In the relationship, if the man loves the woman enough, can the woman be herself without too much sc

Updated on society 2024-05-17
21 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Love is to be managed by both parties, and it is not something that one party can grow old with a fee. Since the man likes the woman, then the woman must exchange the same love for the man's like, so it is fair, his liking is never conniving, freedom within the scope of morality and law I believe he will support you, but once you break through the scope of morality and law, I believe that no matter how much he loves you, he will not forgive you? And it depends on how you do yourself, if you don't care about the man's feelings and trample on his love, then I will be the same as the two of you break up.

    One more thing, think about your boyfriend before you do yourself. Empathy, if it were you, how much would you accept your boyfriend to be yourself, whether it is your minimum to talk to other girls, or whether it is your minimum to develop closer to other girls. Again, let your boyfriend decide if you can accept it.

    You can't be too selfish to be a man, you are holding your boyfriend's sincerity while on the verge of letting go of yourself, it's okay for him to accept it, if he doesn't accept it, do you make him even more heartbroken.

    No matter how much he loves you, he has a bottom line of his own. It doesn't matter if you play at will within this bottom line, it doesn't matter if you make trouble at will, once you touch this bottom line, your boyfriend will definitely break up with you, but I think you are a little selfish, why should your boyfriend give you enough love so that you can be yourself, why can't you give him enough love and let him be himself? It's really tiring to run a thing like love alone, maybe you're used to the feeling of being spoiled, and you're also used to the feeling of your boyfriend listening to you, so you can't feel it, you can "swap identities" and let everyone understand what each other is like.

    I would suggest that you give him the same level of love. In this way, your love can be maintained together for a long time. If you don't believe it, you can give it a try, and it will definitely end up in a breakup.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Girls can be themselves at any time, but you can't rely on the man's love for you to act arbitrarily, just do things in a measured way.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If you say you do what you say you don't tire each other out, yes. Intimacy also requires maintaining some mystery, which is the secret to maintaining a relationship.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    No, feelings are mutually giving, and only then will we experience love and be loved together, and we will be tired after taking the initiative for a long time.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    No, it is impossible for the man to pay unilaterally for the woman forever in the relationship, so even if you love again, you will be very tired and disappointed. Falling in love is a matter of two people, and both parties should work together.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    No, if a person keeps giving, then it will be very tiring, love should be mutual, there should not be only one party to give.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's the opposite, it's the other way, it's the other way around, you have to be yourself first, and the man will always love you. It's not that the man loves you enough that you can be yourself. Think about whether a man loves you as you are, or if he loves you as he is!

    Are you pretending to be? If you disguise yourself, can you disguise for a while, or can you pretend for a lifetime? Aren't you tired?

    The most comfortable relationship is that we can all be ourselves and attract each other by our true selves.

    But the real self is not freewheeling, even your parents can't love you unconditionally, you expect a bloodless man to carry your feelings, not to mention that love is eighteen months.

    No one likes a person with all kinds of shortcomings, who is unwilling to correct them, and who is not willing to pay.

    There is no need to change your personality in love, after the ambiguous period, you have to start showing your boundaries and bottom line, and both parties have to make certain adjustments. It's not about being completely yourself, it's not about being just accommodating.

    Show your bottom line little by little, slowly run in, adjust and run in well, the relationship will become more and more harmonious, and the two people will feel more and more comfortable in this relationship.

    If you are interested in this guy, you can be a little careful in the process of getting to know him, but you don't need to make any embellishments in terms of personality. You can tap on what he's interested in to show that you're interested and talk to him about the topic, and if you don't understand, remember to go back and check the information this time and talk to him on the next date. The man will think that you can talk to him very well, which is also very important in a relationship, even if you can't be a couple, you can make friends.

    Secondly, learn to show your strengths in dating, know how to reveal your shining points, pay attention to dressing, and clothing is also a plus.

    The best love is what you have, what is lacking in me, maybe not perfect, that is the torture of light and water.

    If you're single all your life, it's because you're a perfect person. People spend their lives looking for another person not as much as you give yourself. Unless you are me, you can be with you day and night, and you are me.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    The order is wrong, it's the love that you only gain after you are yourself, and the other party likes you the most real, so you don't have to think too much.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Don't pretend to be yourself in a relationship to cater to each other, show your true self to the other person's love, and let the other person like the real self instead of pretending to be the one you the other party likes.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You can be yourself, but no matter what you do, you have to think about the other person and consider the other person's feelings.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    No. Feelings need to be maintained by both parties, even if the other party loves you very much, you also need to pay, you need to take into account the other party's feelings.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    1.Never change yourself in order to copy to please your boyfriend, only by being your truest self can you determine whether he really loves you, because after two people have been together for a long time, there will be a lot of contradictions and shortcomings exposed, so insist on being yourself.

    3.Be a mature lover. Falling in love tends to lower a person's IQ, and they tend to lose themselves in a relationship in order to please others, so mature up, talk about a mature and passionate relationship, and love each other well.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Girls come to fall in love for the first time, you can chat and go shopping, bai but you must be reserved, in a short period of time when each other is not enough to understand, don't let boys go to their own homes casually, don't have intimate contact, don't go to a place where no one is, don't be alone at home alone, don't have sex before getting a marriage certificate to officially get married, these you should grasp.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Clause.

    1. Don't confess too early.

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    When a boy has a good feeling, don't confess too early, which will make the boy think you are frivolous, it is best to get to know each other more through friends and other channels, and through some initial contact, have a deeper understanding of him, and then choose a suitable time to confess.

    Clause. 2. Don't keep mentioning your ex-boyfriend.

    When many girls talk about love, they will compare the current with the previous one, especially when they find that the current one is not as good as the previous one in some aspects, they will complain or be unhappy. No one likes to be compared, always mentioning the previous term will make the current boyfriend very uncomfortable, and mentioning it too much will only affect the relationship.

    Clause. 3. Don't take love as everything.

    Many girls will make this mistake after having love, taking love as everything, so that they can not remain independent outside of love, so that they will soon lose themselves, if they lose love one day, they may lose the whole world.

    Clause. 4. Don't be together out of pity.

    Love is that you love him and he loves you. Don't be with someone out of pity, it will not only hurt others, but you will eventually hurt yourself, and it will cause endless trouble.

    Clause. Fifth, leave a little decency for the other party.

    Boys are so decent, remember not to hurt his self-esteem when quarreling, especially in front of outsiders, decency is a man's bottom line, if you don't give him face, maybe the relationship will be irreparable.

    Clause. 6. Don't talk about the past.

    It's better to talk less about the past life, let the past pass, and don't keep talking about the past, which will only make people bored.

    Clause. 7. Respect each other's privacy.

    Keep some of your own privacy and don't snoop on his privacy. Many people feel that they should confess everything to the other party, and reveal everything they have to the other party, which will make the other party feel guilty, it is better to keep some of their own privacy, and also respect the privacy of the other party, there is no need to know everything.

    Clause. 8. Know how to understand others.

    Many girls don't understand boys, and the so-called brotherhood is what boys value more, so girls should understand him and understand his naïve thoughts.

    To sum up, the above listed matters must be paid attention to in the process of love, girls must fully understand and avoid happening, otherwise it will affect the emotional development of couples.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    1.It's best to feel good about yourself.

    2.There may be resentment towards your parents, society, colleagues, etc., that you should be older than her. But your unwavering attitude will make them identify with you.

    3."Go your own way and let others do the talking". This classic phrase has fulfilled countless people.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    My husband is three years younger than me, tell you how I feel.

    My husband and I still love each other very much, and this kind of sibling love is a little different from the general sibling love.

    The old saying that a female junior hugs a gold brick is not wrong at all.

    The woman is older than the man, she will take good care of you, and she will be very willing to be coquettish in front of you, because you are younger than her, like a child, then she is more willing to be a child in front of the "child", without pretending to be mature.

    Well, anyway, my husband and I don't do that, only once or twice a month, I don't know if it's because of my age, he doesn't have much interest in me.

    But my husband is still more obedient, of course, if he is right, I will listen to him.

    It's good that you like her, it's not easy to find someone you like.

    After getting married, if two people love each other and there is no barrier to communication, then they are still very happy.

    Bless you

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I'm older than my boyfriend.

    Hehe, the age of this society is definitely not a problem now, the key is whether the degree of integration between you is compatible or not, and whether you will run well when you start a family in the future.

    Generally speaking, the question of age, in fact, in my own experience, is not a question of how old you are, but whether a boy is mature enough, because although your girlfriend is older than you, she still wants to be treated as your baby in front of you, and your girlfriend is pampered, not as your sister to take care of you, to comfort you, that is, you should treat her as a girlfriend instead of beating you a woman of how old you are, so that you will not feel pressured again, and she will be happier, because generally men who are younger than themselves always like to say something more sensitive and teasing For example: You're older than me, and I like you, you're amazing, whatever... It's not good to put the sensitive word age on your lips So that girls will be unhappy and feel that their boyfriend is so naïve If you love her, don't mind so much Hehe, at least we are like this Although I am older than my boyfriend, but he makes me feel very secure and very stable On the other hand, he always says what should you do if I don't take care of you that day Saying that I am like a child who can't take care of myself This kind of thing makes people sound very comfortable Hehe, I believe your girlfriend is also in the same mentality as me Age is not a problem, the key is to see if you can control it With love, everything is possible No fuss If you are afraid of losing her, love her well Don't ask such strange questions Hehe, I wish you happiness.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Female junior, hugging gold bricks.

    Female senior, what are you afraid of?

    Age doesn't matter, feelings are the best. Hope you all have a happy relationship.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    ((Therefore!) There is no absolute result and statement for the difference in age, those are all prejudices The key is whether it is compatible or not, whether it is happy or not, depends on the love outlook and character of the two

    If you are holding a female junior, holding a gold brick, or something older than you, the age difference is not suitable, it can only mean that the love between you is not strong, and this is indeed a level.

    If you look at this guy, you must be studying psychology or sociology.

    It's very realistic.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    In this society, how many 20 are more mature than 24, more than that, the maturity of the individual heart is not the same, the older age, it is not necessarily the love of sister and brother, who takes care of who is not necessarily, love is love, care about other eggs.

    Lao Tzu is love, how are you?

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If your girlfriend is 4 years older than you, then the biggest benefit for you is: 1, she will know how to love you more, do things, manage a family, and do business more carefully, 2, her life experience and social knowledge are relatively rich, and she will feel very safe with older people, and will increase her knowledge, this kind of person is more able to take care of people, because she is not too impulsive like people of the same age, and she will be thoughtful in doing things.

    Age should not be a major issue. True feelings are irrespective of age, and the problem itself is within yourself. You yourself have to understand what you need, you have mentioned above "premise, I really like her."

    I don't want to be separated from her" shows that you love her very much, so don't care what others say when you really love someone. No matter how you look at it, don't think about what age gap is good or not, what are the pros and cons, when the person you fall in love with. You don't have to think about age.

    To love someone is to add a lot of rules. Isn't that kind of love a burden? If the two really like it, why care about age?

    True love has no limits. It is rare to get a true love, especially in this society ... Cherish it.

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