Parents feel like they re trading 10 for our family events

Updated on culture 2024-05-28
29 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Now is a money society, parents think about money issues rather than feelings, and they often think that the personalities are compatible, and everything is OK if they are the right person. They think that if you marry a poor man, you will have a heavier burden in the future, and if your mother-in-law's family often asks you to help, it will affect your quality of life. So it's still a very serious problem.

    In case your mother-in-law still has children in school or something, your burden will be heavier again.

    If your relationship is really good, you might as well communicate with your parents, feelings are the most important thing, and a marriage without feelings is not happy no matter how much money you have. The development of society is different, and it is too different from their time. Talk to them.

    I hope you have a lover and eventually become married.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Having a relationship doesn't mean that everything else is not important, at least you have to get by, so that you can be responsible for your future life.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    This is a common problem for parents nowadays!

    But give understanding, they hurt you! After all, if a girl marries well, she can struggle for several years less!

    They don't want you to live a poor life after you get married!

    Of course, the potential of a man should be believed. No one can be rich for a lifetime, and no one can be poor for a lifetime!

    Women still have to be independent, especially financially.

    Communicate with your parents often, it is beneficial and harmless, you should still listen, but you must also have your own opinions.

    Even if you are not so happy in the future, your parents will still help you unconditionally. If you live a happy life, your parents will also be happy in their old age.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    In fact, maybe she is for the good of her own woman, and you express your opinion to them.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You can suffer for the sake of your beloved, but your parents don't want to see you suffer. It's as simple as that. Because of love.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    What age is it, there are still selling women to raise money for my brother to get married. When you are old enough to be able to pay, come out and work, and don't stay next to your parents, lest they always force you. Lifelong happiness must be cautious.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You're not wrong, women's status is still not valued, try to be strong and support you!!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You're right, it's a lifelong event and your lifelong happiness.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Marriage is two families, love is personal, and it is very important to listen to your parents' opinions when you get married.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Your own opinions are the main thing, and your parents' opinions are supplemented, and when the two disagree, listen to your own heart.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Make your own decisions about your own happiness!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    The banquet hall of Wanhe Yalong International Hotel is very good, if I were your friend, I would recommend that place to you.

    The environment is elegant, with a minimum of 30 tables. The taste of the dish is very good and affordable, recommend you there.

    Hold a wedding. <>

    Contact: Manager Yang.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Miss, your information doesn't indicate that you are **, how can I help you.

    Check it out and go to the hotel manager to find out that getting married is a big deal.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Hehe, a question, where is the location?

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    You don't even have an address???

    The Great Hotel of the Earth is quite suitable for you!!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Yes, yes, that's good.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    You have to say that you are a ** person, it is impossible that you are from Beijing, so call you to Guangzhou.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Which city are you in?

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    This depends on your area and your personal conditions, I am from Ningbo, such as good conditions can go to Nanyuan Hotel, Shangri-La Hotel, general can go to Xiangyang Fishing Port, Inspire Hotel and so on. In short, according to your current conditions!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Yes, which city are you in? Let's help you choose, hehe.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Speak from your heart. Leave what you get. If you don't leave, you can weigh it yourself, and the answer is to tell yourself, for example. He gave me enough money to spend. Even if the junior sleeps together, he can accept it.

    Instead, after leaving, I went to sweep the streets. I'm very comfortable and not entangled, I'm just giving examples of two extremes, giving up this thing, having to give it to think about it yourself.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    First of all, as a woman, you must learn to be independent, and then rationally consider whether such a person is worthy of being together again; In other words, it's good to get together and disperse.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Ask him first, and after he admits it, he decisively divorced.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    The life span of the earth is no problem in the next 10 billion years, but if we humans do our own evil, then there is no way, I feel that the world will be divided for a long time, and now there is a feeling that the mountain rain is about to come and the wind is full of buildings!

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    2012 is almost here.

    Let's look forward to this beautiful day.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Hehe.. Sixth sense, sometimes it's because it's too stressful, so relax

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    You're in the same situation as my grandmother's family. is very stubborn, even if he quarrels with children, he will never give in, he must overwhelm children, my grandmother taught my aunt that they must "suppress" others. Several of my mother's aunts are divorced, and I am relieved for the "men" they once were.

    My mom and I can't communicate about anything, we just can't even talk, sometimes she doesn't let anyone talk (it's unreasonable), sometimes she insists on going her own way, disagrees with it, and if you don't agree, it hurts you.

    Even if it affects you, you have to be grateful to her. First of all, if you want to discuss it with her, you don't have a chance, because as I have already said, she doesn't let anyone talk. If you want to blame her, it's impossible, the more you blame only you, the more unlucky you are, because she has burdened you, she is the boss, she wants you to die, you have to die.

    So, it becomes that she killed everyone else, and in turn everyone has to thank her for killing them, and say, what a good person she is, how good she is to those who are killed by her, and she is grateful. She's also the boss when she makes huge mistakes.

    Such a "family of rulers" is a very unfortunate thing for relatives and outsiders (the experience of our family has confirmed my words, and I will not explain it more), and it is extremely gratifying for most of those who have not met them and been their neighbors.

    People like this have no choice but to "kill without mercy". :)Of course, I won't "kill" them, and I can't stay away, because I am very unfortunate that one of the members of this family, if it is someone else, of course, can be respected, but should be abandoned. If one day, they all have an accident, there is really nothing to be sorry for, and it is very worthwhile to contribute to the normal life of others.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    If you want to see something, you have to listen to men for some things. It's not good to be too stubborn. Seeing a psychologist is a good way to do it in a different way, for example, in a café with a psychologist, not in a psychological counseling center.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    This may be because the parents' education is too successful.

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