How should my roommate skillfully persuade her to step on several boats?

Actually, I've encountered this kind of thing, I have a roommate who looks good but is very scummy, how to say, she is the kind of person who likes a lot of people. She's also very honest about this, she never hides it from us, and she is very good other than that, so sometimes she herself will call herself a scumbag. Because I have been in contact with her, I have some experience, and if I want to persuade her, I can talk to her from the following two aspects.

1. The hazards of stepping on several boats.

Because she likes a lot of people, you have to make this clear to her. Tell her that it's not right, it's a moral issue for her to do this, and it's not good for everybody to go on like this. You have to understand and tell her that he will overturn one day, the consequences of overturning may not only be that everyone breaks up with him, if you meet a more cautious man, he is likely to come and beat you, then it will be really difficult for you to hide, after all, as your boyfriend, he has a good grasp of your schedule.

Besides, this kind of pedaling on a few boats is not very good for the reputation of girls, so let him change it quickly.

2. Tell him more about those boyfriends.

Girls are actually very soft-hearted, which is why some girls are obviously determined to break up but don't break up when they are coaxed in the end. You have to talk to him more about how good the other boyfriends are, and you have to let him know that everyone is so good to him, how can he cheat on them.

If you talk to him too much, he will have a sense of guilt in his heart, and he will feel that he really did something wrong, and slowly she will feel that she can't stand it, and then she will break up with other people, leaving only the one she likes the most.

I don't think it should be, unless you fall in love with one of her boats, and besides, people pedal on several boats with their ability, why should you persuade her, there will be retribution anyway, and she can only blame herself for revenge when the time comes.

If he has a good relationship with you, you can remind him euphemistically if you can't stand it. It doesn't matter if the relationship is average, after all, it doesn't affect you. If you really can't stand it, I think it's okay to say it appropriately.

Because this society has too many feet on two boats, it is useless to persuade them. People who are attentive can't be changed.

This behavior is incorrect and shameful. I will quote a sentence to advise him, always walk on the side, how can you not get your shoes wet. Let him realize his wrong behavior as soon as possible, and hope that he can correct it as soon as possible.

I really have such roommates around me.,Obviously I have a girlfriend.,And I got a few trumpets to have an affair with other boys.,We also talked about her at the beginning.,But it's useless.,If you can persuade it, persuade it.,Don't worry if you can't persuade it.,She'll be unlucky in the end.。

If the relationship is good, I think I will tell her indirectly, that this is not responsible for myself and also irresponsible for others. If you really love someone, you should be sincere to each other, and give up what you don't like.

This kind of thing happened, although there is no loss as a friend, but for the sake of the friend's reputation, it is best to dissuade him from doing so, which is really too bad.

If this friend is married and has a family, I will tell him very seriously that there are only two consequences of doing so, 1Families are broken, wives are separated, and notoriety is far and wide. 2.Cut the mess and clean it quickly, otherwise there will be endless troubles.

If a friend is in love, I will let him weigh the pros and cons and only keep in touch with one person. lest the chickens and eggs be empty in the future.

It depends on what kind of friend it is, if it's very iron, I'll mention it a sentence and a half, if it's just an ordinary friend, blame me for the.

You should counsel him not to do this, and then tell him that he will not get anything in the end!

Persuade her to choose early and be careful of falling short.

I'll try to convince my friend not to do this.

Will tell him, don't ask for yourself.

In my own character, I scolded him first, and then told him what would happen if he continued like this, so that she could get back on track.

What does it matter to me, and they don't step on me.

Do so. Find a chance to ask him, "Many people say that it is difficult to really know a woman's heart in a lifetime, what do you think?" Notice that this is just a primer, and no matter what he says, you go on to say, "Actually, in some ways, women are very selfish.

Next, no matter what he says, you just warm his ...... with an act of affection. It's a combination that is meant to be a subtle reminder to pay attention to your emotional feelings, and if he can remember what you're saying when he's out there, you've achieved your goal. It may be helpful to use this method and draw inferences from others. Best wishes!

Dude, I see that you and your two girlfriends are in contact with each other, and honestly, if they knew, they would have left you. It's better to focus on just one favorite, save some money, and have plenty of time, just a suggestion!

It's your pot friend who just said it, after all, you can't let this kind of thing go to your pot friend, don't regret it later, if the relationship is not good, then there is no need to take care of other people's own affairs, after all, you know what is sweet and sour.

This is your friend's own private matter!

Even if there is a character problem, it is his personal matter, and as far as ordinary friends are concerned, there is still no need for you to get involved.

Obviously, someone else has intervened between you and your girlfriend, and your girlfriend also considers the person who intervened, if she is as firm as you love her, she will reject the boy's pursuit, and not so, which shows that her love is very unfirm, your girlfriend is very realistic, she wants good living conditions, whoever can give her superior material conditions, she will follow whom, it seems that this has nothing to do with love, even if you have a good job in the future, Can you guarantee that your girlfriend won't meet someone better than you? So, it's better to give up as soon as possible, since you are all heartbroken and tired, why do you want to do this, no one can ask anyone to do anything for themselves, there are many good girls in the world, and it should be your girlfriend who is sad, because she has lost a person who loves her deeply, and you should slowly adjust, don't be so sad and sad anymore.

I feel that you are sincere, she is no longer worthy of your love, let it go, and find which one of her really belongs to you.

Don't expect anything, since it's already like this, break up, it's painful, there's no way.

Give it up, love is divided into two kinds, one is possession, and the other is fulfillment.

And this relationship dragged on and on.

Actually, you have the answer in your heart" She said that she still loves me, but I think even if my future is better than that guy in the future, she has changed her mind, but is her affection for me still the original pure love? Is it still worth it for me to love her with all my heart???

Your answer is here.

Don't get yourself dwelled up.

It's all your own time and energy that is wasted.

Give up, the current social feelings are the right one, and whoever is worthy of whom (IMHO). As long as two people truly love each other, start a business together, and create a world, are you afraid that you will have no money? ? He's so powerful, I don't think the elders of another boy will accept him.

Betrayal is hateful, unless you are like her, she has two boats on her feet, and you go on three boats, can you? If not, it's better to give up and get out of the sea of suffering as soon as possible.

There's no need to hang yourself on this tree, there's a big forest waiting for you.

A woman who betrays must not. It's not worth loving her anymore.

Give it up! It's useless to be together again.

When she arrives in a new environment and meets new people, some people don't know that she will definitely have a boyfriend in the past, how can she not get married.

Well, it depends on whether she has learned a lesson, if she doesn't do it again in the future, she is more mature and thinks more comprehensively, changes the environment, and after a long time, everyone doesn't care about and forgets the time or changes to a strange environment, there will still be people chasing and being able to get married.

At least in the current environment, everyone knows that they will definitely not chase it. In the future, if you change the environment, no one will know, and someone will chase you. So don't do bad things.

Regarding why men love fishing, Xiao Zhenyu, a doctor of psychology at Peking University, said that in the early stage of human evolution, men with developed limbs and abundant physical strength were generally responsible for going out to catch prey and collect meat and food, and the most basic task of "fishing" has been deeply engraved in men's genes and passed down from generation to generation. Men develop a strong instinct for aggression during hunting, and fishing allows men to find the best way to release their instinct without losing their cultivation.

1. A leisurely and complacent attitude.

That's why someone is willing to go to another city to live after a life change, and no one knows her unbearable past in a different place. But then again, he often knows his past, and what he can accept is generally true love, and being a person does not exclude people who just play with her.

Of course not, it's hard to say about fate, maybe you'll get married a few days after graduation. Everything goes naturally, there is no need to force it, when fate comes, it can't be stopped.

This kind of thing you don't necessarily cherish even if you have a boyfriend, you don't need to worry about her.

No, you can start again in a different place, and your roommate should be in no mood.

Don't worry about salty radishes, that's someone else's business, don't tire yourself.

The logic of the subject is not right, why is it difficult to marry if no one chases, you say roommate, this is the student era, and you are still young.

Failed twice, and now celebrities are clamoring to fall in love many times, which is a good thing!

Hello! You are also very flowery, this is very bad, you should stick to your own vertical field, just find the one that suits you best. If you don't look like this, you'll have to do something in the future.

The rumors of this game are rising, and they are not ordinary people, either the second official or the second rich two, so they have the financial and material resources to maintain, what should I do, in fact, this is very simple, don't do it all, do it all over again?

If you are not a long handsome or rich or have a good job, then congratulations, this is definitely your personal charm, but I advise you not to be too greedy, one is enough! Choose a favorite or none at all, and start over with a new one.

How handsome and excellent you are.

As a result, you're going to die an ugly death.

Dude, awesome! Being able to pedal four boats without overturning shows that you are very attractive! What a joy to be!

But, have you ever seen an anime called "Day on Campus", in which the male protagonist stepped on two boats and overturned, his ending was ......So, brother advises you to let go early, don't let the four good girls be sad for you, otherwise, it won't be enough for you to die twice!

I probably understood after reading it, in fact, when I read half of your description, I found that your situation was a good choice, but as a prudence, I still finished reading it, and by the way, I read all the answers of others and your follow-up.

Let's not talk about the problem of pedaling two boats, let's talk about how you should choose.

A is clearly not for you.

Because she obviously can't bear the pressure that the family gives her, from the fact that he took the initiative to break up with you 2 times. As for whether she can stand it, it's not for you to consider. In fact, if she really can't stand it, she shouldn't come to you, but to her parents.

In fact, it is very simple, you express to her, "You also knew that you couldn't bear the pressure of your parents, otherwise it would be like this, if you can convince your parents, let's reconcile" or something like that. In this way, you (including b) will not be harmed.

In addition, don't listen to her "post-graduation loan" (to be able to say this kind of thing at least superficially 2 points: 1. She is not mature at all, and only thinks about the present and does not think about the future; 2. She doesn't think about you at all, how easy is the loan thing). I can tell you responsibly that the loan is not having a good time, and the conclusion from many of my friends is:

No matter how much two people love each other, decades after marriage are just as dull, so when looking for a wife, you have to find a worry-free one (such as B).

There is another point to say, because I met a woman before, her situation is similar to A, and she is also a stupid woman, but the difference is that she married the man, but after the marriage, she found that "poor couples mourn", and regretted it not long after she became pregnant. Later, I paid attention to it, this situation is quite common, and the average woman will always become realistic, but it is just a matter of time. And A's situation is obvious, you can't endure hardship, and taking out a loan means suffering losses, so in order to avoid you losing A and missing B in the end, I suggest that you give up A and choose B

Then talk about the problem of stepping on two boats, in fact, your current situation is also okay, after all, you and A can see each other less (the reason is that her parents do not agree, to avoid being discovered, etc.), as for the specific time arrangement, you still have to grasp it yourself. But I have to warn you that it's easy to get through two boats, and you can lose two people at the same time.

If it helps you, remember to adopt it

Although I have zero IQ in love, I suggest you become good friends with the latter! Get along well with your ex-girlfriend. If you and your ex-girlfriend naturally broke up because of disagreement, let's have a relationship with the latter.

Thank you for that. Of course, this is a premise. Don't know who these two you like more and who do you love more?

The latter has no thoughts on you. Also, when you get along with the latter (friendship), look at the best of you and the two. What about the latter's character, if the latter's character is not good, don't chase it.