, think more carefully, not necessarily eloquent must have a clear mind! You can do it, buddy!

Exercise Go outside and walk more.

Participate in more activities I feel that travel is the best exercise platform.

If you are not good at communicating with people, memorize these 3 mantras, and you can mix well from now on.

1.Show interest and understanding: Try to genuinely listen to their stories, interests, and ideas, and show interest and understanding of them. Expressing your concern for them and your willingness to get to know them can make them feel comfortable and accepted.

2.Give support and encouragement: Give positive feedback and encouragement to their efforts and achievements. Give them confidence and affirmation to help them overcome self-doubt and social anxiety.

3.Create common interests: Find common interests and activities that can provide a topic of conversation and a basis for engagement between you. A shared hobby can be a bridge to connect.

4.Respect personal space: Understand that people who are not sociable may need more personal space and alone time. Respect their privacy and needs, give them plenty of space, and don't force them too much into socializing.

5.Build trust slowly: Building trust is the key to building friendships. When dealing with people who are not very sociable, slowly build trust and make them feel that you are a trustworthy friend.

6.Provide support and help: Give them support and help when they need it. Help them overcome difficulties and show that you care and be kind to them.

Remember, building friendships with people who aren't sociable requires patience and understanding. Respect their personal characteristics and comfort zones and give them plenty of time and space to build relationships.

I'm too familiar with this kind of problem, and there are x solutions to introduce to you.

Method 1: Say nothing, talk about everything, say everything you have to say, and say all the bad things.

Step 1, (Introduce the Practice).

The second step,Although a lot of people have personality problems,I've been cowering and others say what they have opinions but don't dare to say anything and can only obey.,I used to be in line with others.,But now I won't, because I'm always in line with others, I'm uncomfortable, I always suffer.,Once I broke out.,I did a little bit or even a little bit of bad.,People start to talk about you.,That time I broke out and said everything I wanted to say., In fact, there is nothing in the back, nothing more than the loss of a few unworthy friends, cracking, and chaos, and at this time, it will start to change, and you can't stop, don't conform to others as before.

Step 3, Method 2: Start dressing up and improve yourself all the time, self-confidence, only in this way you will slowly begin to know how to resist and defend yourself, so that it will not be difficult in the process of dating and making friends in the future, you will begin to appreciate each other and complain about each other, and slowly you will bring a little social friend holding cow syndrome Hahaha.

That's it, it's not easy to organize, remember to like it before you go

1. Enhance their own capabilities and establish professional advantages.

Communication is a kind of ability, and technology is also the embodiment of ability. I'm not sociable, I don't have an advantage in communication, and working hard in this area will definitely be half the effort. But I love my major and am willing to continue to learn and expand in this area.

Therefore, I put my energy on professional technology, as long as there is an opportunity to learn new knowledge, I will seize it, perennial perseverance, in the company has a strong professional advantage. To be honest, some of the technical problems in the company are difficult to fight, and without me, it is really not easy for them to solve them properly in a short period of time.

Second, it will not come, but it is not afraid of things.

I'm a bit introverted, my emotional intelligence is not very high, and my usual social interaction is just ordinary daily interaction with colleagues, and I don't talk much. Therefore, at work, I will definitely not come to work, unless others take the initiative to inform me, I will participate in some department activities or participate in some part. Although I won't come to the incident, but usually I am not afraid of things, dare to say no to unfairness, when the bridge feels that my interests have been violated or suffered injustice, I will put it forward straightforwardly, and explain the reasons in detail, so except for the early stage of the new unit, basically no one will bully me later, including the leader, everyone knows that I am this character.

3. Face up to your own shortcomings and not be jealous of others' abilities.

I will not please the leader, I will not flatter and sycophant, this is my shortcoming, I admit it from the bottom of my heart. Some people, when they see others coaxing the leader to obey and despise others, feel sad and despise others, which is the most deadly: there is no ability, and the mentality is not good.

I face up to my own shortcomings, and although I don't want to make up for it, I can get my mind right. Everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses, and it is the right way to promote their strengths and avoid their weaknesses, rather than deceiving themselves and others, and degrading themselves to nothing if they have the ability that others have, so that they can not improve themselves and are easy to offend others.

Fourth, according to their own characteristics, plan career goals.

The definition of success is indeed snobbish in society nowadays, and in the company, it is also those executives who have more status. But I knew my own characteristics and believed that I would not be able to become a senior manager. I have positioned myself as a clear technical development route, and I want to become a technology master in the company and even in my industry through my own efforts.

With such a career goal, I am also full of motivation in my work and study, and I am not confused but also confident.