Can the scars in the heart be eliminated The wounds in the heart are always difficult to remove

Updated on psychology 2024-05-20
14 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I read in a ** book that everyone has a nerve near the neck, which is specifically designed to control blushing, and if this nerve is removed, there will be no blushing again.

    But at present, I haven't heard of a nerve that is used to control people's memories of injury, and I think if there is, it must be more than just a nerve, because human injury is made up of memory, do you believe it?

    If a person is hurt in a certain part of their memory, then the shorter you recall those things, the less harm you will suffer from it.

    There is also a saying that today is different from yesterday precisely because the feelings of yesterday are still --- in my heart

    Do you understand? --Human memory cannot be completely erased, so the injury will not disappear completely, and the wound cannot be completely healed. However, the only thing that people can control in this world is the present, the past is completed, you can't change it, the future is the number of knowledge, you can't predict it, only the present is the most real, please grasp it.

    Too many memories of the past can sink a person.

    So why let yourself always live in the shadows of the past? Break free from the hurt of the past, reality is the best medicine!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    If it can't be eliminated, no one will understand what kind of pain it is, and when the pain can't be done, persuade yourself: grit your teeth and it will pass. That's it, friend. One can be more wonderful is self-deception. Why lie to yourself, and then meet and settle down.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If I'm not mistaken, you must be emotionally traumatized! Actually, this is normal! You don't have to be too depressed!

    Water under the bridge! You want to! Time has passed, and it can't be recovered, so you should regard the scars in your heart as time!

    Let time dilute it all! Don't think too much, don't put too much pressure on yourself, it will make yourself miserable! Don't you think?

    Life can't be smooth, and if you get a little scar, it's inevitable. As long as you have a correct attitude, look at the world with an optimistic heart, and see your future, I think your future must be very beautiful!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Distract yourself! Do things, do what you like, you will slowly forget, of course, you have to forget, if you subconsciously you don't want to forget, then everything is in vain.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It's all about your mindset. If you think about that scar all the time. Even if there is no matter how clever the technology is. You won't forget either. Or face it bravely. Recreate your own new life.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Can time really heal the wounds? At most, it will only dilute the previous feeling Memories can't be erased, let alone healed, unless that time was just for fun (you) can forget that person's appearance, expression. But there are some memories that can't be erased!!

    Be strong, there are always some "very beautiful scenery" on the road of life, not a permanent smile, and go on strongly.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Relax more, watch more humorous movies, entertainment programs...

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Yes, time is a great thing, it dilutes everything. Hopefully, you'll really be healed by that day.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Time, time is constant, and you will forget.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Listen to the songs of the Flower Band, you see how cute and lively the lead singer Da Zhang Wei is, I like it so much!

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Text |A little lonely guest in green shirts.

    The wounds on the body are always visible and healable, even if it sometimes takes a lot of time, even if there will be scars, but in the end it will be fine, but the wounds in the heart are not necessarily, no one knows if you don't say it, you can only rely on yourself to ** yourself.

    We have indeed heard a lot of truths, but many things cannot be used to convince ourselves, harm is harm, relief is always difficult to do, we are just ordinary people, we can't forgive the mistakes of others, this is an instinct.

    Once some injuries are caused, they are irreparable, they will be cautious when they are deceived, and they dare not easily start the next paragraph when they are hurt, because once people's hearts are hurt, they can't look at people and things as they did at the beginning.

    It turns out that on this road of life, each of us has some scars in our hearts, and we keep moving forward, this is the price of growth or fate, maybe there is no answer.

    Thank you for reading and may you be well.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Time is the best medicine, as time goes by, everything is no longer as unforgettable as it was at the beginning, adjust your mentality, life is short, youth is limited, you will not have too much time to wait to reminisce and pain, face everything with a normal heart, you will have more energy to face the future!

    Forgetting is a much deeper memory. Therefore, don't deliberately forget, everyone has their own journey, there will be all kinds of passers-by in the journey, every relationship and every experience is the mark left by life, whether the memories are beautiful or painful, they have already happened, learn to thank everyone in life who has met or parted.

    Learning to forget is not easy to do, because many sorrows and shames that cannot be forgotten are unforgettable. Then, we need to treat the problem with a normal heart. Since it happened, it is destined to be irreparable.

    When you're crying over missing the sun, you're also missing the stars.

    When you're lost and sad, it's best to learn to forget. Don't care about the road under your feet, the scenery ahead is more charming.

    The past is gone, but what is left is the best memory, so why deliberately forget it. Although you can't be with him, you have good memories, I believe he will also keep your good memories in his heart forever, loving someone is to make him happy, to make him happy, but the premise of his happiness is that you are happy, are you happy, do what you want to do, happiness and unhappiness are in your heart, and when Shiye Li slowly passes, when you find your other half, you will put your memories in the bottom of your heart, and bring your blessings to him with the same memories, Let him pass in the past, short-term heartache is inevitable, but don't let yourself deliberately forget anything, it will be more painful, as long as you think you are happy, you will always be happy!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Who doesn't have fireworks in their lives? Who doesn't have a peach blossom in their life? Whose memory is not a back that was once far away? Whose love is not a cruel book.

    Love is far away, memories are transparent colors, and gradually the original colors are not visible. I can only paint the love in my heart with golden anti-rust paint, and what I have preserved is a memory of love. After many years, you may not remember the face of your lover, and you realize that you are in love with love, not that person.

    If tears save love, then love is not a stubborn "stone"; If a kind of residual liquid can wash away all the scars of people, then the tears of love are a kind of liquid in the depths of the soul, it is often a hidden weapon where you are careless, when the years of your "wind and snow" have passed, "people are in the rivers and lakes, the body can't help themselves" "people are in the sea of love, who can not be knifed", love it does not change all you have and are now because you cry, after all, the tears are not thick for your years of emotional process, even if you are a river of tears. Love doesn't believe in tears, and tears don't believe in love!

    Whatever it is. No matter what the emotion. Love, hate. Sad. Hi Round Book will be indifferent with time. will be carried away by the years. "Forget" the past, cherish the present, and look forward to the future. This is our happy life.

    There are many times in life when you need to consciously give up, because when you have, you may be losing, and when you give up, you may be regaining. Those who understand know how to give up, those who are true know how to sacrifice, and those who are happy know how to detach.

    For those who don't love themselves, what is most needed is understanding, renunciation, and blessing. Too much self-inflicted affection is begging for alms. Loving and being loved are all things that make people happy.

    Don't let this turn into pain. Now that you've been through it, years later, it's a good memory to think about it once in a while. Live more confidently, be happier in Orange, leave the most beautiful smile to the person who hurts you the most, and smart people know that they want to be happy.

    Cherish the people you love and the people who love you.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If you meet your beloved in your life, you can say that you are lucky, and no matter what the outcome is, you can be said to be happy, right? White-headed to old, of course, it is very good, if you break up, or sad for love, you are also very happy, after all, you have loved, you are crying for love, heartbreak for love, once very romantic, two people can be crazy in the winter wind, stroll under the summer rain, even if the original lover has gone away but the romantic plot of love is still buried in your heart, isn't this also a very happy thing? If you really love someone, that person will appear in your heart when you want to forget the most, and will appear in your heart when you are most sad and lost, but you want to think about it but you can't be sure whether to tell him how you feel now, your current distress, because you care about her feelings, care about her thoughts.

    But sometimes the more you care, the easier it is to lose, the easier it is to get hurt. Is this love? This kind of love is very painful, just like me, love should not be like the dirt in the hand, the more you grasp it, the easier it will flow down, and in the end all that is left is a small amount of dust.

    If love is the same, the more love there is, the easier it is to lose, so do we have to keep a certain distance, a distance between our hearts? But in that case, where will we intersect? It's a pity to miss the natural intersection of the sleepy macro.

    We are always waiting, those footprints of happiness, when you look back again, she has disappeared, it turns out that happiness is ahead.

    Pay by yourself, don't regret losing that feeling, no one only falls in love and doesn't do anything else in his life, maybe when you turn around, she leaves you, such things are unavoidable, and they happen every day. Don't believe in those loves**, because we are living in reality, not fairy tales, and no one will wait for anyone for a lifetime.

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