What should I do if my wife is not good at managing the house? What should I do if my wife is not ki

Updated on psychology 2024-04-02
20 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Don't complain like this anymore, it means that you are also responsible. Husbands and wives need to communicate more to understand. You can also influence her and influence her, can't you?

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Buy a book for your wife and talk to her about it, she will understand, and don't quarrel.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I have to say that you guys are lacking in communication ...

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    There is no clear line between good and ugly, and this is especially true for ordinary people.

    Since you are married, then there should not be much character problem, so as long as it does not affect the stability of the family and mutual relations, it doesn't matter.

    Then in the daily work of raw lead, use your behavior to feel and influence her, and the two sides move towards a common goal.

    Don't think about completely transforming the other person, it's impossible and it's not fair.

    The relationship between the family should first of all be smooth, harmonious and stable.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Women are not inherently unkind.

    As the old saying goes: A woman is soft, and a mother is strong. It means that the stupid nature of a woman is gentle and kind, and she will become strong and fierce after becoming a mother.

    The wife is not kind, it should be a male inaction, no responsibility, sense of responsibility, self-motivation, and no way to give women a sense of security, so women regret that Naiyuan is becoming more and more unkind, the so-called unkindness means that instead of blaming and complaining about their husbands, it is better to shoulder the responsibility of supporting the family.

    Become an independent female professional. That is, the family model of the male protagonist and the female protagonist.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    In fact, in a person's life, everyone will have some shortcomings to some extent, which is normal. You can't be too demanding of yourself, and if it's too high, you'll be very tired of living by yourself. I think as long as you evaluate yourself and practice meditation to more than 80 points, don't put too much pressure on yourself!

    An easy life will be happier.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You talk to her about the disadvantages of being unreasonable, such as that people don't like you, that you become bad, and that others are hostile.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    1. Find the reason from yourself first When your wife doesn't want to deal with you, first think about whether you have done anything wrong, in short, you should first find the reason from yourself, whether you have made your wife unhappy, and find the right cause of the problem in order to solve the problem. 2. Know how to observe the state of your wife Carefully observe some subtle changes in your wife, and then you have to become more industrious, take the initiative to take on housework activities at home, and sit down face-to-face with your wife when you see that your wife's mood is a little better, communicate well, and open your wife's heart.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Make her more happy, patiently ask the reason for ignoring people, and see if you can change yourself according to your wife's wishes.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    The wife ignores people, which may be due to her personality. Ignoring people, it belongs to the mucous or depressive temperament type. This type of person is generally reluctant to communicate with people.

    This type of temperament is like this. Moreover, it is difficult to change the type of temperament of people, or people with this kind of character.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Tolerance and understanding.

    Everyone has their own values and their own standards of right and wrong. In the family, the wife also has her own thoughts, and she cannot blindly impose her own ideas and perceptions on others. From the wife's point of view, she may also feel that her husband is unreasonable.

    If you want a happy family, you must have more understanding and tolerance, and less complaints and arguments.

    As the saying goes, "If you are not a neighbor, you are a good neighbor, and if you are not a husband and wife, you are a good couple". In fact, every family is like this, on the surface, other people's wives are reasonable, but in fact, maybe in the eyes of others, they think your wife is very good.

    In short, check yourself more often to see if you are wrong, and if you are wrong, admit your mistake. If there is no fault and no argument, the sky will not fall, and family harmony is the most important thing.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Family is not a place for reasoning, and it is not a matter of principle, so it is better to let her. As long as the family is harmonious and happy.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    You still have to be reasonable with your wife! Don't you look for s! My wife is the reason, can you tell her! You just take care of yourself, just leave her alone! Otherwise, there will be no good fruit for you to eat, you can do it yourself, and there is no good way to help you.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If the wife is unreasonable, don't you just say that he is reasonable, and the actual action will have a better effect.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    This is a matter of principle, I suggest that you find a suitable time to talk about this issue with your wife, after all, if you are unreasonable at home, you can still let it, and no one will let you go out.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    When she is unreasonable, you keep silent, don't try to reason with her, and when she finishes speaking, the anger is gone, and you find time to coax her well.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If you meet such a wife, it is really troublesome, how difficult it is to establish a love life, after all, there is a family. If you are calm in advance, you must communicate well when you encounter something, and apologize if you can, after all, if you admit your mistake first, things will pass quickly.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    The wife is unreasonable, and many times she may be carried away by anger. Both parties can calm down and then communicate and negotiate, slowly reason, and I believe that in a calm situation, everyone will accept.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If she doesn't reason with you, then you don't have to reason with her, and when you treat her like this, she can feel that she is wrong.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    My wife is always unreasonable, so don't reason with her, follow her ideas first, and wait until she is in a better mood to find an opportunity to communicate peacefully with her.

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